Good luck, if you are honest. I posted about feederism being OK if it's between two consneting adults, and someone did not like it. Since POF has only one employee, and his aim is selling advertisments, if anyone complains, the computer software deletes the account and bans that email for life.

You gain weight where you are genetically predisposed to gain weight. It's not like placing an order.

Someone compared to dieting like a slingshot. The weight comes back on much faster after dieting.

Whatever anyone wants to be is fine. But I think it shows that some people who are thin, are just meant to be thin, and people who are large are just meant to be large.

One problem, is that you really don't get to know the person before you make decisions about moving, etc. It was a disaster with my first wife. If I had more time to observe her, I would not have married her.

I guess no one has gone from average to super size. Interesting how everyone plans to gain, but never does. At least not a large amount.

I have met a lot of new people who are thin/average who want to gain to 400 or 500 pounds one day.

But, has anyone actually gained that much on purpose?

I don't understand why people leave, either. If you don't like some people ignore them. If they bother you, tell an op.

If you haven't found someone to meet, hang in there. It takes only one person, and new people join every day.

Not every woman is into weight gain. You may not be able to convince her, if she is not into it.

I'm not a fan of short thin women (although I did date my share when I was younger). However, tall and thin, short and fat or tall and fat are all nice.