I will answer this in a couple of ways.

My wife when she was at her heaviest 5' 3" and 200 Lbs. wouldn't try to wear revealing clothes but because she was bigger would wear her largest jeans which were extremely snug along with nice tank tops sometimes with a cardigan type sweater to go over if she was cold. The jeans would make for a huge muffin top that would almost always expose her huge Tan love handles, belly and oversized DDD when her Tank top rode up. Not to mention when she would have the cardigan sweater on.... her soft Fattened arms were barely contained by the soft fabric almost as if they would rip right threw it and the buttons strained around her new bigger belly. Her jeans were so tight in the thighs and butt I thought she was going to bust right out of them. She looked amazing and it wasn't over the top "it was classy" she just didn't fit in her clothes....but it was quite a thrill for me and I am sure people could tell she had gained a lot of weight since wearing her clothes. All of this was done by her unintentionally just trying to wear some cute clothes that her figure had a hard time squeezing into now.

Myself on the other hand when I was at my heaviest I got a thrill out of wearing dress shirts that could barely contain my huge Gut and looked like the buttons would pop off. I would at times stuff so much at lunch in my shirts and keep stuffing to look totally obnoxious and get a some comments out of some fellow employees. It never happened but I sure saw a lot of jaws open wide in awe. People are scared to say things but you can certainly tell by their reactions on their faces. Other times I would wear a T shirt size XL that had shrunk a little......I was clearly up to XXL at this point.....but the XL t shirt was completely snug everywhere with it riding up a good 4 inches on my belly. I decided to stuff to the maximum after so full and bloated I had to visit a couple of my wives friends to drop something off for my wife. They invited me in and we sat around talking. One of them had not seen me in a long time...ptobably 30 Lbs. ago. She said nothing but I caught her staring several times while I was sitting and my huge Ball Gut stuffed to the maximum sitting out in front of me on my lap as if I had a beach ball stuffed in under my T shirt. As I was leaving she gave me the longest hug barely being able to wrap her arms around me and smashing herself into my huge belly. I guess there are people out there that you would never know might like a little Fat but maybe it is not to the percentages that we all do.

While stuffing and Intentionally gaining I would be so stuffed I didn't think I could eat another bite.

But what I learned that really propelled my gaining to new heights or should I say weights was .......I could easily suck down milkshakes after being sooooooo stuffed .....oddly enough. So After I ate enough for 2 or 3 people at lunch followed by some really fattening dessert I would then drive thru a fast food restaurant and get a 20+ oz. shake and many times I would drive back around a second time after swallowing it down really quickly and get another one.

I believe if I kept gaining like that I would have easily got so out of control and Fat to quick.

I think everyone has the back and forth thoughts about gaining, not gaining, to gain even more, to not gain anymore....you get where i am going.

The crazy thing is that when I gained 40+ Lbs. most people wouldn't have even thought I gained that much. Sure they knew I got bigger but not that much bigger. Certain times you can tell but most of the time when someone gains it can be hidden pretty easily.
The other thing is after friends, family etc. get used to you being bigger they won't notice the extra gains as much because they have already accepted the shock of the bigger you....until bathing suit season of course.

Also, once you gain a good amount of weight your appetite is way bigger and you need more food. after several months of intentional gaining I decided to slow down and try to eat healthier and not as much food....Wow was it almost impossible. It felt even harder than when I was stuffing and trying to gain. I tried to eat a smaller lunch and I was so hungry the first several days that come dinner time I couldn't stop eating. This went on for several weeks to a month of cheating all the time. I could see if someone was encouraging me at that point to gain it would have been so easy to keep getting bigger and bigger.

I to had those feelings all of a sudden to lose the weight I gained. I only lost about 25 Lbs. of it and have kept the rest which seems to be the case with a lot of people that gain a good amount it also makes it pretty easy to gain it back also.

I say go for it and have fun so you can experience a few of these things.

I definitely see where it is much more intense with feelings like most of us have on here to have weight gain, feeding etc introduced in order to achieve total excitement and in some cases orgasm.

My wife has gained and lost many times throughout our relationship. I would say obviously the most intense arousal and enjoyment for me and I believe her as well was when she was not only her heaviest but also let go of any inhibitions. Obviously her being much heavier and looking absolutely Beautiful she also began to use her ability over me by teasing me with her bigger figure and she became so comfortable and confident/sexy being bigger that it was unbelievably great!

Transversely when she was much thinner not only my appetite for love making was much less I believe hers was as well. She wasn't as sexual and didn't seem as relaxed or responsive. During love making sessions at these times she seemed more distant and probably it had something to do with me but it just really jumps out at me. Also, during these times I found myself unintentionally remembering of her when she was so much heavier and how her body looked to make the love making more enjoyable and to peak the excitement for me. It felt a bit wrong in a way but that's my biggest turn on is visualizing her gaining weight and being heavier.

That's pretty HOT in my book!

My experience.....Several years ago I started to gain unintentionally at first and started to notice after a few weeks how much more I was eating. Because of a void in weight gain with my wife at the time I decided to intentionally gain and see how big I could get.

