I agree with you that it certainly can happen this way.
Your wife probably seem's more comfortable with her own gaining if she see's you gaining. Almost another commonality in the relationship. That's how I kind of see it with my wife when I gain and she gains.......not to mention the great meals to enjoy together.

The only difference I see with my wife and I during these times....I don't ever discuss her weight gain and she doesn't talk about mine.....so it isn't the full mutual gaining feeling that is so psychologically pleasing.

You mentioned that her family is all over 300 Lbs.

So she may have relaxed around you a bit after you let her know that you liked weight gain on all parties involved and just happened to easily gain the weight or her family genes have caught up to her and you may have a 300 pounder very soon or she is totally intrigued by your truthful conversation about weight gain and has decided to try it out.

I personally would not bring to much up unless she tries to talk about it. It probably is the first example I mentioned....she relaxed in a bit and accidently gained some weight being comfortable with you....and if you are lucky more weight may keep accidentally appearing on her figure and before you know it you have a very plump girlfriend.

I say get it bigger! You look like your at a middle stage.....another 20-30 Lbs. and people you know will be doing a double tack and be in shock. You can always lose it if you want but you would be surprised how people you know get over the initial shock and then start to look at you like it is normal with a much bigger belly.

My ex girlfriend and I moved in together just after I was out of college. It was a really serious relationship and I was in my first job into my career and she was in her last year of college. She was very beautiful....the type of girl most guys would say "she is so hot if she just lost 40 Lbs." when in actuality I was intrigued with her gaining even more weight of course.

She became a little home maker in our nice townhome. She would cook great dinners every night and became a really good baker as well. Several months had passed and I was as happy as can be with my new Office desk job and my beautiful girlfriend who now seemed to be getting bigger every month with the great dinners she would make followed by cakes, muffins etc. that she baked for desert. Six months had passed and I couldn't believe how much sexier she was with all the weight she had gained. I didn't dare say anything in fear she would want to try and lose the weight instead we went about our great meals and deserts and were happy as can be.

One day after work when I arrived home my beautiful girlfriend was on the couch crying ever so gently and upset. After talking to her I found out that she had her annual doctor's check up earlier that day and she was reprimanded by her Doctor because she had gained so much weight. When she told me I consoled her but at the same time was so aroused having her tell me this, not like I had not already noticed myself.....but her vulnerability made it that much sexier to me. As I was consoling her with a big soft hug she said "should we start working out and go on a diet together?" I thought I may have heard her wrong and replied "both of us go on a diet together, with a baffled look on my face?" She then said "you don't realize do you?" I said Ha......she said "You don't realize how big you have got also". All of a sudden I was in a state of shock and she came in for a soft hug again and then said "I guess I have been feeding us way to much food and deserts, along with you having a desk job and not playing sports anymore".
I became extremely aroused almost more than ever before, here was my extremely hot chubbier girlfriend that was now fat and even so much hotter giving the most loving hug with compassion and telling me that I have become fat as well from all her great cooking....as I was thinking of all that was just said....she chimed in again and said "week's ago a couple of my friends were joking around with me and told me that I had turned us into a Fat married couple while living together, they knew how easy it was for me to gain weight but they couldn't believe how big of a belly you had developed. I stuck up for you and told them that I thought you look so cute with your new big belly." Once again a flush of arousal came over me to new heights. We discussed it for a bit and I told her I loved the weight she has gained and I think she look's sexier than ever and I wouldn't mind her gaining even more weight, in fact I told her the more weight she gains just makes her even more beautiful to me. She then told me she wouldn't mind my belly getting bigger still as long as I didn't get to big. All very general talking but right away she then lovingly patted my belly and said "like it would be easy for us to stop eating so much now anyway, sit down for some dinner Hun" Our open talk lead to more eating and teasing now, she would fill my plate with seconds and pat and jiggle my belly while she told me what she had baked for desert tonight. It was almost like it unlocked the doors for her she now would pile third helpings onto my plate even though I was full just so she could have thirds. At this point she could eat way more than me but she made a point to always make me try to eat the same. Just watching her eat would give me such arousal and pleasure. She knew I liked her Fat and she was going to give me what I wanted...it was like a dream come true.

It was an unbelievable experience my beautiful Fat and getting fatter girlfriend who would tease her now Fattened up boyfriend (Me) so gently about his big new belly all the while I would watch her eat huge amounts of food and deserts and play with and talk about all her new Fat while she was tempting both of our huge appetites with more fattening deserts all the time.

