Supressing the fetish

MountainChub:
Can you suppress the fetish and find happyness trough other aspects in life?


Can you suppress a fetish? No. You can try, but you'll end up miserable. Instead, it's best to explore other avenues that balance your fetish with other aspects of your life.

What that looks like depends on you. What prompted the question?
6 months

Getting soft

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what I’m doing differently my diet hasn’t changed much and I’m getting more exercise than I did in the past but my body just feels way more squishy and soft all over I’m getting these rolls on my arms I’ve never had before 🤷‍♂️


Could be a couple of things. That said, it's more than likely your increased physical activity is causing you to burn more fat, but you are still eating more than enough to replace it. What this means is you are burning visceral fat, but you are still gaining subcutaneous fat.

It's also possible there's hormone changes, but you haven't said anything to confirm or deny that.
6 months

Super massive stuffings!

BigBallBellyGirl:
Back into gaining again (or rather eating as much as I want to, with gaining as a side effect.) Yesterday I went all out, only pausing when I was about to pop, and I may do it again today. I'm so bloated still the skin on top of my belly is smooth and tight instead of jiggly. The feast day included:

Breakfast 1 - 2200 cal.
- Green energy smoothie
- 2 boiled eggs
- 6 turkey sausage patties
- 1 banana
- Peanut butter toast
- Cream cheese sun dried tomato bagel

Breakfast 2 - 1300 cal
- Large blended caramel coffee drink
- 2 cheese and turkey croissants
- One yogurt parfait

Lunch 1 - 2100 calories
_ Large Dr. Pepper
- 3 double cheeseburgers
- 2 large fries

Lunch 2 - 1500 cal
- 3 Fish tacos
- Large Baja salad
- Large Margarita

Snack - 840 cal
- 4 Lemon bars

Dinner 1 - 3100 cal
- 2 full size dinner plates of lobster mac & cheese
- 12 inch cheese and garlic sour dough loaf
- 1 glass of Cabernet

Dinner 2 - 1700 cal
- 3 cups of rice
- Large serving of teriyaki broccoli
- 3 grilled chicken breasts

Snack 1 - 2400 cal
- Large bucket of movie theater popcorn with butter
- 64 ounce Dr. Pepper

Snack 2 - 1400 cal.
- 1 lb. Baby carrots
- 32 oz. Ranch dip
- 3 green apples dipped in peanut butter

Snack 3 - 1300 cal
- Pint of butter pecan ice cream

Total- 17,940 cal

Today, I'm going for 20,000 or bust.


Good luck! Are you getting back into gaining or are you taking a break from maintaining?
6 months

Increasing stamina while obese?

Morbidly A Beast:
Probably wouldn’t be the worst idea however to go outside and walk around for an hour or two each day is free and doesn’t need a commitment like putting a exercise bike that it’ll probably just get used for a few days and then forgotten about, I get that it wares you out belive me but might as well start somewhere free

BigBallBellyGirl:
I do the same. Initially I tried at 200 feet, but now, cumulatively, I get about 6,000 to 7,000 steps, which isn't bad for someone my size.


There are people half your weight that don't crack 5,000 steps. This is pretty good no matter what.
6 months

Embarrassing intimate (fat related) situations

Falcor:
I once dated a really beautiful hourglass woman, she wasn't extremely fat, but did have a huge behind. It was not just wide but also had much volume.
When we tried it from behind, I got lost in her behind and didn't make it through... she was unsatisfied, which was very embarrassing for me...
Before making any new attempts, I had to be sure she was satisfied first. Needless to say that the attempts were not successful and she teased me about it. It was a combination between arousing to see and feel this huge behind knowing I was unable to pass and feeling ashamed and embarrassed that I can't...


Why didn't you change positions? If the ass is too fat, then flip her over, turn her to the side, lift a leg, or something.
6 months

Music where the singer loves fat bodies

Malvineous:
Mika - Big Girl (You are Beautiful)
The Grateful Dead - I Need a Miracle
Spinal Tap - Big Bottom
Nicki Minaj - Anaconda

There are so many songs about big butts, but no songs about big tiddies. This is terribly unfair :'(


This is actually untrue. There are lots of songs around the world that either mentions or is about big tits.

My favorite example actually opens with the singer describing her tits in vivid detail. The song, Shave 'Em Dry, is about an older, large woman talking in vivid detail about her sexual prowress.

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Listen to his with headphones on, btw. It makes WAP sound like a church hymn in comparison. And to think it came out in the '30s no less.
6 months

A lot of confusion with this

Chloe24xx:
I think it feels more 'true' to stay slim as I do like my body but it's simply just the erotic urge I can't explain I get often

FeederToFeedee:
Interesting! I mean, have you considered feeding others then, so that you can still thin while still indulging that desire by making someone else gain weight? Sent you a DM btw! ☺️

Munchies:
Boy shot his shot. How bold.

FeederToFeedee:
Haha I appreciate you not being too harsh about it. It also does sound like a pretty decent solution to be fair lol.

Munchies:
I mean, I think it's weird of you, but idk if she is fine with it. I generally keep it cool unless the other person declines and the guy can't accept a rejection.

FeederToFeedee:
Oh, gotcha! I mean, besides looking for encouragement on here, it actually seemed like a workable solution to the problem quite honestly. That being said, yeah, I wouldn't want to come on too strong at all, and I hope it's taken well. Decently difficult finding people of around the same age!


Still, you gotta admit it's a little weird.

"Hey, I know you haven't expressed interest in this, but maybe you could be a feeder! In fact, what if you were my feeder."

LIke, I get it babes. The struggle is real. But maaaaybe this isn't the smartest way to go about it.
6 months

Music where the singer loves fat bodies

Cyborg456:
All about the base by ?

I like big butts by Sir Dance a lot


All About That Base is by Megan Trainor
6 months

A lot of confusion with this

Chloe24xx:
I think it feels more 'true' to stay slim as I do like my body but it's simply just the erotic urge I can't explain I get often

FeederToFeedee:
Interesting! I mean, have you considered feeding others then, so that you can still thin while still indulging that desire by making someone else gain weight? Sent you a DM btw! ☺️

Munchies:
Boy shot his shot. How bold.

FeederToFeedee:
Haha I appreciate you not being too harsh about it. It also does sound like a pretty decent solution to be fair lol.


I mean, I think it's weird of you, but idk if she is fine with it. I generally keep it cool unless the other person declines and the guy can't accept a rejection.
6 months

A lot of confusion with this

Chloe24xx:
I think it feels more 'true' to stay slim as I do like my body but it's simply just the erotic urge I can't explain I get often

FeederToFeedee:
Interesting! I mean, have you considered feeding others then, so that you can still thin while still indulging that desire by making someone else gain weight? Sent you a DM btw! ☺️


Boy shot his shot. How bold.
6 months