StomachStretcher:
Over the years I have learned that I need to be open and up front in a subtle sort of way. I learned years ago that I really cannot date a non-feedee/foodee. In my life experiences, I have tried to date women that watch what they eat closely and never overeat and I can't handle that. I'm not constantly trying to overstuff the woman I'm involved with but I like to engage in feeding, encouraging, overstuffing, feederism activity at least once a week. It's like a person who has some other fetish or fetishes, they need that fix! To me, I find this fetish far easier to explore and bring up in casual conversation with a woman that any other fetish! At the early stages of a relationship the couple are learning about each other and asking questions to discover similarities. We all do that. You ask about hobbies or interest such as music, movies right? It's this simple; so what are some of your favorite foods and restaurants? And I'm very open and quick to state that, I'm asking these questions because in the opening stages of a relationship most of the time we go out to eat. I want to be sure I take you to nice restaurants that you like and really enjoy the food so that you will eat until your hearts content. I also ask about favorite drinks and deserts. After dinner I make it clear that "I really enjoyed seeing how much you loved that dish". Is there anything else you would like? This place has great deserts!
I try to make it a point to encourage her to overeat and enjoy the fact that she did! If after a few dates I see it's pointless then I don't see the point in continuing. With all that stated, I have actually had ladies tell me "you're weird" and I've also heard "you're crazy"! That's okay, I would rather hear that up front and not waste my time! I am a FEEDER! Yes, I'm a FEEDER! It's the one fetish I have that I can enjoy acting out in public with a lovely feedee and not get arrested! Think about that we feedist are the lucky ones! Be it a restaurant, a dinner party, or a barbeque I can actually fulfill my desires. Barbeques are the easiest because walking up to my date (who has already eaten a full meal) with a huge plate of food in one hand and a fork in the other and shoveling food into her mouth with her caressing her already full belly is pure heaven! I also get off on the attention that it attracts.
No, I could not date a non-feedist! And I'm going to make two statements that I am sure will draw criticism; first, as a feeder I love dating women who are binge eaters! Second, a binge eating bulimic is pretty intense as well (here starts the hate mail).
Ya know all of this in one way or another is exactly what we all experience. I mean the ideal would be to love the person and have them into the exact same fetish but it never really works that way or I should say most of the time.
I will try and be short with the story of my wife and my experience which touches on your post as well as many other's.
When I met my wife she was a Beautiful work out / Gym queen that was curvy with some chubby bits.....and a big sweet tooth. After dating for a while I fell in Love with her for many of her qualities. I told her early on she should slow down on her workouts and relax a bit...she was reluctant but she did and she quickly gained a bit of weight. She didn't seem to like the fact she gained even though I loved it and told her how beautiful she was. She said she used to be quite "Chunky" before she started working out so much. This excited me quite a bit to hear this. I would often watch her snacking while skipping workouts before we would go out to dinner ....and after a few months she gained even more weight. I was much younger at the time.... being this was many years ago....I probably showed to much appreciation for her new Lbs. and even went as far as to wanting to weigh her ...actually many times throughout her gaining. She would stand on the scale in front of me in her panties and Bra which were both extremely tight now with her belly bulging out and hanging over the waist band along with her big breasts flowing out the top of her bra and would shyly not want to see what the scale read. She began to not be very amused with her weight should I say.....even though she was more Beautiful than ever and any guy on this board would certainly agree with her newly added Lbs. and figure. Her modest gaining "in my eyes" got me wanting more. Her 5 ' 3" frame was now 158 Lbs. and she looked breathtaking. When we met she was around 120 Lbs. but just 2 years before that she mentioned to me she weighed just over 170 Lbs. I kept craving for her to gain back to 170 Lbs or even more. I never told her this but as she looked bummed most of the time with her fattened figure...even though she would be snacking on a whole bag of cookies or chocolates I would tell her how beautiful she was. Her it came for the first time..... she said "ho
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Another one:
When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!
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Another one:
When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!
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Not exactly and expression but I am extremely turned on by:
Being oblivious to a big weight gain! When the woman has gained a good amount of weight and they seem kind of oblivious to the fact and still stuff themselves in clothing that doesn't fit and or stuff themselves with hugely fattening foods and deserts.
The vulnerability of a woman becoming Fat and out of shape hindering their movements, their stamina and overall control of their new huge appetite.
