So early on in our relationship when we were dating my now wife mentioned and made it seem that she wouldn't like it if I was fatter. With subtle joking comments like "I would get your but in the gym if you got a big butt like that guy". Although I never really would get a big butt....that just isn't my figure. As far as a big belly I assumed it must have been the same situation with her not liking it.

She did however a few times way in the past, when she was under the influence of alcohol, actually pat and shake a few guy friends of our's bellies. They both happened to be bigger and have some really big guts for guy's our age back then. I mean they had the kind of guts that people on this site would be very envious of and really adore.

So fast forward many many many years later. I have unintentionally gained many times and a few years ago decided to intentionally gain after realizing I accidentally put on a noticeable amount of weight. I intentionally kept gaining trying to get some comments or a reaction out of my wife. I actually became consumed and extremely aroused by myself getting as fat as I could. I believe It was so intense because there had been a lack of my wife gaining for many years and her being near the slimmest she had been for a long time.....although she was slowly starting t gain back much of the weight she had previously lost. Anyhow I kept eating and gaining, while straining to fit my huge Gut at this point into any of my dress slacks, shirts and jeans. She still mentioned nothing even with a 30+ Lb. gain over several months. I stuffed all the time and after a while eating that much was not a chore but became a necessity. In fact I was like a Fat glutton always needing deserts after every meal and many snacks in between until it almost seemed like I was eating continually throughout the day. A few months later I was nearly 45 Lbs. bigger and most all of it was in My huge muscle chub Gut. My wife never commented other than a couple times when she was once again under the influence of a few cocktails at the time and was nothing more than some patting and jiggling me.

So, it has been probably more than a year and a half since I had the biggest gain and Gut of my life. But I have still not lost to the point where I am below 230 Lbs. So the other day I stepped on the scale at the gym and it said 244 Lbs. So once again without really noticing I sneakly gained 14 Lbs. over the last few months. But this time I think my wife has noticed it or has expressed it earlier on this time. The other night for dinner after preparing me an obnoxiously huge plate of mexican food for dinner (2 huge Burritos, cheese enchilada, beans, rice as soon as I finished she said "can I get you another plate"?
I thought to myself "are you kidding me" barely being able to move after all she fed me. I said "No, I am full". The next day we were out with some friends and My friend said in front of both of our wives "I can't seem to lose any weight these days, I just keep getting bigger and bigger". I didn't reply and before I knew it his next comment was directed at me, he said "It look's like you have found a few Lbs. on your waistline as well". I felt a bit embarrassed and my wife commented "I think he still look's hot". Wow, did I really hear that?

So the next night when we were out to eat at dinner, I couldn't take my eyes off of my wives overly plumped and fattened lower belly straining out through her now very tight dress. As I glanced again her big belly with overly big lower belly was spilled out onto her lap while seated. As I was finishing my meal she reached over and gently rubbed and caressed my belly and said "did you get enough to eat" I said "yes" and she then asked "was it enough to fill you up" I was in awe just as I said "yes" she gently slid her hand under the crease in my lower belly while I was seated and continued to gently cup her hand sliding gently back and forth under the extreme roundness and size of my belly overhanging my waistband which is much to tight again these days.

I have so many questions as to what this recent action on her part might mean.

Does she show these subtle signs loving me getting a bigger Gut only when she has been drinking because she is to embarrassed otherwise?

I don't know....any thought from any women feeders....does she have feeder tendencies?

Thoughts to this may shed some light

I definitely need this in my life whether it be my wife (Ideally) or me in short stints to get the weight gain fix.

I have always tried to implement weight gain into reality in my life. It is to much of a driving force and something inside of me to ever just leave to fantasy.

Every girlfriend I had ever had was slightly chubby to semi Fat and this went up in scale chronologically. My wife is the ultimate turn on for me especially when she gains weight.

There have been several times in the last few years that there was a void in weight gain on my wife and I unintentionally started to gain some weight myself and decided to intentionally gain and it was soooo damn arousing with myself getting a huge Gut and my wife fattening up at a slower pace but still gaining.

Weight gain is something that I can't just dream about but definitely need it in my life.

Yea.....I experienced the same things while intentionally gaining and having good success.

The bigger I got the more I wanted to get bigger and also the more I couldn't stop eating a ton.

While I always seemed to be stuffed and bloated I found it increasingly harder to move around and found myself groaning a bit out loud with movements getting up off of couch or even from a chair. I became much lazier and really never considered activity as much but mostly would think about when and what I was going to eat next. I continued this cycle of unbelievably huge food consumption and it made me even more aroused the bigger I got.

So, it definitely changed the way I acted and it sort of spiraled out of control for a while. Likewise I never felt guilty about eating fast food, donuts, multiple cokes per day....actually it became almost a need to eat and drink those things.

Also, when I tried to eat smaller portions and healthier at first it was almost impossible and I began to cheat on several occasions and gave in and ate even more than I would have otherwise almost to the point where I couldn't even move. There were several weeks where I thought I lost all control and I might just keep gaining out of control because I couldn't even come close to controlling my appetite.

