Mymmeli wrote:OniGumo wrote:
I'm sure I could accept it, albeit suspiciously, if the lady also told me that she was an FFA.
This is actually something that intrigues me. How likely is it that this woman would describe herself a fat admirer, like really using the abbreviation FFA?
I've never met another FFA in real life and unlike I thought, I haven't bumped into masses of other FFA's online.
This is only a hunch but I indeed suspect that it's relatively common for women to like hefty guys but they don't declare it in public. I kept my preferences to myself for years because I was ashamed of them.
These gals don't necessarily log on to sites like FF because they don't analyze their preference too much or even realize it could be a commonly shared thing. Unfortunately, that might enforce the idea that fat guys are a no-no, unless they have a fat wallet too.
I wish girls would though. Guys in general can be kind of thick about picking up a woman's hints, and it's even worse for big fat guys. I wish I could just put it all out there for any girl in my life who might find me desirable that I'm open to advances...just too worried about rejection to initiate.
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Well, hmm. Sometimes when I can't eat, drinking water can help a little.
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I have to wear my jeans over the belly, as most pants that will fit well over my thighs won't stay up if I wear them underneath my belly.
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It makes sense, I do feel like we're hardwired for it most times. And it's not purely sexual either. I just feel more like me when I'm gaining. On the few occasions that I've actually dieted and lost weight I've felt like part of me had been shackled, put away where I wasn't allowed to touch/see it anymore.
It's not a pleasant feeling. That's why I don't think I'd be able to deal with being thin.
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It's often easier to be convinced that we're handsome online. I know that on the rare occasions I've been approached by ladies in real life it's put me completely off balance. And my mind immediately goes to, "It's a prank, they want to humiliate me...". While I do recognize that I'm not unfortunate looking, it's hard to accept someone's professed attraction in the real world.
I'm sure I could accept it, albeit suspiciously, if the lady also told me that she was an FFA. Sometimes we hefty boys can be very clueless though.
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Fatastical wrote:OniGumo wrote:
I'd love to join in, the only problem is I don't have pathfinder books, or the money to buy them online. (Being broke is fun).
I do have a pathfinder character sheet that I've only used a few times before. But he's level 3 I think.
I don't know how much of a pirate you are.. but I'm fairly certain that Pirate Bay has a download with a PDF of everything Pathfinder has put out so far.
Also... WOO PATHFINDER!
Speaking of pirates. That's what my Level 3 character is. (He's also the most terrifyingly brutal Chaotic Good character I've ever made)
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^^ I agree with this one hundred percent.
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I'll check out that site. But I'd prefer to make my own character, I like to put myself in the game.
Keep us posted on this campaign!
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Every now and then I like to go out in public wearing a very tight shirt. A little belly peak at the bottom, show off all the rolls etc etc.
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^^ Also amazing words.
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