For me:

1. My balance is slightly off with a fast gain
2. Bending over (as mentioned) takes my breath away
3. Clumsier movements
4. When sitting straight up my belly sits out in front of me on my lap
5. bending over to tie shoes is way more difficult
6. A little embarrassing how much I need to eat to get full
7. Much lazier, I think about eating more than I do moving


For my wife:

1. Watching her slower movements with her extra weight
2. Watching how fast she eats now....like someone will steal her food.
3. Watching her eat desserts slowly and softly like she is having an orgasm
4. Watching her go through a bar of bath soap in the shower very quickly with all the weight she has gained in the last year or so
5. Watching her sit down on the couch with her belly out in front of her on her lap
6. Watching her put on an article of clothing in the closet and change 2 or 3 times because it didn't fit and then come out with something on that fit's but look's a couple sizes to small now (I love this one)
7. Watching her buy all kinds of snacks and treats at the store knowing she doesn't plan on dieting anytime soon because her appetite has got the best of her (really love this one)

My wives hands/fingers stay relatively slim even when she gains a lot. Which in itself is one of those weight gain contradictions that turn me on.....kinda like a really slim face with a huge belly on a woman.

I did have an ex girlfriend that every time she gained weight her fingers and hands really got fatter. She actually could have been a hand model....perfect creamy smooth skin long fingers and even when they fattened up were so sexy and seductive....you almost just wanted to touch them and hold them. She could not wear any of her rings by the end of our dating being that she gained so much weight.

There might be a pretty big percentage based on observation.....but I think all has to do with personal preference.

With all that said I happen to be an athletic guy/jock growing up and was always attracted to FA/weight gain on my women.

When I met my wife I was a muscular gym guy and she happened to be a thicker gym type girl.....even though we didn't work out together.....because I always liked a good figure on a woman but with a lot of extra weight. Even though my wife/girlfriend at the time worked out she used to be a little fatter before I knew her and still had a little belly bulge and huge fat breasts that she packed into her work out clothes. I always envisioned her fattening up which she did and so did I.

So, I guess in this case you are right I turned into a muscle chub with a big ole gut and she is an ex thick workout girl that became a fattened up beautiful wife.

I am not sure in all cases......but I can certainly attest to this being true with my wife.

She doesn't like when she gains weight and gets heavier but she certainly likes having sex more and has bigger orgasms when she is heavier.

The way that she enjoys sex and her orgasms when she is heavier it's a complete shock to me why she would ever want to diet and lose weight and her big lustful orgasms.

I second the above....hopefully it doesn't discourage you from your path of gaining!

I can relate to what you are talking about as far as weight size and your body getting in the way of itself with certain things you did without even thinking about in the past that now pose bigger problems.

As I myself was gaining at a pretty fast rate I might add.... I noticed similar things. I happen to shave my chest and have been doing so habitually for many years since my day's of serious weight lifting. As my gut became pretty round and big I couldn't see under it to shave not to mention around the huge curve..... not that I couldn't manage at all but I found myself trying to move the girth of it out of the way to access it a bit easier and all I could think of was I am a bit out of breath from the struggle......which used to be a relatively simple and quick task.....and now was much more of a chore.

I noticed my Big belly getting in the way of a lot of things and movements mostly anything bending over will slightly take my breath away form my big gut getting in the way. This has got me thinking of my wife as well because as she is getting bigger I don't want that to discourage her from gaining but she has to go through the same routine as you mentioned with shaving down there and I have seen her bigger lower belly bulge get in the way and she has to pull it up and out of the way and really position her head to see around.

Anyone else notice this? My wife uses a bath bar of soap in the shower and I swear that as she has gained a good 35 Lbs. over the last year and a half or so she seems to use it up so much quicker. Don't get me wrong she smells so beautifully clean all the time....but I was just wondering if that is because of her bigger body to lather up? Maybe it's just me dreaming in some weird FA/weight gain way?

High school - 150 Lbs. (Shorter than now)
Current - 240 Lbs. (was just over 250 Lbs. a bit ago)

My idea of plus size doesn't pay much attention as to a clothing size but more of an overall part of the woman being overweight and on the verge becoming let's say "Fat"!

If the woman is shorter 5' - 5' 4" they may appear bigger or plus size quicker than a taller woman....obviously depending on body type as well.....if they are more pear shape then they will seem heavier but mostly their lower half....so full body shots or clothing can slightly change these initial impressions.

But overall I would say a woman in my opinion is plus size when she has many body parts that are much bigger and thicker than an average woman and she actually has some soft Fat and rounding to her overall body shape.

[quote]collegeboyff wrote:
I've found that as my weight goes up, so does my passion with gaining.


I also experienced this.... as I was intentionally gaining and and my weight kept climbing as well as my belly sticking out in front of me......my desire to really get bigger and see how big I could get totally turned me on and consumed me.

Not for me exactly but I have found a couple times when I was intentionally gaining that I became more turned on by myself getting fatter than actually seeing my wife get fatter.

I never thought something like this would have happened.
I guess it was more the actually feeling of Fat with my 24/7 and the thought of a bit of humility entering into it and really wanting my wife to notice and point out my big weight gain and tease me a little......especially if she ended up liking it.

This is interesting thread!

I agree with Elanor in that sometimes I cam extremely passionate almost addicted to weight gain and Fat and other times I am still very much in love with it but it's not nearly as consuming.

During the times where I am almost addicted it usual lasts anywhere from a week to a couple months.