Yep.....I have posted several very long experiences about much of the same. I will try and keep this one condensed.

When trying to get my wife to gain back the weight she lost and even a lot more "potentially" by doing the grocery shopping and stocking the Pantry and Freezer with many fattening treats, snacks, & lots of fattening ice cream.

All of a sudden after a month or so I realized that all my dress slacks and even dress shirts were straining under my newly developed belly. After this realization I decided to Intentionally gain almost because of a lack of my wife gaining weight in so long. She actually was gaining some weight at the same time also but I happened to be eating the same treats and ice cream which I never really have done before and before I knew it I almost needed a desert after every meal. I gained a lot more than her. As I started intentionally gaining my appetite was already pretty big from the last month or so of extra eating but as I forced myself at each meal to keep eating more followed by extra large fattening deserts my appetite became out of control. I found myself never really getting full and I could keep eating like a bottomless pit. I became very aroused to try and have my wife comment or tease me about my quick excessive weight gain similar to (Fanedfox). I became pretty consumed for several months and my focus on me getting fatter and fatter became more fun than even watching my wife keep gaining in which she was but at a much slower pace.

For the past several years I would say at least 2 times a year for at least a month to two months I actually get the urge myself to head down the same intentionally gaining path and it is usually spurred on by a lack of gaining on my wife and it usually starts where all of a sudden I start eating way more unintentionally and then all of a sudden I notice that I have gained some weight and my belly starts really sticking out and hanging over my waistband on all my pants. During these times at first I try and slow down my eating and it is really hard and I notice that I have gained even more so I kind of go for seeing how much more I can gain.

This feeling then subsides a bit and I start being way more interested in my wife getting fatter and fatter.
Crazy thing is I can't really get my weight below 230 Lbs anymore without extreme working out and eating better where as before I started this several years ago I could get down to 200 Lbs. without extreme effort. Also now if I start eating a little more for many weeks or a month I gain the weight that I lost back really quickly. I believe I got to my heaviest a little over 250 Lbs. but with where my weight has stayed and not moved I am sure if I tried to Intentionally gain for a period of 3+ months I am sure I coud hit 270 Lbs. now.

One other thing is The love making with my wife was probably the best for me when I was at my heaviest with my huge Gut getting in the way, even better than when she was her heaviest and I was thinner. It was pretty exciting Just having a huge belly out in front of me that made me a little clumsy and vulnerable and watching my wife having to reposition and maneuver around it and squishing and bumping into it unintentionally. A few times I could see her slight frustration with my new size getting in the way which kind of made it sexier yet even though she never commented during these times. I could only imagine the struggles sexually two way heavier Fat people might have, sexy but tiring.

The only time she mad comments about my new bigger gut or weight was when she was typsy from alcohol and it was kind of flirty and positive.

The OP seems like a caring guy who is in Love with his wife but with a concerned question knowing himself and the way he views his wife and loves the weight she carries.

I feel for him as I do all FA's who are into weight gain on their Significant others and then there significant others decide to diet and lose weight.

There is a big Psychological thing attached to their SO losing. Speaking from experience I have gone through this with my wife several times losing anywhere from 20-50 Lbs. each of the three times. It may not sound like an extreme amount of weight but her figure changed considerably from an FA aesthetic level from being full and healthy looking to looking and feeling totally deflated. Not only on an aesthetic level did things look and feel different but our dining together was strange she didn't really even eat anymore and if she ordered a meal out she barely would finish or even consume half of it and never ordered dessert anymore. During her thinner weight loss times she always seemed stressed out and was always in a bad mood. Never seemed relaxed or care free anymore. She seemed almost never interested in affection let alone sex.

Obviously, this is one particular example with my situation but I almost feel even if my wife was a lot heavier than she was say 300+ Lbs. I would still have the same feelings if she went on a diet and started losing weight even a little though I love her more than anything because it is simply something totally ingrained in who we are as FA's and our direct intoxication and love with weight gain.

I hope everything works out well in your situation.

Having 2 or more regular cokes per day will not only allow you to almost never lose weight even with a substantial amount of exercise but will pile on the Lbs. fairly quickly if you don't exercise much.

That Gorgeous belly of yours makes people weak at the knees.....and people want to feed it to grow!

Yep.....this is very tricky. I have looked on a particular site something like body gallery and looked at women of similar height to my wife and their weights and it always seems that my wife weighs much less then she look's like she would.

She look's way curvier and fatter than a woman of same height but she seems to weigh 20-25 Lbs. less most of the time.

I know exactly what your saying only on the flip side.

So....I wonder if they liked the gain and tried to gain more or did they just get used to eating/along with metabolism changing and really started packing it on lacking food choice and portion control?

Did you think they shrunk from the dry cleaners at first?

I have accused the dry cleaners of that .........I am sure they get this complaint a lot.

"Mutual Gaining" is so sexy when you are with the one you love.

My wife is not necessarily into gaining weight on purpose but she does a pretty good job gaining weight at certain times just eating the way she does. Although she is not close to your weight she has several times been right at 200 Lbs. at 5' 3" and myself actually grew nice and Fat for a while around 250 Lbs. and the love making was the best. I am not sure if she liked us both being that big but she certainly seemed liked she loved it when we were having sex.

I can only imagine you and your significant other at 400 Lbs. each rocking the bed during a romantic session.
Even at our weights our bellies would definitely get in the way during these intimate moments and the bed was definitely feeling the extra strain.

I personally would love for my wife to get to 300 Lbs. and if she wanted me that big or bigger I would certainly give her what she wants.....plus it might be hard after enjoying all the great food and the increased appetite to slow down without gaining more.

Generally how many Pounds does it take to notice that you have gained weight? 5Lbs.,10Lbs.,20Lbs. or more


What is usually the first tell sign?

After you notice a gain of 10+ Lbs. do you suddenly notice how much more you have been eating and or more calorie laiden snacks etc.?



Obviously there are a lot of variables but just interested in knowing the starting point of a gain or a new gain!

Yep, everyone is different like previously stated! But I have heard many times that BBW women who like the contrast between a muscular thinner guy and their softer/Fatter selves.

Obviously this is just on a purely physical/aesthetic level and there is more than that which women will be attracted to in their spouse, lover or male companion.