2 great points

Good for you!

I would say go about it gently. I am pretty sure if he said he loves your belly he is pretty into a Fatter you.....not to mention you have gained 60 Lbs. fairly recently and after this is when he tells you he likes it and Loves your belly (which is obviously bigger than once was when he never mentioned anything). Your weight gain has probably been driving him wild.

How did he react when you said you wanted to gain weight?

Or are you thinking more along the lines of getting him to gain weight with you that you feel insecure about telling him?

Agreed.....they sense your confidence!

Also, I have to believe another couple reasons.... Men are very visual and more than likely you are wearing very form fitting clothing showing off your sexy curves which men love form fitting clothing......more than likely because all of your clothing is very form fitting now that you have gained many beautiful Lbs. as well as many Men actualy like fleshier women than they would like to admit.

My wife at her heaviest 5' 3" a little over 200 Lbs. all of a sudden was fairly confident with all the weight she gained with her pregnancies and a couple years after even gained some more weight rather than losing any. Well, most of her clothes were extremely form fitting, OK tight and not only were her huge breasts popping out of most of her tops but her belly would spill out underneath her tank tops. One day she went to pick up a package from the UPS guy in our driveway while I happened to be in the garage, she was in a pair of jeans that were now much to tight and a Black Tank top with her Breasts barely being constrained and her love handles and belly spilled out with her Tank top riding up exposing her tan soft Fat flesh. The UPS guy was basically stuttering when talking to her and handing over the package. As she came over to me in the garage afterwards....I said "that guy could barely talk he was so infatuated with you and your body" . I said and he is not the only one I have noticed lately drooling while looking at you. She admitted she has noticed that over the last year or so....and she then said "I guess guy's like Fat Pretty women these days".

It was since she gained the last amount of weight over that past year where all her clothes were very form fitting and tight but she still looked very classy. I think this is what gave her more confidence that shined through as well as guy's loving the extra Fat and flesh in all her tight clothing.

Here is a take on this....in which I experienced!


Many years ago when I was in a accidental at first / then mutual gaining relationship it went like this for us.

We became less social around many couples friends especially if the event wasn't centered around food.....like a big dinner out. Mainly because both of us were more interested in eating. There also was the occasional embarrassment with teasing from our couples friends who would constantly point out that we looked like a fattened up married couple since we moved in together.

We tended to hibernate in on the weekends and eat and enjoy our own company and eat some more.

Even though our mutual gaining was intentional at this point, I don't think either one of us could of slowed down with how much we became accustomed to eating, not to mention we were very much in love. We enjoyed just being a happy Fat loving couple who liked getting even fatter.

So ultimately we became much less social especially around our friends that we had when we were thinner.
When we were by ourselves stuffing and eating together it was like Utopia but the minute we were around our couples friends with our new Fattened up figures we both seemed very insecure.

I would imagine it is similar in most of these couples settings comparing the circumstances.

Yep.....Like these also!


How about some of these:?????????

1. I'm a Big girl now....it's getting hard to move all this extra weight around.

2. I'm so stuffed .......I can barely breath, let alone move my big ***

3. If I keep eating like this ......I won't fit into any of my clothes anymore

4. I have gotten sooooo Fat......and it's all your fault for letting me eat like this

I kinda agree with BostonBellyGuy with regard to weight gain excitement and arousal.

During times where my wife isn't gaining weight I find myself less aroused. The minute she starts to pack on the Lbs. I am always horny for her and aroused. Several times over the years when my wife was just maintaining her weight and not gaining I found myself gaining from over eating and decided to continue to intentionally gain because of a lack of weight gain with her.....with fast and big success. When I grew a very noticeable big belly I found myself aroused all the time. I constantly wanted to have sex with my wife not because she was bigger and gaining weight but I wanted to bounce my new big belly off of her while making love......total arousal! I agree with it never feeling better during love making, at times a struggle with the extra size of my new big gut and even being more out of shape with my movements but that also added to the arousal.....all of a sudden feeling like a big fat guy.

It's almost like weight gain either on myself or her is very key in arousal for me. In fact as of late I find it much harder to be aroused unless there is some form of Fat or weight gain relation to it.

As far as lasting long I believe it has to do with how hard of an erection you have resulting in lasting longer and the numbing of your member!

So the other night my wife and I were headed out for a casual dinner. She wore a pair of black soft/thin but very stretchy work out pants with a form fitting tank top to hold in her huge breasts with a light weight loosely fitting long sleeve classy cover up shirt.

We got in the car and drove away.... as I was driving I glanced over at her beautiful thighs in her tights spread across the seat and where her upper thighs and butt were there was no visible trace of leather on the seat. As she suddenly bent over and took her hand bag/ purse off her lap and put it on the floor beside her feet I was in shock to notice her once loose fitting thin cotton shirt was know totally tight around her lower belly. As I glanced again she had the biggest lower belly roll that sprang out in front of her and rested on top of her thighs. It resembled an ten inch round inner tube/over inflated water balloon fastened to her lower belly and lying on her lap. It's the biggest I have seen her lower belly bulge ever. I soon realized it was a combination of several things ....one being the waist band on her work out tights being extremely tight and constricting at the point of the crease in her belly along with sitting down and pushing all her newly fattened lower belly into a massive belly roll.

I was in Awe of her and kept glancing over but I didn't want to draw to much attention. But I couldn't stop and each time I drifted off dreaming of how much bigger it could still become.......all of a sudden her voice brought me back to reality by saying "I know, ITALIAN, let's have some Lasagna & Pizza". So hopefully the next time I give and update on her gorgeous massive lower belly bulge it will be several months of huge fattening dinners and a unbelievable increase in this region on her body.

My girlfriend was great but had many issues and slightly destructive behavior and it kind of ran its course. We ended up breaking up several times prior to ending it for good. She had a great personality and was model like in her appearance ..... a beautiful Fat model but her issues haunted her.

Sounds nice!