Fantasy Feeder

My fellow fat ladies ?

Hey love. Are you safe right now?

6 months

Mikig1:
My girlfriend was surprise when she visited dietician once.
She calculated that my girlfriend is consuming around 8-10k calories per day when she should no more than 2.5k
My girlfriend really was in shock. She was really angry that the dietician is lying that she is eating too much and that her eating habits are not the healthiest 🙈

Interesting. Was she in denial or what the dietician wrong?

6 months

Munchies

Weight gain

Munchies:

Also, dental issues are common if you eat a lot of sugar, so keep that in mind.

Morbidly A Beast:
Fun fact: you can’t get cavities unless you get a specific bacteria that causes them but most people usually get it when their super young.

Gonna sterilize my whole mouth. Sure, I'll probably destroy it, but you can't get cavities if you don't have a mouth left.

6 months

Munchies

Does masturbation/sex really promote appetite?

LouisXXIV:
Many stories here and there wrote about sex or masturbation during binge eating, and that had a positive effect to each other. i.e. they indicated sex would be a positive thing to appetite during binge eating - but I am feeling the opposite.

Though being stuffed super full is comfortable and arouse me, I actually become really tired and full after sexual activities and don't quite want to eat. Especially, after ejaculation, my stomach contracts to a point that I would nearly vomit out. The strong desire of dumping food into my stomach diminish and I cannot eat any more.

Are there any one having the same experience?
Or, is the myth that sex would promote appetite purely some psycological things, instead of physiological?

Munchies:
It depends.

Mind you, every feedee I've had is a masochist, so keep that in mind. Still, they've all said cumming feels better when stuffed.

LeFerrellV:
Would you say that all Feedees and gainers are Masochists or Masochistic?

Munchies:
Oh, definately not. I have met a lot that absolutely hate pain. They are strictly hedonists. Some are neither. There's a lot of variety. I'm a sadist, so it's only natural I go for masochists.

LeFerrellV:
How does one go about learning these things about themselves because I have never ever experienced feedism with another person.

Munchies:
Lotta ways. The most common way is to explore the fantasy side of things. There's tons of stories, pictures, videos, art, games and more. You can also explore the kink with someone else.

Your profile says you are happily married. Maybe you can explore it with your spouse.

LeFerrellV:
My spouse doesn't know about my kink... I tried to tell her about it starting from when I was a teen but her response scared me so I left it alone.

Imma level with you, chief. I don't see keeping this from her ending well.

I'm not saying you are a bad guy. I don't know you from Adam. But I've seen this play out the same way so many times with others in your position.

You are on a fetish site. Your wife will find out eventually. Even if you remain faithful to her, her first throught is that you aren't.

I'm not saying you need to delete your account and tell her everything. But you need to tell her sooner than later. I'm curious as to what she said/did that spooked you so.

6 months

Munchies

Weight gain

PiggyMouth:
I had a question. Do you know if I drink a lot of sweet soda of cream, milk, will I get as fat as someone who eats a lot of fast food?

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Yes, but all that sugar will make you sick, so limit the soda.

Also, dental issues are common if you eat a lot of sugar, so keep that in mind.

6 months

Munchies

Does masturbation/sex really promote appetite?

LouisXXIV:
Many stories here and there wrote about sex or masturbation during binge eating, and that had a positive effect to each other. i.e. they indicated sex would be a positive thing to appetite during binge eating - but I am feeling the opposite.

Though being stuffed super full is comfortable and arouse me, I actually become really tired and full after sexual activities and don't quite want to eat. Especially, after ejaculation, my stomach contracts to a point that I would nearly vomit out. The strong desire of dumping food into my stomach diminish and I cannot eat any more.

Are there any one having the same experience?
Or, is the myth that sex would promote appetite purely some psycological things, instead of physiological?

Munchies:
It depends.

Mind you, every feedee I've had is a masochist, so keep that in mind. Still, they've all said cumming feels better when stuffed.

LeFerrellV:
Would you say that all Feedees and gainers are Masochists or Masochistic?

Munchies:
Oh, definately not. I have met a lot that absolutely hate pain. They are strictly hedonists. Some are neither. There's a lot of variety. I'm a sadist, so it's only natural I go for masochists.

LeFerrellV:
How does one go about learning these things about themselves because I have never ever experienced feedism with another person.

Lotta ways. The most common way is to explore the fantasy side of things. There's tons of stories, pictures, videos, art, games and more. You can also explore the kink with someone else.

Your profile says you are happily married. Maybe you can explore it with your spouse.

6 months

Munchies

Does masturbation/sex really promote appetite?