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* Watching my wife eat large portions of food and going back for treat after treat and she can't stop snacking
* Watching her after she is finally done eating with her totally full, satisfied and submissive. Looking at her fatter and thinking how much fatter she will be getting eating out of control like this.
* Watching my wife after she has gained a good amount struggle to fit into her clothes ....and now she only wears fluffy maternity tops with her extra tight jeans to mask her huge muffin top and love handles.
* Watching my wife after she gets dried off out of the shower and has on her Bra and panties that have both become very tight and small on her from her gaining walk across the room to the closet with her belly shaking and bouncing from side to side and up and down as well as her breasts jiggling out of control.
* Listening to my wife tell me that she has gotten so Fat right before she eats a pint of Ben n Jerry's after dinner and then after finishing starts to stuff herself with cookies and chocolates until she has trouble breathing because her big belly is so stuffed.
Plenty more.... these are just a few....to get started!
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I agree "Loss of self control" with eating is in itself an extremely sexy part of this weight gain fetish for me these days.
When I notice my wife has gained a good amount of weight and then I watch her eat way larger portions at meals followed directly by something sweet right after and then she gets into a pattern of constantly snacking all night long after dinner.....it is so sexy. The best is when she gets in these uncontrollable pattern and starts sneaking extra snacks by just standing in the pantry after dinner and putting chocolate after chocolate in her mouth after she has already finished off a pint of Ben n jerry's.
The ultimate arousal with this loss of control has only happened a couple of times....one way back after she was pregnant for the last time with our third child and she was trying intensely to lose her pregnancy weight. Well, 6 months had gone by and she not only didn't lose any weight but I noticed that she was gaining more weight.
After another 6 months her appetite was out of control and she had gained plenty more.....she told me that she can't stop stuffing her face....I thought she was poking fun at herself as she does when she has gained a lot of weight....but she looked at me seriously and said 'No, I am serious I really can't stop eating and I never get full....If you had food in front of me 24 hours a day I would just sit there and continue eating and never stop" I was totally aroused in such a crazy way!
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Not exactly like that!
But over the years my wife has gained ....lost ....and gained again! She initially developed a bigger bloated lower belly then more of a 2nd layer of belly under her huge breasts and now her belly has softened and is much fatter but not as bloated. As she gains fast her belly will stick out more and then it settles down and becomes wider and softer.
Also, the weight moves around into different areas. She happens to have a pear/hour glass shaped figure with large breasts and fatter upper arms and as she gains it becomes more of a full
blown Pear. As her weight has settled and leveled off she is carrying more weight in her mid section and is forming more of a pear /apple shape.
I think she will need to gain a lot more weight to see her body shift back to a full blown pear with a huge belly and mid section. I think it is the process of growing and Fat accumulation. I will tell you one thing.....I know her body fat % keeps going up even though she doesn't look that much heavier.
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georgejorge:
I use to think I would stay physically active while gaining. I still prefer a certain level of fitness with being big. But since I've started gaining, I've gotten so lazy. I can't even seem to do 30 minutes of exercise. And I've only gained like 15 lbs.
It will only get tougher to drag yourself to workout with more weight that you will gain. Eventually when you think of working out your stomach will start to growl and you will choose to eat yourself into a food coma and tell yourself you will workout the next day. After many more Lbs. Gained you will kind of see no point to workout and be totally consumed with eating and getting bigger!
Not sure but it kind of happened for me that way for several months.
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It was actually kind of cute to hear you say.....that you were hoping to feel the changes with all the extra weight.
I think you need to change your profile from "Foodie" to "Feedee"
sounds like you want to keep getting bigger?
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But truthfully.....all of us guy's on here who view heavier/ way overweight women as the ideal Beauty are not even close to the norm.
So most times these women ....even women who are slightly chunky have heard from men in the past or even past boy friends that they are to big and they need to lose weight.
My wife before we were dating went out with a guy who asked her either on a third or fourth date if she planned on dieting to lose a little weight. At that time she was a workout machine at 5' 3" and 120 Lbs. Slightly thicker muscular thighs with a very slight lower belly bulge and larger breasts. So you can see how forward some guy's are......all I could think of when I met her is how she would keep looking better with the more weight she gained.
So it's to be expected why women do act this way.
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