I’m not currently using a scale, I don’t trust them after mine that says it goes up to 400 but didn’t weigh me an ounce above 350 when I was in fact 385 all along.. my scale had me thinking I magically dropped weight and it was very discouraging
1 year
Are you saying you can’t form bonds with people who aren’t fat?
I think it’s somewhat normal for people to not form romantic bonds they aren’t sexually attracted to. But it’s important to reflect on what others said here.
1 year
Depends how dependent you were if you are struggling to make ends meet it can be hard to pay for all the foods you enjoy… you can spend more money on food than rent (I’ve done it before)
1 year
LoraDayton:
Miachu,
I don't want to go through the hassle of quoting etc etc so I'll just say a couple of things:
1) I'm sorry your partner is being a fatphobic *** to you; and
2) Relationships don't fail. They end. They end when one person is ready to grow or actively changing and the other isn't. Most relationships we have in life are not permanent and they're not supposed to be. Your body changes are not the cause of the relationship's end (if that happens). It's just a sign that he may not be ready for the kind of growth that you are. And you don't deserve to be abused for doing it.
Point 2 is so true and it takes a lot of maturity to reach conclusions like this wish I knew this sooner
1 year
Maybe he’s concerned or thinks you’ve gained to much already? Sorry you’re being put through this hopefully it will resolve in your favor in the end
1 year
I usually eat one very large meal once a day around dinner time I find it to hard to remain motivated during the day after a big lunch “well just eat less!” - no lol I have zero portion control I am either stuffed or starving no in between. I try to eat breakfast at least in the morning but it’s just tuff when you’re in the heat all day and struggling to stay motivated as it is.
1 year
I saw a man working at chipotle and he had to have been over 7ft tall and he probably weighed more than 600 pounds he had a belly that wasn’t quite shaped like anything I’ve ever seen before kinda like how the immobile people look but on the legs and stuff I’m not sure what that’s called
1 year
Cactusrager:
My ankles are killing me.
fr fr no cap, I can almost roll ankles just walking around and it’s every time it’s like when the rancher has to put a horse out to pasture
1 year
Yes. When I was done with wrestling I started struggling with my weigh pretty much. i lost would gain then lose, gain more, lose etc for years, then during the pandemic I got to 300 that’s when I realized I have to figure something out and I discovered body positivity/fat acceptance then feedism and the rest is history
1 year
For me it was getting over 350 It’s the point where I’m to heavy for my baseline strength I used to have, like pulling myself up onto things I had no problem ever. I can still do it but it’s a real struggle. I’m not as balanced as I used be. falling hurts a lot especially if I catch my self on a wrist or thumb ouch.
As that fat girl 95 said weight limits are cause for concern now, and like I’m not trying to be the one who breaks rides or causes myself injury or death from not being strapped in or what have you. But that’s not everyday stuff
1 year
