Another one:

When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!

Another one:

When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!

Not exactly and expression but I am extremely turned on by:


Being oblivious to a big weight gain! When the woman has gained a good amount of weight and they seem kind of oblivious to the fact and still stuff themselves in clothing that doesn't fit and or stuff themselves with hugely fattening foods and deserts.

The vulnerability of a woman becoming Fat and out of shape hindering their movements, their stamina and overall control of their new huge appetite.

* Watching my wife eat large portions of food and going back for treat after treat and she can't stop snacking

* Watching her after she is finally done eating with her totally full, satisfied and submissive. Looking at her fatter and thinking how much fatter she will be getting eating out of control like this.

* Watching my wife after she has gained a good amount struggle to fit into her clothes ....and now she only wears fluffy maternity tops with her extra tight jeans to mask her huge muffin top and love handles.

* Watching my wife after she gets dried off out of the shower and has on her Bra and panties that have both become very tight and small on her from her gaining walk across the room to the closet with her belly shaking and bouncing from side to side and up and down as well as her breasts jiggling out of control.

* Listening to my wife tell me that she has gotten so Fat right before she eats a pint of Ben n Jerry's after dinner and then after finishing starts to stuff herself with cookies and chocolates until she has trouble breathing because her big belly is so stuffed.

Plenty more.... these are just a few....to get started!

I agree "Loss of self control" with eating is in itself an extremely sexy part of this weight gain fetish for me these days.

When I notice my wife has gained a good amount of weight and then I watch her eat way larger portions at meals followed directly by something sweet right after and then she gets into a pattern of constantly snacking all night long after dinner.....it is so sexy. The best is when she gets in these uncontrollable pattern and starts sneaking extra snacks by just standing in the pantry after dinner and putting chocolate after chocolate in her mouth after she has already finished off a pint of Ben n jerry's.

The ultimate arousal with this loss of control has only happened a couple of times....one way back after she was pregnant for the last time with our third child and she was trying intensely to lose her pregnancy weight. Well, 6 months had gone by and she not only didn't lose any weight but I noticed that she was gaining more weight.
After another 6 months her appetite was out of control and she had gained plenty more.....she told me that she can't stop stuffing her face....I thought she was poking fun at herself as she does when she has gained a lot of weight....but she looked at me seriously and said 'No, I am serious I really can't stop eating and I never get full....If you had food in front of me 24 hours a day I would just sit there and continue eating and never stop" I was totally aroused in such a crazy way!

Not exactly like that!

But over the years my wife has gained ....lost ....and gained again! She initially developed a bigger bloated lower belly then more of a 2nd layer of belly under her huge breasts and now her belly has softened and is much fatter but not as bloated. As she gains fast her belly will stick out more and then it settles down and becomes wider and softer.

Also, the weight moves around into different areas. She happens to have a pear/hour glass shaped figure with large breasts and fatter upper arms and as she gains it becomes more of a full
blown Pear. As her weight has settled and leveled off she is carrying more weight in her mid section and is forming more of a pear /apple shape.

I think she will need to gain a lot more weight to see her body shift back to a full blown pear with a huge belly and mid section. I think it is the process of growing and Fat accumulation. I will tell you one thing.....I know her body fat % keeps going up even though she doesn't look that much heavier.

It will only get tougher to drag yourself to workout with more weight that you will gain. Eventually when you think of working out your stomach will start to growl and you will choose to eat yourself into a food coma and tell yourself you will workout the next day. After many more Lbs. Gained you will kind of see no point to workout and be totally consumed with eating and getting bigger!

Not sure but it kind of happened for me that way for several months.

It was actually kind of cute to hear you say.....that you were hoping to feel the changes with all the extra weight.

I think you need to change your profile from "Foodie" to "Feedee"
sounds like you want to keep getting bigger?

But truthfully.....all of us guy's on here who view heavier/ way overweight women as the ideal Beauty are not even close to the norm.

So most times these women ....even women who are slightly chunky have heard from men in the past or even past boy friends that they are to big and they need to lose weight.

My wife before we were dating went out with a guy who asked her either on a third or fourth date if she planned on dieting to lose a little weight. At that time she was a workout machine at 5' 3" and 120 Lbs. Slightly thicker muscular thighs with a very slight lower belly bulge and larger breasts. So you can see how forward some guy's are......all I could think of when I met her is how she would keep looking better with the more weight she gained.

So it's to be expected why women do act this way.

I know what you are saying!

I have always loved heavier women and on many occasions I have struck up a conversation with a woman and got to know with many meetings from mutual friends etc.in the past. And yes I have heard various things said like what you are talking about.........

i.e. I am on a diet now because I just gained a lot of weight.

Or how often the tell me they go to the gym.

and many other things along those lines.

I usually would soften things from going in that direction by showing my interest because of there personality and overall beauty including their size......by saying something like I think you look great and I wouldn't bother trying to loose any weight.

But I hear ya......I think they are slightly insecure from probably societal pressures and past relationships of being told they are to heavy and they need to lose weight etc.