LouisXXIV:
Many stories here and there wrote about sex or masturbation during binge eating, and that had a positive effect to each other. i.e. they indicated sex would be a positive thing to appetite during binge eating - but I am feeling the opposite.

Though being stuffed super full is comfortable and arouse me, I actually become really tired and full after sexual activities and don't quite want to eat. Especially, after ejaculation, my stomach contracts to a point that I would nearly vomit out. The strong desire of dumping food into my stomach diminish and I cannot eat any more.

Are there any one having the same experience?
Or, is the myth that sex would promote appetite purely some psycological things, instead of physiological?

Munchies:
It depends.

Mind you, every feedee I've had is a masochist, so keep that in mind. Still, they've all said cumming feels better when stuffed.

LeFerrellV:
Would you say that all Feedees and gainers are Masochists or Masochistic?

Oh, definately not. I have met a lot that absolutely hate pain. They are strictly hedonists. Some are neither. There's a lot of variety. I'm a sadist, so it's only natural I go for masochists.

6 months

Munchies

Does masturbation/sex really promote appetite?

LouisXXIV:
Many stories here and there wrote about sex or masturbation during binge eating, and that had a positive effect to each other. i.e. they indicated sex would be a positive thing to appetite during binge eating - but I am feeling the opposite.

Though being stuffed super full is comfortable and arouse me, I actually become really tired and full after sexual activities and don't quite want to eat. Especially, after ejaculation, my stomach contracts to a point that I would nearly vomit out. The strong desire of dumping food into my stomach diminish and I cannot eat any more.

Are there any one having the same experience?
Or, is the myth that sex would promote appetite purely some psycological things, instead of physiological?

It depends.

Mind you, every feedee I've had is a masochist, so keep that in mind. Still, they've all said cumming feels better when stuffed.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
Maybe there are women who like obese men, but most of them are only a virtual relationship and no contact (which are very few) but they would never have a date with one in public, because of what other people would say about them, I see more men who have no problem dating a beautiful obese or chubby woman, I also noticed something sad (correct me if I'm wrong) the so-called Body Positive is more for women than men, if an obese man asks a girl out and she says no, the guy can not say to her: ``You are a fatphobe! '' they just laugh at him and nothing happens, and when it is the other way around, when a chubby girl is rejected by a guy, then society labels the man as bad and fatphobic, that's the perception I have where I live.

I am very curious as to the people you are hanging around.

Fat men and AMABs can get it. Even outside the kink, they can get it. A lot of them end up in happy, fulfilling relationships.

And yeah, fatphobes of all stripes exist, but I'm shocked you think women and AFABs have better protection than men and AMABs in this regard. Society says some of the most deplorable things about women's bodies. In fact, a woman who isn't overweight but has a bit of a belly is called all kinds of horrible things. This is compounded if she's a POCs, disabled, a mother, etc

This is not to say that men don't experience fatphobia. They do. I've seen some really vile shit that no one should even endure. However, you need to understand the difference in society between men and women to understand why things are so different.

In society's eyes, men's value is their ability to provide. Yes, he might bullied for his size, but if he can provide in other ways, he gets a pass. Being fat is a sin, so you better be useful to make up for this.

Contrast this with society's view for women. For us, our value is in being pretty and reproducing. It doesn't matter of we excell in other area. To society, if a woman is ugly, then she might as well drop dead.

There's a men's body positive movement. It's not hard to find it, but it doesn't get as much press as the female counterpart. This is because there's more shame directed at fat women than fat men.

I've seen some evil things said about fat people. However, there's a huge difference in how that hate is expressed. When a man or AMAB is fat, society wants them to hide themselves. When a woman or AFAB is fat, society wants them to die.

6 months

Munchies

Wedge pillow

NoMoYoYo:

I don't know 100%, but I think that because my belly has expanded a lot, it's pulling my torso down and out of alignment and causing of my sore back.

Has anybody used a wedge pillow for this reason? Should I get one? It would probably be more comfortable than pants.

Razz:
I started to have a very similar thing to this. Lifelong side sleeper, went from thin to big belly such that now I kind of half-roll forward while I sleep because of the weight, and it throws my back out of alignment.

What's helped a bit was actually a knee pillow, goes in between your legs. Somewhat concave on both sides, has a strap to attach to one leg. It kind of forces me to not let my top leg roll forward. Some nights it still doesn't help, but the pain has gone down a lot overall.

NoMoYoYo:
Thanks! My top leg does roll forward, it didn't even cross my mind that this could be a problem, but makes total sense. I will give this a shot!

It's a game changer. No matter how big you are, you should sleep with a pillow between your knees. It keeps your hips in alignment and relieves pressure on your lower back.

6 months

Munchies