I nearly have enough stories now, just a few more needed.

If you're interested in writing a story and think you can get it to me fairly quickly (by early April), please PM me.

From my own life experience I've found the best way to feel happy and fulfilled is to be true to yourself, and I wish I'd followed this more when I was younger.

Don't try to suppress your feelings because of what others around you may think. It just won't work in any case, and as you get older and more confident these feelings won't go away and will come to the surface eventually. Or else you'll go your whole life feeling unfulfilled or ashamed.

Many people here have struggled with the same issues, and have eventually realized that there's actually nothing wrong with wanting to be fat, whether in fantasy or reality, any more than it's wrong to want to be thin, or rich or famous or just a beach bum. They're all just different feelings and desires and no-one is more entitled to their feelings and desires than anyone else.

If people around you don't accept you for what you are then that's their issue and their loss, however you will find people that love and accept you if you look in the right places

Yes definitely! If you think you might be interested please PM me.

Howard Stern was an offensive jerk. He'd never get away with talking like that about any other social group. Why does he think it's OK to run down women based purely on their body size? He needs to take a look in the mirror.

I've now updated the story list page to order by last updated. My only reservation about this is that people may change just one word to bump their story up the listings. We'll have to wait and see what transpires on this.

If you'd like to raise the profile of any of your content (e.g. pics, videos, stories, your profile etc.) by having it featured on either our Facebook or Twitter page, please PM me the link.

Yes we now have active facebook and twitter pages to try and attract lots of new members.

Please go over and take a look, and make sure you 'like' us while you're there:

facebook.com/fantasyfeeder

twitter.com/fantasyfeeder

You haven't described what it is you did to get this negative reaction nor provide a link to your blog, so it's difficult to comment on your actual circumstances.

However I do feel that guys can sometimes get a hard time just for liking what they like. The thing is that we DO sometimes like to objectify women and/or men or aspects of their bodies, because we find it hot and it turns us on. I just believe it's the way some of us are made.

The politically correct brigade might tell us that this is sexist, demeaning and morally wrong, however I personally don't agree. Just because I may objectify someone whilst fantasizing over pictures, videos or when reading erotic stories, this does not mean that I can't treat them with equality and the respect they may deserve in my everyday interactions.

I also get tired of being made to feel guilty about the way nature made us, or made to feel creepy, gross or weird about it (as you seem to be saying). I can't see that there's anything wrong with admiring pictures of beautiful large women, or of feeling horny or sexy in what ever way suits you so long as it harms no-one.

Continue to respect yourself for what you are and don't let people run you down just because they don't understand or don't get you