So, all of a sudden those stereotypes seemed very real. I felt content just sitting and eating with my huge gut sitting on my lap out in front of me feeling like it was getting bigger by the minute. I would eat huge amounts and then feel sleepy and relax and after relaxing felt like starting back in again eating.

Interesting thread!

I would say she must get some fascination out of you being fatter....especially since you gained so much weight.

But with that said women can be kind of confusing....my wife when we first met and were dating for a while mentioned, while I was pretty muscular with a bit of a muscle chub gut, that I was to big and that I should lean up. On one or more occasion I would see her early on in our relationship playfully tease a couple of my friends, that became her close friends as well, that happened to have really big fat bellies. We were always slightly intoxicated but she would would pat and jiggle their bellies with a really "devilish little girl" face.

Fast forward to the last several years....and I have gone through several intentional gaining periods on myself.....mostly because of a lack of bigger weight gain on my wife. I gained around 40 Lbs. and was slightly over 260 Lbs. which the good majority went to my belly making look pretty Fat. She never really mentioned anything other than a few comments and jiggles when she was slightly intoxicated. During this time she was feeding me huge portions at dinner and offering seconds. If I asked for a bowl of ice cream...it would be absolutely huge and over flowing close to 1/4 gallon or more.

So, I questioned whether she liked me Fat or was she just being nice with larger portions because she saw how much I began to eat back then. I still am not totally sure.

I think maybe she liked that I was gaining more weight than she had gained.
I also think that she has a little hidden desire for Fat or teasing that comes out when she is intoxicated.

So, I am not to sure how to answer your question.....you figure it seems like a simple answer but I think there a variations to everything. Your wife may like being a homemaker and is just feeding you so much more because you consume it and she doesn't want to deprive you. Also, you think there would be more tell signs....like her going crazy touching your belly all the time.

I think that this is extremely sexy.

My wife several years after her pregnancies was asked several times if she was pregnant in a matter of words.

She happened to hold on to her gorgeous bigger belly and actually gained a little more for over two years after her last birth. She tended to wear longer full length dresses that were slightly flowy but in the hips, butt and of course the belly were really snug and made her look like she was 8+ months pregnant although her belly was much softer and jiggly.....so I don't blame them for thinking especially because she was so beautiful and we usually had our baby and small children with us....people assumed we had another one on the way.

Pregnant women are beautiful to me.

Funny thing! The other day going through the line at our grocery store feeling a little embarrassed ....Ok a lot embarrassed when I put up 4 pints of ben n jerrys, 2 boxes of ice cream sandwiches, 4 packages of cookies, 2 bags of chocolates and a few bags of chips and nothing else.

I felt very strange.... not that anyone said anything but I felt very strange.

Our grocery store doesn't have a self check out or that would certainly be an option for me.

It's crazy to think how awkward I felt and my wife pretty much killed all that in 4-5 days so I am back at it....I might have to find a self checkout store close by.

Whoop's...that seems to be on my mind quite a bit!

Especially with all kind's of Fat around lately.

For me:

1. My balance is slightly off with a fast gain
2. Bending over (as mentioned) takes my breath away
3. Clumsier movements
4. When sitting straight up my belly sits out in front of me on my lap
5. bending over to tie shoes is way more difficult
6. A little embarrassing how much I need to eat to get full
7. Much lazier, I think about eating more than I do moving


For my wife:

1. Watching her slower movements with her extra weight
2. Watching how fast she eats now....like someone will steal her food.
3. Watching her eat desserts slowly and softly like she is having an orgasm
4. Watching her go through a bar of bath soap in the shower very quickly with all the weight she has gained in the last year or so
5. Watching her sit down on the couch with her belly out in front of her on her lap
6. Watching her put on an article of clothing in the closet and change 2 or 3 times because it didn't fit and then come out with something on that fit's but look's a couple sizes to small now (I love this one)
7. Watching her buy all kinds of snacks and treats at the store knowing she doesn't plan on dieting anytime soon because her appetite has got the best of her (really love this one)

My wives hands/fingers stay relatively slim even when she gains a lot. Which in itself is one of those weight gain contradictions that turn me on.....kinda like a really slim face with a huge belly on a woman.

I did have an ex girlfriend that every time she gained weight her fingers and hands really got fatter. She actually could have been a hand model....perfect creamy smooth skin long fingers and even when they fattened up were so sexy and seductive....you almost just wanted to touch them and hold them. She could not wear any of her rings by the end of our dating being that she gained so much weight.

There might be a pretty big percentage based on observation.....but I think all has to do with personal preference.

With all that said I happen to be an athletic guy/jock growing up and was always attracted to FA/weight gain on my women.

When I met my wife I was a muscular gym guy and she happened to be a thicker gym type girl.....even though we didn't work out together.....because I always liked a good figure on a woman but with a lot of extra weight. Even though my wife/girlfriend at the time worked out she used to be a little fatter before I knew her and still had a little belly bulge and huge fat breasts that she packed into her work out clothes. I always envisioned her fattening up which she did and so did I.

So, I guess in this case you are right I turned into a muscle chub with a big ole gut and she is an ex thick workout girl that became a fattened up beautiful wife.