Nope.....not for me....If anything my weight gain attraction has gone up on the scale (Pun intended).
I like more Fat on women than I ever have......and I crave for more heavier Fat on my wife.
My scale:
High school: liked girls a bit chubby say 140-150 Lbs.
College: Like girls overweight and slightly bigger 150-180Lbs.
Starting career: Wanted to see my girlfriend go from pretty chubby to Fat 180- to over 200+ Lbs.
Currently: Want My wife who is 5' 3" to get to 200 Lbs. again..... and I even dream of her at 250 & even 300 Lbs.
I think I would love her figure at 300 Lbs.....who know's I might even like more.
So yea......I haven't lost this weight gain fetish! I am curious to see if anyone is the same as you on this board. There certainly are times I wish I lost or at least maintained my liking at lower weights.
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kaia wrote:
To connect with people who share my love of fat and obsession with weight gain.
This is exactly it.....in so few words!!!
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WordofWarning wrote:
I just joined here because of posts like this. If your wife has noticibly gained weight and then wants to lose it she is obviously not comfortable gaining the weight so do not try to make her do anything that makes her uncomfortable. How about just telling her she is beautiful no matter what?! My husband would always tell me when I gained weight and felt miserable about it that he thought I was more beautiful than ever. It made me ease up and relax but ultimately I wanted to lose the weight to feel better about myself. Now I know he was just saying these things to encourage me to get fatter and I thought he was just being nice and complimenting me.
I understand your thoughts!
No one is perfect, and I do tell my wife she is Beautiful all the time. It just so happens that I am attracted to her more and more when she gains more weight, It's just who I am. I am sure your husband loves you and sure, it is probably true he would like to see you gain more weight. But is it really so bad that he likes it when you gain weight and loves everything about your figure when you do or would you like it better if he didn't like it when you gained and was not turned on by you or your figure even at the weight you are? I know you think of it as the same thing, but I am sure there are things aesthetically you like or would like about your husband more or less. Not to say that you would impose it on him. But let's say that you liked him more Muscular in which he was a few years ago and then all of a sudden stopped working out. He decided to start it up again and you noticed his muscles bigger and stronger and you liked it and even mentioned it to him. He kept going and you were very attracted to him with his new physique then all of a sudden he decided to not work out and he lost his muscles. You now felt, "why" and kind of wanted the muscles back on his physique. I know it's not exactly the same but you probably would show a little less interest physically then when you really loved seeing his muscles?
Not trying to be argumentative I am just simply putting it out there.
I have seen many beautiful women who were heavier and I am sure they will gain more weight and wouldn't it be a better world if they knew they were really attractive with their weight the way it is rather than someone telling them they are Beautiful if they lost some weight. Keep in mind Love is love and there certainly is an aesthetic part to it, I guess us FA's are just trying to balance out the equation.
Trust me when I say this I am sure your husband loves you very much but it is just kinda who he is. You should kind of love the fact that he loves you bigger and wouldn't mind if you got even bigger yet rather than the other option. It is social aspects that have brainwashed women primarily into thinking that you must be thin to be attractive. Ever since I was young i would identify to what I thought was a beautiful girl or woman I just tended to think the heavier beautiful ones were more for me.
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gimmejiggle wrote:
I'd always had chubby partners, starting with a size 12, and slowly gaining confidence to build up to what I really wanted.
A size 14, 16...
Then I met the most gorgeous little lady yet, she was like a little doll. At 5'1, and a size 22 she was amazing, and one of the funnest, cheekiest women I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.
I know I'll remember the first time we had sex for the rest of my life. The feel of all that flesh touching mine, with her on top her belly lay on me up past my belly button. When she leaned forward to brush her huge soft breasts in my face, the weight of her on my chest was amazing, I could hardly breathe.
It was truly a life changing moment. How could I ever want anything less?
For those of you reading this that have fantasised about larger women, but have never acted upon it.
Do it.
For me it was like I'd finally found myself.
Great first post!
Yep....I am trying to make my Gorgeous curvy wife who is 5' 3" get to over 200 Lbs. again because on shorter women the Lbs. show up so damn sexy.
I use to think 180-200 Lbs on her would be the maximum.....but over the years I have been craving even more weight on her......I have been fantasizing about seeing her 230,250 or even 300 Lbs. and like you said I would probably love every soft squishy Lb of her at these heavier weights.
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Gaining...losing a little and regaining more helps to make the belly soften and drop.
At least that's what has seemed to work for my wife.
She isn't even that heavy but her belly has a perfect lower belly drop.....and I have to attribute to her gaining and having it stick out then losing some....then regaining many many times.
10 years
Pretty large.....good info. thanks
10 years
Not sure if this is the absolute best section for this topic.....but it certainly involves weight gain and the need to communicate it without that word....I believe?
What is the best way to discuss with my wife or for anyone else with their women.....words to compliment her figure or discuss what the may like with more weight on their women.
Obviously everyone on this board likes terms that we wouldn't necessarily use to someone that doesn't actually like the bigger figure.
for example (bad) I think:
weight gain
gain .....as in gain more weight
get heavier
I want you to get Fat
Better ones:
I want you Curvier
Fuller figure
Bigger
Just wondering......because I know my wife knows I like her heavier from years ago me discussing it. But the topic doesn't surface anymore because she is one better to not talk about something she doesn't want to. Also I fear if I talk about it with her she will try to lose weight as if I pointed out that she has gained some weight recently.....which has happened before. So I just don't mention anything and usually she usually goes on snacking and gaining a little bit here and there......but oh how I wish she would really start to pack it on and get a lot heavier.
Sorry for the rant....just had to discuss since it has been on my ming lately.....maybe I should start discussing again with her.
Crazy thing is several of my friends have wives that really fatten up which my friends hate and they are fine with it and don't even try and lose any but actually keep getting bigger. With my wife she we start gaining and then really try and cut back on snacking to lose her 10+ lbs or so that recently snuck up on her.
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How many Ounces is #1 to get all those calories.
Thinking I might bring a treat home like that one for my wife like 3 times a week to see what it may do.
10 years
I can understand this.......My wife is 5' 3" and a pear figure and at her heaviest was only a bit over 200 Lbs.
She is very pear shaped at this weight with really big breasts and a big lower belly, hips and huge love handles. Her arms seeming shorter the heavier she got because of how big her upper arms became.....all of which I loved so much, but She too slightly struggled reaching around her new extra large breasts, her new fatter upper arms and her extended large lower belly.
So I can see how this could be a problem or a struggle at higher weights and different shapes with the weight and size in certain areas.
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