Ditzy:
In my case having a husband that controlled everything in your life from what time you got up in the morning to the time you went to bed is enough to make spite a very strong thing.
I was his "trophy wife".
I had to dress to the nines any time I went out with him and even if I went to the grocery.
If I failed to do exactly as he ordered he would slap me around and call me horrible names.
I doubt any of you ladies here would put up with that.
My spite was not really self harm to me but to his ego.
I knew it was temporary.

Stefan:
So i have a fantasy about feeding and fattening up dom feeder girl and turning tables. So the feeder becomes feedee. Something about the "battle" and "struggle" around who is going to be feedee and fattening up the person who wants to fattens you is so hot to me. And the idea of dom feeder resisting but secretly liking being fatten up and forced to grow bigger. Definitely would love to do it some day especially with skinny/chubby girl.

Morbidly A Beast:
That was a wild thread and rereading it a year later it’s just as wild.

Back to obscurity you go, mister

Piggyobese:
Eating without control

Wooloo7:
Sounds like you have experience, any tips on losing control?

Pizzaboy:
Child birth does lead to weight gain😏 all the wide hipped big butt ssbbws i see got at least 3 i believe there are more feeder moms qoute unquote then feedees i always wondered wat it would be like if my mother had to take care of me if I was bedridden...

Otherday99:
I do remember my parents forcing me to go for a run or ride my bike bc I spent all day watching TV or playing computer games. All members in my family are obese and they wanted me to be the opposite and break the cycle. Only healthy foods were allowed in the house, not even an ice cream or a Happy Meal. They never sent me to birthday parties bc they would serve cake and candy and my mom didnt want me to eat too much of it. I remember crying to my mom for an ice cream cone, and the answer was always no.

Then I went to high school and I got the opportunity of tasting all the fast food I missed when I got out with friends. They wouldn't believe me when I told them that I've never tasted Wendy's or Burger King at my 16yo.

I stayed thin most of my life until pandemic came and I gained around 40lbs, and although I'm not obese, I'm not too far from it. I still live with them while I sort things out, but as soon as I get to live alone I'll probably gain a lot more lol and I love fast food, they still insist on the diets but I always escape to eat the biggest ice cream cup as soon as I get the opportunity. Mom wasn't able to make me a gym lover or a healthy freak.

Boops Boops:
Flirting is now harassment.

Munchies:
It can be, and I am shocked that you were unaware.

I remember this one job I used to work at. This was in person before the plague. We had a high turnover, so there were a lot of male new hires who came through.

I got hit on a lot. It was gross. It was creepy. I felt so unsafe. One time, a supervisor in another department started hitting on me because he liked how I filled out my clothes (I was dressed modestly, but I am still a curvy woman.)

I reported him to HR, and he was fired shortly after. I found out through the grapevine that he would hit on his subordinates a lot. Several women had reported him, but nothing was done until he stepped outside of his department to hit on me.

I've worked in HR before. Once in a call center and once in a University. I can promise you that you can be disciplined if you hit on someone and they report you to HR. I've seen demotions, suspensions, and terminations.

Please tell me that you aren't doing this to your coworkers because that is classifiable as sexual assault.

And yes, this happens to men too. I had a work buddy who's female boss kept hitting on him. Woman would not take no for an answer. It nearly became a lawsuit for creating a hostile work environment, so the company fired her.

Zampano777:
you're just assuming things that she hasn't even written.🙄

Zowee:
Due to my career choices and highly unlikely odds of finding someone, Im forced to appreciate Feedism as a community and a fantasy.

I just appreciate the support some give others and the community fighting negative stigmas associated with weight gain. I kept trying to enjoy some aspects on my own even gained a lot of weight to try it out. But it’s not sustainable long term. At least I have yall to share my thoughts judgement free.

Those who found someone special good congrats you won the lottery!

Miss32322:
I'm talking about slaves or subs to female domme.