I was surprised how aroused I became trying to get fatter. I began to stuff at every meal and eating desserts and fattening things all day in between meals. I was stuffed and bloated all day long and continued to stuff to the maximum. After another month or so I never felt sick and was astonished at how much more I could eat at every meal or actually how much I needed to eat to be content.

I was totally turned on by how big my belly was becoming. It was very big bloated and distended. I was most interested in my wife noticing how Fat I was getting and almost became one of the driving forces to keep getting bigger and bigger other than myself liking seeing the huge difference.

At first it was the Lbs. gained on the scale it kind of surprised me. All of a sudden O was 15 Lbs. heavier and I didn't really pay attention or notice much difference with my size. Then I started paying attention to it more and realized all my slacks really tight around the waist and even dress shirts straining a bit. After the stuffing began and I was always bloated I found myself never being able to suck my belly in and it was always sticking out like I was 7 months pregnant. With the constant stuffing the Lbs. came on really quick. only 1 month into stuffing I gained another 7 -10 Lbs. on the scale and I felt very stuffed and Fat all the time. My belly was sticking out huge all the time and it was so interesting having this extended Gut walking way out in front of me all the time. I was at a stage where I not only wanted my wife to comment on how big my Gut was but I also wanted acquaintances to notice and I didn't bother buying new slacks yet for work I just wore my 36" and some 38" slacks low with my big Gut billowing out over the belt. By the time I was 40+ Lbs. bigger not only was it extremely obvious in appearance of my huge belly but also in my , neck, face and all of a sudden I caught a glance of my big round ball Gut that know could be seen from my back like a had a huge Beach ball attached on the front of me. As my Gut was bigger it now showed from the back and my love handles and their was some slight softening when I wasn't stuffed to capacity and my Gut had a slight hang in the front.

Ultimately the size and physical adaptations to my my slower movements were the most magnified to me even at the 30 Lb. gained mark. I felt I looked a lot bigger with the 40+ Lbs. gained but I felt even more different than I looked. I felt super Fat and was much lazier and mostly thought about eating and doing more relaxing things centered around food. As far as the scale 40 Lbs. seems like a lot but not really that much....I think it was how much Fatter I felt and the way I fell into the out of control cycle of eating. There was a point toward the end of this intentionally stuffing and gaining where I felt Like I wouldn't be able to stop and I thought if my wife actually desired it she could turn me into the biggest /fattest pig of a husband and I would let her based on my uncontrollable appetite and the fact it was turning me on so much.

On the topic of her large breasts!

I have analyzed this for many years and been with and witnessed naturally large breasted girls as they get older almost always gain weight and the weight most of the (like 95%) of the time surfaces in their bellies.

So you are in great luck!

As far as her into weight gain and loving it......Probably not quite as much as you but you never know.

Most of the time it is the women just relax in a bit and start to get fatter and it is easier than watching what they have been accustom to eating and changing that diet.

Possibly ease into it by telling her how great she look's and if she replies something like...."really I have gotten so Fat" say, "I think you look hotter than ever I wouldn't mind if your cute little belly got even bigger".

The more I think about this topic it really has to do with a couple things as I gain a lot of weight and become way more submissive.

First is my appetite growing so much where my first thoughts are centered around food and eating. As I continue to eat always to the max I feel very stuffed and bloated which ultimately makes me way more relaxed and not even feeling like moving...not to mention being the agressor in any fashion of the word.

As I get a lot bigger I get pretty turned on and all I think about is getting bigger yet....and I can't really control how much I eat at this point so once again I am full to the max and very relaxed. As I become out of control with the eating and lazy nature It kind of strips any dominant attitude and I find myself just giving in to eating and snacking huge amounts and if my wife happened to be a dominant feeder......I could really find myself at her mercy of turning me into a huge Fat pig that I would allow her to do anything she wanted to me.

So ultimately it has a lot to do with the feeling out of control with eating and the effect the huge amounts of eating have do to my energy level and overall nature of striping the control and discipline I have.

I like numbers rising on the scale as I am sure anyone into weight gain does to a degree.
But with that said overall size and parts growing definitely trump numbers on the scale in my book....plus the conversation of asking my wives weight or weighing her myself doesn't happen.

Also, as someone previously mentioned a particular woman can weigh much more than another one of same height but the one who weighs less sometimes look's way fatter and heavier......just a weird thing I can never figure out. My wife always look's to me like she would weigh more than she does.

There was a time a while ago when I was stuffing every day at every meal and in between meals with snacks intentionally.

My belly was always stuffed and full to capacity.

When it was time for another meal say Dinner.....I wasn't even hungry feeling but the minute I started eating I just kept going and didn't stop and I didn't feel much fuller when I stopped

After a while when I was eating it almost wasn't considered stuffing anymore for me because I was ravenous and so hungry.....and the next thing for me was I could never feel full anymore I could just keep eating and eating. This obviously was after several months of huge effort especially in the first 2-3 weeks of intentionally stuffing.