Of course, it's pretty hard to be 100% in the closet. Even if you overeat in secret, which is not always easy, you can't keep your expanding body in the closet!
Naturally, you don't have to tell people why you're gaining. But they might be suspicious. Especially when you are unapologetic about your gain and express zero interest in dieting!
12 years
Yes. I mean it's pretty awkward to be 100% open about it. What is she going to do, say "I find eating and gaining to be extraordinarily erotic" to every person she passes?
12 years
Some people have told me that family and friends nagged them about their weight and eating habits when they first gained; but after they reached a certain size, others accepted that they were fat and unlikely to change, and quit nagging.
Has this happened to you? Or not? Please answer any of the following questions that apply to you:
1. How much did you weigh when you started gaining?
2. How much did you weigh when people began to nag or criticize your weight or eating habits?
3. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism diminished?
4. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism ceased?
5. How much do you weigh now?
Obviously, these questions will oversimply some situations--feel free to add details.
12 years
vpvpvp44 wrote:
So i'm getting fatter and i'm loving it and how it feels, how do I get used to myself looking way different
Go to lots of social events. In this age of facebook and instagram etc. you will end up seeing lots of pics of your new, fatter self and will get used to it much more quickly than otherwise.
12 years
"Deciding to Get Fat" on my website may help.
12 years
From chatting with feedees in this situation, it seems that they either:
1. Eat what they want in front of their kids and say "no, the doughnuts are for Mommy" and make the kids eat healthy;
2. Hide their overeating;
3. Share the fattening goodies with the kids and let them eat all they want. They usually have very fat kids.
I personally disapprove of #3.
12 years
FatGirl wrote:
Please rank the following reasons as they apply to you (and add more if you can think of any):
1. You like fattening food.
4. You like to overeat.
3. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
6. You hate dieting.
5. Your significant other wants you to gain.
2. You find it erotic.
Let me redo these to avoid confusion (the number is not the rank!)
1 6 3 2 5 4
12 years
Artur--
I think you've found a substitute for gaining: agonizing about how conflicted you are in a public forum.
Glad we could help!
12 years
