Interesting statistics

Curiousv:
I did some research about the prevalence of FA and feederism, and it coincided with what I already assumed about the distribution of feeders and feedees from my online and real world experience.

For every 1000 men who are fat admirers (FA):

- There are about ~50–150 women with a feederism fetish, attracted to their own weight gain
- There are about ~3000–4500 obese women (BMI 35+) (regardless of the fetish)
- There are about ~300–600 extremely obese women (BMI 50+)

So if you are a man looking for a woman who is into the kink, your chances are low, as there are only 50-150 of them per every 1000 of you.
However, if you are just looking for a BBW big enough for her weight to be very noticeable, there are 3-4 of them or more, for every one of you.
Even SSBBWs who are big enough for their weight to significantly affect their life, there are plenty of them to have a reasonable chance to find one, but then you have to be prepared for them to feel miserable about their weight and hopefully you can love them for themselves and accept that they don't want to gain any weight, and hopefully still make their life better by loving them and accepting them, compared to a non-FA who might not find them as beautiful as you do.


This is fascinating. Based on my anecdotal experiences, I am inclined to believe these statistics. That said, I would be interested in seeing your raw data or methodology.
6 months

What is your struggle food?

GainingLuvHandles:
So I recently seen IG reel of a celebrity (who use to weigh 500lbs) stating his struggle foods coming up:

Syrup sandwiches
Sugar sandwiches
Buttered Tortillas

I found it interesting that selection above is very fattening. I'm curious, what is your "struggle" food? (I'm honestly willing to try some)


Soup

Lemme tell ya, if you are a poor college kid, soup will get you through it.

Baked potatoes and avocado also helped me through some dark times.
6 months

Increasing stretch marks and belly hang

The***teen:
Just gain weight way to fast, overeat constantly, i have stretchmarks all the way from my fupa to my tits, they used to be breight red.
I also got absolutly obsessed with wanting my belly to hang more and be completely covered in stretchmarks 😍😍

David Feedee:
don't be shy fatty, show the class

Munchies:
Have some class. He is not your personal spank bank.

David Feedee:
i've been in contact with him he's really nice and an inspiration for me, and he obviously posts a lot lol, dont be annoying


I said what I said. If he wants to show off that to you, then that is for the DMs. He's gone on record before about being protective of his privacy.
6 months

Face fat

Morbidly A Beast:
I shaved my beard off and I always get nervous when I’m about to shave because how it might look underneath and I gotta say I’m not bothered this time by my face fat so much I was really feeling it


You look nice, but you look like a completely different person.
6 months

Nova / dc?

Starterman:
You asking about the abbreviation? Or you asking who’s in the area?


MottiF isn't even in America. He is Israeli. I think he was just being curious.
6 months

My wife is a new feedee

31BCooter:
It took me forever to be open about feederism to my wife but she now is 100% down. However she had GI issues for over 11 years and she has very a sensitive stomach. Eating fast food or sweets cause her GI pain so I am trying to come up with a way for her to gain without her being in pain. Any advice?


Don't give her fast food and sweets if she can't eat fast food or sweets. There's a whole world of food options; she doesn't need to eat junk.

Just have her eat what she usually does but in bigger (reasonable) portions. Throw in some snacks, too.
6 months

Increasing stretch marks and belly hang

The***teen:
Just gain weight way to fast, overeat constantly, i have stretchmarks all the way from my fupa to my tits, they used to be breight red.
I also got absolutly obsessed with wanting my belly to hang more and be completely covered in stretchmarks 😍😍

David Feedee:
don't be shy fatty, show the class


Have some class. He is not your personal spank bank.
6 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Dazedandveryconfused:
Elaborate


I asked you earlier what you do to please your girlfriend. You went on and on about how she indulges your kinks, but it doesn't hit right for you.

So I asked what you do for her, and you went on this tirade about how you aren't the best boyfriend and you're in therapy, and yada yada yada. I took that to mean that you don't reciprocate, you know you don't reciprocate, and you know you are in the wrong for that.

Or did I wildly misunderstand you?
6 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Dazedandveryconfused:
I’m only replying to such comments because I don’t want other people going through the same thing that I’m going through to feel let down by other’s peoples negativity and keep blaming themselves. Trust me. I know I am the problem. I’ve blamed myself and hated myself for what I am many times and I know that isn’t the answer. I am a very motivated person to put in the effort to help myself grow as a person. I’m not going to start listing off everything little thing I have done and changed about myself over this relationship to make you believe I am a good person. The last thing I want to do is give up on this relationship and bring my issues into the next. I’ve made that mistake before. I want to find ways to create a healthy relationship with such a unique problem that I, and I’m sure many others, have. Of course being just grateful for what I have is part of it and yes sex is not the only thing in a relationship but to me, it is important and it’s not something I can change about myself and that’s why I want to find ways I can at least build a fulfilling sexual relationship with a girlfriend that is accepting of my kink but doesn’t fully align with it. I’m hoping someone out there has worked through this. Also, I have gone to therapy and I’m planning on going to more.


Why don't you want to do things for your girlfriend?
6 months

Is olive garden worth it these days?

Kitsune:
My birthday is coming up and I want to go out and eat on that day. Usually me and my family go to the casino buffet, but I wanted to try something different this time.

My options are Red Robin or Olive Garden. However, I haven't been to the latter in a long time. The last time I went there was back in circa 2006 or 2007. I watched one YouTube video where a couple reviewed the food and their overall opinion was negative. They even mentioned the soup tasted like Progresso.

But that was just one video and maybe the quality varies from place to place. My location does have favorable reviews. I will like to hear your guys' experiences.


My brother graduated high school last year and wanted to have dinner at Olive Garden to celebrate. I hadn't been in years, but since this wasn't about me, I went.

I want to first say the wait staff were darling. They took very good care of us, and I have no issues with them.

The food is a different story.

All of our meat (chicken and salmon) were overcooked. The food was very salty. I would not recommend. It makes me sad because the last time I went to Olive Garden before this (25 years ago) I had a great time. The food was perfectly seasoned, the portions were bigger, and the meat was ... well it was okay.
6 months