Malvineous:
It's vitriolic garbage full of harmful misconceptions that are still getting perpetuated to this day. If you want to turn your brain off and look past that, it's very similar in feeling and quality to most of the lesser Saw sequels. At least the idea of a serial killer based on an online fetish community (especially ours) is a kind of novel concept for a slasher villain. At the end, the detective ends up dating a BBW, which is probably the director's way of showing us that some fat people are still acceptable in his eyes.

Strayguard:
If you're in a situation where your partner cant or isnt into feederism or if you got no partner at all, what do you do to overcome the urges that come on every once in a while? Is watching stuff online enough for you? Or do you do things like chatting with community members? art? onine feeding? talk on forums/discords, etc.

Just wanted to see how other ppl overcome these things.

Munchies:
I have a significantly higher libido than my partner. His isn't low. Mine is just very high. I also have kinks he doesn't share. So, when I get the itch, I turn to erotica, fetish games, and spicy videos.

Strayguard:
erotica would be stories right? And I also didnt really know games were a thing. Only one i know is moo moo manor i think it was called and thats in beta

Munchies:
I have a significantly higher libido than my partner. His isn't low. Mine is just very high. I also have kinks he doesn't share. So, when I get the itch, I turn to erotica, fetish games, and spicy videos.

Malvineous:
I'm curious about the fetish games you mentioned. It's always seemed to me that all porn games were pretty bad, but granted, the last time I bothered looking, they were mostly on Newgrounds. Are there any games or sites you'd recommend for something actually good?

Go4theGold:
I can't give any recommendations, but I'm curious about how cities where one doesn't need a car (NYC, San Francisco, Boston, ETC) are when it comes to feedism, since one will be walking a lot in those places, and will thus burn more calories.

Iridescent Pearly:
I live in Seattle, it’s been a nightmare and I’ve been pretty much blacklisted myself from the feedism community here because I don’t fit into the clique.

But where do I start? Expensive food, high cost of living, full of health nuts, soda tax?

If I were to move where would you recommend?

Bigwideland:
A constant intake I find is more conducive to gains. Increasing it over time. As three meals.

And I as like a day of snaking, every half hr or so, they is also a way to be lots of calories in one day.

None the less I like to have a bigger feed to test my capacity as well, so both I guess.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Agreed re: constant intake. I find, if I want to gain A LOT, it's helpful to do a giant stuffing day, enough to push my weight up ten pounds on the scale, and then to continue eating big so none of the weight drops off. It's how I've achieved some of my biggest gains ever

Strayguard:
If you're in a situation where your partner cant or isnt into feederism or if you got no partner at all, what do you do to overcome the urges that come on every once in a while? Is watching stuff online enough for you? Or do you do things like chatting with community members? art? onine feeding? talk on forums/discords, etc.

Just wanted to see how other ppl overcome these things.

Go4theGold:
So, I definitly find women with big bellies hot AF, but I also find thin bellies attractive. Really, any woman's belly is attractive to me. Fat, thin, pregnant, etc. Is this especially common? I'm curious to find out.

Kacchan:
While I'm inclined to agree with Munchies, we ARE out there... It's possible that you've found a feeder who is enjoying the opportunity to feed you a bit while he's there to help your grandmother.

You could indirectly test the waters a bit to see his reaction. For example - after the next enormous meal, thank him and then say something like, "You know, I think that if I was here more often than just Mondays and Wednesdays, this amazing cooking of yours might start to add up. Am I going to have to upsize my wardrobe?" If you do it with a laugh and a smile, you'll come across as complimentary of his cooking and not necessarily as a feedee. But... it would leave the door open for a possible "That wouldn't be the worst thing in the world" type response.

It's unlikely that he's a feeder... but it's possible!

Munchies:
Personally, I wouldn't go out of my way to message people unprompted about that.

That's courting trouble.

PearLover:
Cool. You do you.

My aim here and elsewhere is to make a positive contribution.