First of all, don't believe the tabloids. I have seen TV shows interview NAAFA people, and they lied about what they ate, made big spreads about what they ate (tables full of food) that just wasn't true.

Secondly, the human body is very resilient. When it stops eating, it does not know it is trying to lose weight. There is an automatic mechinism which both slows the metabolism to store more fat, gives extreme hunger pains to encourage people to eat more. Once you get fat cells, you generally do not lose them, you can only shrink them. And the natural tendency is for the fat cells to be normal size.

Also, most of the famous fat people like Walter Hudson died after dieting, few, if any died at their highest weight.

Again, she is larger than my preference. So, I am NOT saying she should get fat. I am saying that dieting is making the situation worse, and making her even fatter.

It seems that every time she loses weight, she regains more than she lost. So, I don't think that losing it is a choice for her. The only choice is to stay at a high weight, or yoyo and let her weight get even higher.

I should add, that she is well above my preference. So, it's not that I want her to stay at that weight.

I also don't understand the line "her cellulitis has worsened." Cellulitis is an infection which is fatal if not treated and stopped. It's not something you live with and get treated only if it gets worse. Obviously whoever wrote the article is not a medical expert.

First of all, I don't know how reliable the tabloids are. Secondly, once someone starts yoyoing, it is going to mean wide swings in their weight. Yoyoing is also very bad on the body. Most likely if she just stayed at a high weight, she would be better off. She will probably end up dying from her weight swings, and they will blame her weight rather than the yoyoing.

Good luck, if you are honest. I posted about feederism being OK if it's between two consneting adults, and someone did not like it. Since POF has only one employee, and his aim is selling advertisments, if anyone complains, the computer software deletes the account and bans that email for life.

You gain weight where you are genetically predisposed to gain weight. It's not like placing an order.

Someone compared to dieting like a slingshot. The weight comes back on much faster after dieting.

Whatever anyone wants to be is fine. But I think it shows that some people who are thin, are just meant to be thin, and people who are large are just meant to be large.

One problem, is that you really don't get to know the person before you make decisions about moving, etc. It was a disaster with my first wife. If I had more time to observe her, I would not have married her.

I guess no one has gone from average to super size. Interesting how everyone plans to gain, but never does. At least not a large amount.