So, there are mutual gaining relationships around.....how they develop I imagine is a variety of ways. Our happened I believe was because I had a very nurchering vulnerable sweet girlfriend who was able to gain weight very easy. With her knowing that I loved her fatter she was content with allowing herself to eat everything she wanted and her appetite soared out of control and even though sometimes she didn't like being as Fat as she was she was content because she knew how much I loved her and the weight she gained. She is not a typical feeder type but I know she always had a hard time not gaining weight and I think she was what you would call a food addict....and she could gain weight really easy. I on the other hand have always been into weight gain on women and never thought of it on myself....being that I could never gain any weight before this time because of my metabolism and always active and playing sports. All of a sudden no more sports, a desk job and a beatiful girlfriend that was feeding me huge portions of dinners of the most carb laiden food along with baked fattening deserts all the time.

I think finding a mutual gaining relationship where both parties have the same fetish isn't really by chance....more sought out on a board like this. If I wasn't married that might be the thing I would try if I was a guy trying to get into a mutual gaining relationship.....it's pretty much the ultimate arousal with this fetish from what I have encountered and worth a try to find.

Still thinking back and nothing comes to mind currently!

On the flip side my wife and I used to frequent a restaurant a while back and the same couple of waitresses would always wait on us.

After several years the one waitress must have put on 50-60 Lbs. while the other had developed a noticeable bigger belly sticking out in front of her. They were both fairly young in their early to mid twenties. I am sure they were allowed to eat meals at work for free during or after their shifts. I would imagine working at a restaurant would do wonders to an increasing waistline especially a Mexican restaurant.

Yep.....alway's turned on by bigger girls and now women!

When I was younger slightly chubby always just looked healthier to me. As I am older Fatter always look's healthier to me or visually more aesthetically pleasing to my eyes and the ay a women's figure should look.

I agree.....I think we were born with this fetish!!!

I think the sexiest most arousing to me is when my wife gains unintentionally then can't really stop eating larger and larger portions and finally complains to me how big of a pig she is becoming. She tries to control her eating but can't and continues to eat huge meals followed by multiple deserts and snacks. She becomes more vulnerable and more gently and much much fatter. She eventually tries to diet and then gives in to the urges of her huge appetite and is happy eating and getting fatter for a while until she passes her heaviest weight ever.

This is how it typically goes with my wife although I am still waiting for her to enjoy getting fatter one day.

I guess both by accident and out of control eating as well as on purpose would both have their pluses. Being that purposely means they like becoming fatter and we would both be able to share in the excitement rather than watching as a spectator in a very seductive way!

Yep.....I agree this is pretty arousing.

Anytime my wife gains weight it gives me total excitement not to mention when she keeps gaining. It is the ultimate in a weird way when she keeps gaining even when she is trying to lose or maintain and when she can't stop pigging out.

Very sexy opposite with getting ripped and wife getting softer and bigger/fatter by the week/month/ year and forever!

I look at it like this being with a heavy woman or even gaining weight yourself is more common and mainstream then actually being erotically turned on by feeding someone or intentionally having someone gain for you or yourself intentionally gaining in my book.

Many friends are definitely aware that I like the look of a beautiful larger woman and several of my past girlfriends know that I liked weight gain especially on them as esoecially my wife knows that I love it when she gains weight. But to the exact degree or high weight I am sure they didn't and don't know and I don't feel like I need to tell my close friends "see that sexy woman over there that is 350 Lbs. I think she look's so much hotter than that skinny 120 Lb. model over there.....I just don't think I need to bring stuff up like that".

As far as being erotically excited by watching my wife eat bigger portions and seeing her appetite grow and then dreaming of how Fat she will get (or) dreaming of my wife gaining 100 Lbs. I keep these thing's to myself or like minded people on this board. There is much more commonality for this "speciality" we can call it because I believe that everybody is a specialist on this site with regard to weight gain and have a genuine interest and excitement for it and other sub categories related to it.

So, there is a difference to me between a buddy telling me wow, your wife must have gained 80 Lbs. in the last year........I would tell him yep she look's so hot to me.
But if the same buddy knew I was looking at this site and wanting to feed my wife to get her fatter and I get so turned on by even the thought of that even more than I would want to have sex with a 120 Lb model........I just don't think he would understand.....so I leave it alone!