So, I start to notice my wife slightly gaining and eating more snacks and treats. I start to stock the pantry with cookies, chocolates, chips and the freezer with Pints of ice cream and other ice cream snacks.

She continues to eat more and more in the next weeks. I begin to buy more and more each time. (5) boxes or cookies, several pounds of chocolate, (7) bags of chips, (5) pints of fattening ice cream and huge family size of ice cream treats. She still mentions nothing and at a very fast pace consumes the volume of treats.

At this point I rarely see her snacking but when I get home their are multiple ice cream wrappers, chip bags, etc. in the trash and much of the snack inventory depleted.

As her appetite grows out of control as she sits down her large breasts in her very snug tank tops are huge along with an upper belly roll smashed next to them and her lower belly roll resting on her lap. As my eyes make their way down with her body with her legs so femininely crossed her thighs look so massive and sexy along with her ever growing ***....just as I am in awe of her sexy fattened figure....a soft voice says "what are we going to do for dinner, I am starving". It was almost music to my ears.

I don't know if this can be classified as "secret fattening" because she is a pretty sharp woman.....but I guess she just caves into her huge sweet tooth and love for snacking. I mean when I fill the pantry and the freezer with that much snacks and ice cream it is almost obscene and totally obvious.

The best part of it is her appetite grows out of control and she cant really stop eating like this with out huge effort and even sometimes that doesn't even work for many months.

Having my wife on top is the ultimate.....although she is not huge....yet....I look forward to feeling her at huge weight one day hopefully when she is on top.

She is gaining right now and the Love making is oh so much better with every Lb.

I can feel the extra 25 Lbs. she has gained in the last 4-5 months when she is on top.

After my wife gets a huge appetite after weeks of eating more and more she starts to "secret eat".

I catch her in the pantry after finishing a huge dinner and desert in front of me. I walk by the pantry and see her quickly out the corner of my eye, she seems slightly embarrassed by being caught snacking on cookies or breaking off a piece of coffee cake etc. Moments later she will get off the couch again and start secret snacking again. The best is when I get in the shower it gives her free reign of the kitchen and pantry as I see her leave our room right when I get in the shower and as I get out I see her enter back into the room.I will go to the kitchen after drying off and see that she polished off a couple of ice cream bars by seeing the wrappers in the trash or see that she wolfed down a good 10-15 oreo cookies. I have purposely started taking longer showers during the evenings just to give her enough time to keep stuffing herself. She definitely uses all the extra time I give her because she always times walking back in to the bedroom after she hears the water turn off. So it turns into an extra 20 minutes of stuffing herself after she has had a huge dinner and desert and then multiple snacks in the pantry. I would say she is most likely getting 2000-2500 calories per night during this time.

I find it so sexy that she tries and hide all her extra snacking because I think it is great....but I kind of feel like a spy looking for how much extra secret eating she is doing and it turns me on greatly. Even better than secret snacking is being a continual pig right in front of my eyes because I know at this stage she doesn't even mind me watching how much snacking she is doing. During these times she will grab a brand new bag of chips before dinner and finish them off right in front of me watching TV and then go back and get some Chocolate and then discuss what we are going to do for dinner as if she is starving......so damn sexy!

I am not totally sure her weight gain turns her on (but it would be so great if it did) but she certainly hasn't slowed down her eating and snacking in a long time.

This session came after a great Filet dinner for both of us and she insisted on a Mud pie afterwards. I told the waitress who was cute, young and pretty overweight to make it a big piece. She smiled and came back with a Mountain of a mud pie that easily could have been mistaken for two pieces and enough chocolate and whip cream around it to make it easily 3,000 calories I would say. My wife didn't even comment like she would normally by saying something like "That is huge or you are going to have to help me with this." She simply started right in on it while I had 2 small bites.....in a about 5 minutes she finished down to about the last 5 bites to make it look like she couldn't finish it. Afterwards she mentioned nothing just sat there looking satisfied, Beautiful and stuffed into her full length casual dress with her lower belly layer out onto her lap and her dress very tight nowadays when it used to be more flow forming and loose.

Anyways, I totally love her gaining and getting fatter but really am pretty excited about her fattening down below as well.....so sexy! It was the most shocking and sexy surprise I have ever had......I never knew about it.

