Neko,

I'm not sure who you're reporting the fakes to, but please let me know the user and what pictures, if they are specific ones, are yours. I'll happily delete the pics and warn the user, and if they've been warned, ban them temporarily, and if they've been banned before, ban them permanently.

If everyone would read the disputes and complaints procedure in the Help section, it would be great. If you all follow the procedures, and file a complaint according to them each time something happens, we'll be able to clean out some percentage of fakes.

Thanks,
J

Try Candye Kane, the blues singer, who is rumoured to be one of us:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candye_Kane
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candye_Kane

Blues history is of course full of gorgeous fatties. John Popper of Blues Traveler, before he had his stomach amputated; Big Momma Thornton, whose 'They Call Me Big Momma' is more fat positive than any other song I've ever heard; Etta James; and scads of others.

Will try to think of others

Hi Faerie,

To be honest, people have different ideas about what constitutes a fake. But the kind mrman is talking about is one that we all agree on, I'm reasonably certain: someone who takes pleasure from pretending to be someone s/he is not. This would include role players, too, but the crucial difference is that the person tells no one that they are role playing; instead, they want us to believe they are who they are pretending to be.

The best example I can think of is a member who insisted that 'she' was 13 years old, had been fed and fattened by her mother, and was interested in having men here feed her. While all things are possible, of course, and one can never be 100% certain, most users, including me, were sure that this was a man or woman who was playing out their fantasy by tricking members into being both sympathetic and aroused by 'her' supposed predicament.

I frequently get very obviously fake ssbbws trying to chat with me about life as a fat woman, and it's clear they think this is one way to get lots of details about fat life--what I enjoy or have trouble with in everyday settings.

I think mrman's list is excellent, providing you don't become overly suspicious. I'm glad we have it here, articulated clearly. Do you all think it would be a useful thing to move to the articles section?

Hope this helps, Faerie, and thanks, mrman
J

Hi, Adam and all,

I'm sorry, but the public areas of Fantasy Feeder are English only. If you would like to respond to Adam, you have two options:

1) You can post a response here in English. (ssbbwfeeder, I forwarded your response to Adam before deleting it.)

2) You can respond to Adam in Dutch by PM.

Thanks!
Juicy
Head Moderator