RegularGhost15:
I think either side has generally good points, but at the end of the day, unless someone is crossing a line like posting pictures or being specific enough to identify someone on here, I think the issue of consent on posting about it is moot because there is nothing personal about a description of seeing someone wearing tight clothes. Almost every other topic in this entire forum has posts talking about other people in general terms so it's bizarre to see people drawing an arbitrary line at this specific topic.
If you think a topic is cringy, I have some bad news about how people view this fetish in general. Maybe just don't post if you aren't interested in a topic. It will get buried faster that way. 🤷
idk its weird to me that there’s dudes taking creep shots of women and posting them online “look at her pants don’t fit” and this whole noticing shit is in the same wheelhouse of non-consensual creepy stuff, all I’ve said is that it’s weird that this type of stuff is so pervasive when there’s WILLING and ABLE people who WANT to engage with these fantasies on these sites.
1 year
AskDrFeeder:
I know, let's put everyone in burkas so we can't fantasize about them even if we want to!
bro thinks consent is tantamount to slavery imagine. fucking sick freaks.
1 year
Greentrees8733:
Similarly, Morbidly A Beast, you’re also addressing a morality angle, right? Like it’s morally okay to feel attraction, but not fetishize? I think that’s what I’m reading, but I just want to double check.
Morbidly A Beast:
Of course it’s ok to feel attraction. Attractions aren’t fetishes. No one says straight men have a fetish for women lol. But yes. However it is more about it just being kinda cringe I see it all the time in these spaces and it’s just kinda meh to me.
Liamvberserk:
Make your own thread. Don't derail other people's.
says the dude coming in way after this was over lol shut up dork
1 year
I’ve never asked someone and never been asked, and the few times where someone has poked my belly I’ve just about broken their finger. Just cause it’s large and Pokeable doesn’t mean you should
1 year
my company is buying all the guys winter coats with our names embroidered on em so the today we were all in line getting asked our size and confirming spelling of our names. I get up there boss goes “what are you a L or xL” and I said “nah better add a 5” — I like to wear a sweatshirt under my coats sometimes also room to grow XD
imagine asking a person who’s 400+ if they need a large lol
1 year
elves?
elves?
ELVES?!
1 year
Greentrees8733:
Similarly, Morbidly A Beast, you’re also addressing a morality angle, right? Like it’s morally okay to feel attraction, but not fetishize? I think that’s what I’m reading, but I just want to double check.
Morbidly A Beast:
Of course it’s ok to feel attraction. Attractions aren’t fetishes. No one says straight men have a fetish for women lol. But yes. However it is more about it just being kinda cringe I see it all the time in these spaces and it’s just kinda meh to me.
Letters And Numbers:
You’re saying it’s cringe for people to talk about their kink on a fetish board about their kink? I’m not talking about people I see on the street, either, but this is one of a handful of places online to have that talk. It’s finding a copy of Time Magazine in the periodicals section.
Nope, not saying it’s wrong to have kinks at all nor is it wrong to discuss them I’m saying it’s cringe that they’re projecting fantasies on normies while engaging with people who are already participating in those fantasies. Maybe it’s a disconnection in the language I’m using? But I think what I’m saying makes sense.
1 year
Greentrees8733:
Similarly, Morbidly A Beast, you’re also addressing a morality angle, right? Like it’s morally okay to feel attraction, but not fetishize? I think that’s what I’m reading, but I just want to double check.
Of course it’s ok to feel attraction. Attractions aren’t fetishes. No one says straight men have a fetish for women lol. But yes. However it is more about it just being kinda cringe I see it all the time in these spaces and it’s just kinda meh to me.
1 year
be sure to drink a lot of water and if you don’t already start drinking more of it even though you think you get enough water it’s not enough a lot of people are dehydrated for no reason. Multivitamin is good too even if you get a wide variety in your diet.
1 year
Letters And Numbers:
That's like Puritan level thought policing.
Puritans held political power I am just saying it’s cringe to fetishize strangers, and at the very least keep it to yo self instead of fetishizing people on a site that you know have people who are willing to participate in these fantasies.
1 year
