Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot.

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).

Ceepert:
Almost noone adds the country they are from in the title of posts in the Personal ads section, especially dating and meetups.
There already is the "current status" circle on everyone showing if they are "online" "afk" or "offline" in the bottom right of their profile picture.
Would it be possible to add the country flag of the user to the bottom left?
I assume this isnt a problem for people form the US as most users are from there, but especially for pretty much everyone else its quite anoying cause you have to open each post to see where the user is from.

Munchies:
I'm confused. Your country flag is next to your username whenever you make a post. Right now, I see the German flag next to your username.

Ceepert:
Yes in the post itself its visible next to the name. But not in the list of posts itself. There you can only see the activity status. And when you wanna know where the user is from who posted it to see if for example if the person is in your area you have to open the post first.
Which is very anoying when you wanna check out multiple potential posts

MottiF:
I’m with Munchies, I really don’t see what the problem is, every profile posting there is a Country Flag below the profile’s name, even if user posted on several places you can see the flag

Ceepert:
Here! This is what I mean, the post list. You cant see the country flag here, but it would be super usefull if you could so you can quickly check if anyone made a post on "Dating" or "Events" or similar in your area.

Almost noone ever adds the country they are looking for people in the posts title, so when you wanna check like once a week what has been posted you need to open like 15 tabs and look into each post individualy just to see that 90% of them are USA based.


Munchies:
I get where you are coming from, but it complicates things for the feedists that travel a lot. And we have a sizeable chunk of those.

I've seen posts where people ask about meet-ups in a country far from them because they plan on going there. I've seen people who regularly travel between two or more countries make posts wanting to meet up in those and surrounding countries.

Ceepert:
Sure, but those are the minority of posts and they could still just add the country they are looking for people in the title if they want

Getobese:
Title: MAKING ME FAT! 

 Jun 20, 2023 at 4:35 PM 

“Ok. when I met my wife 2 years ago I was a very fit 150 I'm 5’8, six pac starting to show, since we’ve been married I have gained 35 lbs my wife openly admits she is trying to make me fat! Now she barters for things like, if I eat 3 cookies I get a 2 minute Blowjob or 5 cookies & 2 scoops of ice cream I get a 10 min back rub and a long BJ. I don't get it I want to look good for her. She said she wants me to be fat so that she looks better by comparison. I’m finding it harder and harder to resist her now and afraid I will get huge because of her using sex to entice me to gain weight.

 “ MY QUESTION IS…Is she a feeder or just seriously vain? Perhaps she can’t admit to being attracted to fat.?

HectorBalloon:
My skin is quite elasctic so that's it then. It's also extremely smooth which is also a sign of elastic skin so I've heard it said by other people with such skin.

Bobo:
I knew she was big - like around 350 pounds at 5’3 - but when she walked into Denny’s (her choice!) I was smiling inside.

BIG raven-haired beauty, so big that people saw her and you saw their faces go “Jesus.”

We had a lovely late dinner - she had left a party just to come and meet me because I was visiting her town for the weekend and we’d been talking for months. “Ill dash away and get back to the party,” she said. This way, for her, if I turned out to be a clam, she had an excuse to get away. But we really liked each other!

I looked at her liquid eyes, cupie-doll face, sensuous mouth and excited, alive energy and was pretty knocked out. She was SMART, too - thank you, Jesus. "Interesting conversation!"

BUT!

I also saw her sweater kept BURSTING open, and she kept closing it. I also saw the top button of her size 28 jeans was undone, with this little bubble of fat exposed. Too many cookies?? LOL

It was a great date - we never stopped talking - but in the parking lot we hugged. As we hugged, I felt her hanging belly through her jeans touch my thighs, this swollen, bloated belly pressed against me.

When we turned away, I was throbbing, just from the hug. But I didn’t let on. I mean she could SEE it if she looked, but one is polite.

We didn’t end up becoming a couple…but I looked her up recently. She lists her weight at 512, and that she can’t stand for more than 10-15 minutes. She does swim twice a week.

Picturing my 512-pound friend in a bathing suit at a pool.

She doesn’t give a shit about people staring, or comments. She’s got a big brain and can respond to any fat-shaming comment with a piercing remark, or clever, or something about that person’s appearance THEY might be sensitive about.

I guess this isn’t a “moment”. But wanted to share - the sight of that sweater BURSTING open repeatedly because of her fat belly, so adorable! I could hardly concentrate on my food!

God bless you ladies, man…you make this world lovely.

Ahhdipose:
Hello everyone im looking for stuffing recommendations anything besides the standard chug heavy cream reply looking to get the most calories out of one meal

Munchies:
Don't worry about that. Trying to min-max your calories is one of the worst things you can do - especially if you are new to stuffing.

Instead, focus on consistancy. You can gain a lot more weight with fewer calories if you are consistant versus eating as much as possible as that can kill your appetite.

Ahhdipose:
Thank you so much for the advice i really appreciate it just went and got a bunch of snacks so hopefully that helps

HectorBalloon:
Despite having been anorexically underweight, and having a peak weight gain of 30lbs in one month, I've never ever had a single stretchmark. Not sure why?

Getobese:
4% of Americans have a fat fetish – making it one of the most common fetishes in the US.

*** 1 in 14 men has a fat fetish Thats (7%) ***

MottiF:
I wish it could be more common in other countries

Fruet:
In my opinion, the worst part of this fetish is the fact that is difficult to found someone who likes it too in irl. Like, are you going to ask every person you meet if he/she/them are into feederism.

Lillyraesmith49:
This is so true. also finding people my age on here and the total lack of like female feeder representation.

Apfc1989:
It’s hard to tell if I have stretch marks coming in or if it’s dry skin, it’s just so dry in tx in the winter and it’s hard to tell. Just dying to get stretch marks cause it means I’m doing a good job. Like proud badges of gaining🫠🥰

MottiF:
Haha that’s for sure. Once you get them it’s mean you becoming fat!