Dont mention that she has gained weight at first. Simply show her even more soft affection if you have not already being that you cant keep your hands off her new expanding parts.

Then shortly after mention how great she look's lately. More than likely if it is a decent amount of weight gained she knows and she will then say something like in a complaint reply (Based on societies standards of perceived beauty) "that's strange because I have gained a ton of weight" or maybe even tell you that she has just gained 15 Lbs. and she is struggling to fit into any of her clothes.

Then say ...."well I think you look great". Wait for her reaction to gauge how you should approach telling her that you wouldn't mind if she gained even more if it look's this beautiful on her.

Pretty much the same here!

On woman .....and my wife....she is Pear shaped with Large breasts and Fat lower belly with very full upper arms. When she keeps gaining she really becomes more of a Fat Pear with a big lower belly. I love her at her highest weights.

As for me I am a muscle chub and as I get heavier it really goes to a big gut!

My wife used to like me a little more cut up and thinner.....but as time has gone on and she has been gaining I think she enjoy's both of us being big foodees and eating, eating and more eating and not really
mentioning our gaining. The bigger she gets the more affectionate she is and the less it seems she minds both of us being bigger. That is until she mentions diet I guess....which I dread those words.

So my wife has been steadily gaining weight over the last 4-5 months. I would guesstimate around 20-25 Lbs. in that time on her already shorter plumper figure. I am absolutely loving her extra weight.

The last several times we were intimate and I gave her oral to orgasm I noticed her Inner Vaginal Lips were much more plumped up and fuller.....almost as if the weight she has gained has made her lips much more succulent than ever and "Fatter". Anyone know if this is fairly common? It was a noticeable "excellent difference".

I would love to know if this is common or if anyone else has experienced this or heard about it?

I can understand the distress in figuring out the right way to discuss.

It seem's like you are fairly new in this relationship....how long have you known here or been going out?

I have been married for many many years and dated my wife for several years before that. At the beginning I told my wife or girlfriend at that time fairly directly to lay off the gym and eat more. Then I asked her to try and gain some weight for me. Many years years have passed by and she gained and lost many times not necessarily for me but mainly because she likes to eat and really loves her sweats.

In the last several years I found myself gaining while stocking the house full of food and deserts and snacks in hopes she would eat herself out of many sizes of clothes. I happened to gain during this times and decided to intentionally gain myself along with her gaining 10-15 Lbs. I ended up gaining close to 40 Lbs. and she never mentioned anything other than a couple of times playfully when she was intoxicated.

Currently she is on a good gaining streak of her own and I don't mention anything for fear she may try and diet to lose all her new sexy Lbs. She is walking around the house with tight shorts and tiny tank tops that barely fit now due to her 25 or Lb. weight gain......it is so damn sexy but I don't say a thing. There are times where her belly is so big after dinner and multiple deserts that her tank top rides up exposing her now huge lower belly roll. don't say anything but sometimes I think she wants me to notice or say something.....even though in the past she would a lot of times be disgusted by her gaining.....but this time she seems like she wants me to notice and point out the obvious.

I slow down and take a deep breath and say nothing. I guess what I am saying is that maybe 25% of her might be intrigued by her fattened up figure and displays it openly in front of me ....possibly to watch my mouth water or my jaw drop open but ultimately I think if I discussed her weight gain she would get more and more turned off by it. Simply because most people are not like us and can talk and think about weight gain almost all the time.

Hopefully you are right and your girl is into gaining herself and you can have a mutual gaining relationship.
I would say hint around and see how she takes it.

Let us know how it goes.

I think it is common if you have this fetish to admire other bellies be it that it is another guy. Primarily for the purpose of envisioning what it would be like to have your own belly that big and Fat and how it would feel.

Likewise I admire women's figures and actually pick out bellies etc. on fatter bigger women who have similar figures to my wife and envision her at that bigger size or weight.

I am sure it has a lot to do with the overall change that excites us with regard to gaining in general. I do however appreciate many bellies but like I said with my wife as well as myself when looking at some guy's really big Fat bellies it is more finding one that look's similar to mine that I can dream of getting that big or huge.