I think the sexiest most arousing to me is when my wife gains unintentionally then can't really stop eating larger and larger portions and finally complains to me how big of a pig she is becoming. She tries to control her eating but can't and continues to eat huge meals followed by multiple deserts and snacks. She becomes more vulnerable and more gently and much much fatter. She eventually tries to diet and then gives in to the urges of her huge appetite and is happy eating and getting fatter for a while until she passes her heaviest weight ever.

This is how it typically goes with my wife although I am still waiting for her to enjoy getting fatter one day.

I guess both by accident and out of control eating as well as on purpose would both have their pluses. Being that purposely means they like becoming fatter and we would both be able to share in the excitement rather than watching as a spectator in a very seductive way!

Yep.....I agree this is pretty arousing.

Anytime my wife gains weight it gives me total excitement not to mention when she keeps gaining. It is the ultimate in a weird way when she keeps gaining even when she is trying to lose or maintain and when she can't stop pigging out.

Very sexy opposite with getting ripped and wife getting softer and bigger/fatter by the week/month/ year and forever!

I look at it like this being with a heavy woman or even gaining weight yourself is more common and mainstream then actually being erotically turned on by feeding someone or intentionally having someone gain for you or yourself intentionally gaining in my book.

Many friends are definitely aware that I like the look of a beautiful larger woman and several of my past girlfriends know that I liked weight gain especially on them as esoecially my wife knows that I love it when she gains weight. But to the exact degree or high weight I am sure they didn't and don't know and I don't feel like I need to tell my close friends "see that sexy woman over there that is 350 Lbs. I think she look's so much hotter than that skinny 120 Lb. model over there.....I just don't think I need to bring stuff up like that".

As far as being erotically excited by watching my wife eat bigger portions and seeing her appetite grow and then dreaming of how Fat she will get (or) dreaming of my wife gaining 100 Lbs. I keep these thing's to myself or like minded people on this board. There is much more commonality for this "speciality" we can call it because I believe that everybody is a specialist on this site with regard to weight gain and have a genuine interest and excitement for it and other sub categories related to it.

So, there is a difference to me between a buddy telling me wow, your wife must have gained 80 Lbs. in the last year........I would tell him yep she look's so hot to me.
But if the same buddy knew I was looking at this site and wanting to feed my wife to get her fatter and I get so turned on by even the thought of that even more than I would want to have sex with a 120 Lb model........I just don't think he would understand.....so I leave it alone!

Yep.....I have posted several very long experiences about much of the same. I will try and keep this one condensed.

When trying to get my wife to gain back the weight she lost and even a lot more "potentially" by doing the grocery shopping and stocking the Pantry and Freezer with many fattening treats, snacks, & lots of fattening ice cream.

All of a sudden after a month or so I realized that all my dress slacks and even dress shirts were straining under my newly developed belly. After this realization I decided to Intentionally gain almost because of a lack of my wife gaining weight in so long. She actually was gaining some weight at the same time also but I happened to be eating the same treats and ice cream which I never really have done before and before I knew it I almost needed a desert after every meal. I gained a lot more than her. As I started intentionally gaining my appetite was already pretty big from the last month or so of extra eating but as I forced myself at each meal to keep eating more followed by extra large fattening deserts my appetite became out of control. I found myself never really getting full and I could keep eating like a bottomless pit. I became very aroused to try and have my wife comment or tease me about my quick excessive weight gain similar to (Fanedfox). I became pretty consumed for several months and my focus on me getting fatter and fatter became more fun than even watching my wife keep gaining in which she was but at a much slower pace.

For the past several years I would say at least 2 times a year for at least a month to two months I actually get the urge myself to head down the same intentionally gaining path and it is usually spurred on by a lack of gaining on my wife and it usually starts where all of a sudden I start eating way more unintentionally and then all of a sudden I notice that I have gained some weight and my belly starts really sticking out and hanging over my waistband on all my pants. During these times at first I try and slow down my eating and it is really hard and I notice that I have gained even more so I kind of go for seeing how much more I can gain.

This feeling then subsides a bit and I start being way more interested in my wife getting fatter and fatter.
Crazy thing is I can't really get my weight below 230 Lbs anymore without extreme working out and eating better where as before I started this several years ago I could get down to 200 Lbs. without extreme effort. Also now if I start eating a little more for many weeks or a month I gain the weight that I lost back really quickly. I believe I got to my heaviest a little over 250 Lbs. but with where my weight has stayed and not moved I am sure if I tried to Intentionally gain for a period of 3+ months I am sure I coud hit 270 Lbs. now.

One other thing is The love making with my wife was probably the best for me when I was at my heaviest with my huge Gut getting in the way, even better than when she was her heaviest and I was thinner. It was pretty exciting Just having a huge belly out in front of me that made me a little clumsy and vulnerable and watching my wife having to reposition and maneuver around it and squishing and bumping into it unintentionally. A few times I could see her slight frustration with my new size getting in the way which kind of made it sexier yet even though she never commented during these times. I could only imagine the struggles sexually two way heavier Fat people might have, sexy but tiring.

The only time she mad comments about my new bigger gut or weight was when she was typsy from alcohol and it was kind of flirty and positive.

The OP seems like a caring guy who is in Love with his wife but with a concerned question knowing himself and the way he views his wife and loves the weight she carries.

I feel for him as I do all FA's who are into weight gain on their Significant others and then there significant others decide to diet and lose weight.

There is a big Psychological thing attached to their SO losing. Speaking from experience I have gone through this with my wife several times losing anywhere from 20-50 Lbs. each of the three times. It may not sound like an extreme amount of weight but her figure changed considerably from an FA aesthetic level from being full and healthy looking to looking and feeling totally deflated. Not only on an aesthetic level did things look and feel different but our dining together was strange she didn't really even eat anymore and if she ordered a meal out she barely would finish or even consume half of it and never ordered dessert anymore. During her thinner weight loss times she always seemed stressed out and was always in a bad mood. Never seemed relaxed or care free anymore. She seemed almost never interested in affection let alone sex.

Obviously, this is one particular example with my situation but I almost feel even if my wife was a lot heavier than she was say 300+ Lbs. I would still have the same feelings if she went on a diet and started losing weight even a little though I love her more than anything because it is simply something totally ingrained in who we are as FA's and our direct intoxication and love with weight gain.

I hope everything works out well in your situation.

Having 2 or more regular cokes per day will not only allow you to almost never lose weight even with a substantial amount of exercise but will pile on the Lbs. fairly quickly if you don't exercise much.

That Gorgeous belly of yours makes people weak at the knees.....and people want to feed it to grow!

Yep.....this is very tricky. I have looked on a particular site something like body gallery and looked at women of similar height to my wife and their weights and it always seems that my wife weighs much less then she look's like she would.

She look's way curvier and fatter than a woman of same height but she seems to weigh 20-25 Lbs. less most of the time.

I know exactly what your saying only on the flip side.

So....I wonder if they liked the gain and tried to gain more or did they just get used to eating/along with metabolism changing and really started packing it on lacking food choice and portion control?

Did you think they shrunk from the dry cleaners at first?

I have accused the dry cleaners of that .........I am sure they get this complaint a lot.