Yep, I guess this all stems from a insecurity on a particular body part to the individual. But in my case I never really have had an insecurity with my pecs other than the simple fact my wife happened to point out at that time that I had grown some softer bigger pecs.

On the flip side my wife has the most gorgeous belly and tends to gain in her belly first and more their than anywhere else. When she was younger she always had a slightly softer bigger belly and I believe she is definitely more insecure even today about her fatter belly. Which I believe to be one of her sexiest features even though she has many. I gravitate to kissing or touching her belly which she has grown to like a bit more but doesn't really want me paying ton's of attention to it.

Personally I would much rather my wife pat or jiggle my belly when she noticed I have gained a good amount of weight than jiggle my chest/boobs.

I am pretty muscular but when I was at my heaviest and my chest softer, my wife while intoxicated slightly happened to softly grab and shake my softer pecs and say "I don't quite remember all of this". I felt rather insecure and didn't realize my pecs were so much softer.

It was kind of erotic seeing that she noticed how much I have gained but at the same time I personally would have preferred her jiggling my big fat gut I gained.

On the flip side, he could be married to someone who doesn't like his body and the thought of him getting Fatter/bigger repulses them......which ultimately he will probably get Fatter/bigger as time goes on......which may be part a slight of the reason the op fell in love with him (knowing he would probably get bigger from the look's of his starting physique).

So in summary I feel this a great situation, but somehow you should tell him how you feel in the future. Who know's maybe he will relax and learn to love the extra 30, 50 maybe 100 Lbs. he ends up gaining knowing how much you will love him and desire him even more. So the ultimate win/win

Sorry, just my rant on from a different perspective.

Never really thought about it......until just now......Nope, I really would only get satisfaction from my wife liking me fattened up and her enjoying it mostly.

I think there are so many variables it is hard to pin point.

I will give you an example here....My wife when she was thinner, her lower belly would really bulge out in front of her almost as if she was 4-5 months pregnant. Over the years her weight gain has settled and made her waist and ass wider and she developed bigger love handles with less of a protruding lower belly sticking out all of a sudden.

Currently she has been gaining again and she is not only wider she is starting to get a huge lower belly protruding again as well as way more fat accumulated almost in a second big belly when sitting or with any jeans on. I happen to like the belly protruding because it makes her look fatter and it is really noticeable even when she pulls tank tops, sweaters anything over you still see a bigger fatter belly. It is especially sexy when she sits down with a sweater on and she look's pregnant but you can tell it's more of a soft protrusion.

So redistribution of weight changes based on many variables. I almost thought my wife wasn't going to have that sexy protrusion in her belly anymore and just slowly get wider......I guess it has a bit to do with how fast you are gaining and going to the belly first and then sort of settling. All I know is I love her belly protrusion so I guess she is always going to have to keep gaining and not losing to keep an every growing protruding belly.

Yep I agree with you my relationship and the sex is so much better when my wife is bigger/fatter!

Disadvantage - That's actually fits under the category in my eyes as very erotic, a belly that get's in the way as it keep's getting bigger is so erotic.

Yep this happened to me several times over the last few years.

Stocking a lot of food and sweets in the pantry in hopes that my wife would start gaining a lot of weight back again.....all of a sudden I noticed my pants not being able to fasten up with out a slight bulge hanging over the waist band.

After this I turned myself into the project and it became kind of addicting seeing how Fat I could get. My eating became out of control and I was inflating and gaining at a very fast rate. For a short while I was more turned on by my wife hopefully noticing how Fat I was getting rather than watching her gain weight. Mostly because she wasn't gaining nearly as much or as fast as I was.

So, I guess there have been short periods where this flipped but ultimately I enjoy my wife getting fatter and not myself the majority of the time. But I guess if there is a void with her getting Fat I my as well enjoy myself fattening up during those times.

This This This!!!

A long time ago I used to tell my girlfriend at the time....why do you need to go to the gym so much? You could stand to gain a few Lbs. not lose!

Then I told her to try and gain 10 lbs.....then 10 more

later when she was my wife and she gained a lot of weight with pregnancies and was around 200 Lbs. I told her and thought she looked more beautiful than ever.
After losing around 20 Lbs. of the baby weight she ended up gaining a lot more weight and was fatter than ever.....and she was more beautiful than ever to me.

At this time she probably didn't believe that I thought she was so beautiful even though I truthfully did and showed and told her all the time. I would have thought she was even more beautiful the heavier she got......so yes if your man hints around or even tells you to gain some weight....usually it is a heck of a lot more weight than you would even think!!!

Ok....I have to say that is sooooo Hot!

I wish my wife would have the same reaction if I told her that.....and she would make it her project to get as Fat as she could!

Hmmmm maybe reverse Psychology is the way?

Well, parents always have a vision for their children whether it is right or wrong and communicate in wrong ways at times.

Controlling your meals seems a bit extreme especially since you are not really even big....right? Has your mother always tried to control your eating or is it something new and maybe she has noticed the recent gain of yours along with the increased appetite?

Are you interested it gaining a lot or just having fun with it as a new experience and you are enjoying it? I would say take it slow and have fun and try and talk to your mother in a constructive way with regard to your body and how a little weight gain doesn't bother you the way it might her....because everyone is different! Maybe even have her try and think about something she may have done in the past that her mother didn't approve of but she did because it was her own decision and wasn't hurting anyone else.