This This This!!!

A long time ago I used to tell my girlfriend at the time....why do you need to go to the gym so much? You could stand to gain a few Lbs. not lose!

Then I told her to try and gain 10 lbs.....then 10 more

later when she was my wife and she gained a lot of weight with pregnancies and was around 200 Lbs. I told her and thought she looked more beautiful than ever.
After losing around 20 Lbs. of the baby weight she ended up gaining a lot more weight and was fatter than ever.....and she was more beautiful than ever to me.

At this time she probably didn't believe that I thought she was so beautiful even though I truthfully did and showed and told her all the time. I would have thought she was even more beautiful the heavier she got......so yes if your man hints around or even tells you to gain some weight....usually it is a heck of a lot more weight than you would even think!!!

Ok....I have to say that is sooooo Hot!

I wish my wife would have the same reaction if I told her that.....and she would make it her project to get as Fat as she could!

Hmmmm maybe reverse Psychology is the way?

Well, parents always have a vision for their children whether it is right or wrong and communicate in wrong ways at times.

Controlling your meals seems a bit extreme especially since you are not really even big....right? Has your mother always tried to control your eating or is it something new and maybe she has noticed the recent gain of yours along with the increased appetite?

Are you interested it gaining a lot or just having fun with it as a new experience and you are enjoying it? I would say take it slow and have fun and try and talk to your mother in a constructive way with regard to your body and how a little weight gain doesn't bother you the way it might her....because everyone is different! Maybe even have her try and think about something she may have done in the past that her mother didn't approve of but she did because it was her own decision and wasn't hurting anyone else.

Interesting reaction! Obviously very sexy from a weight gain perspective!

Thanks!

Thanks for your quality input! I agree that this above is most likely the reason, coupled with she doesn't want to be told what to do. Not to mention once you gain a lot of weight and get used to eating so much more, it isn't really fun to make a change and not eat the same and try and get the weight off.

All very valid points, Thanks for the input>

Thanks for your input! agreed with the point of someone telling you what to do would actually change things to spite them if you will.

Valid points and I think most who desire their significant others to gain and or share their gaining fantasies with their significant others definitely leave themselves open to being a bit strange and not close to the norm.

Thanks again for your personal take on this.

I agree with this and have seen this happen a lot.

As far as discussing another's situation I felt as though the anonymity was there....and I was only wondering what others may think of the situation possibly relating it to their own. I don't plan on being involved in this question any further but merely thought it would be interesting.

Once again I remain with my original thought's as the comment's seemed rather aggressive....and it is clearly not the first time I thought this about other post's i have read.

I also agree that I come here for like minded talk and thought's and don't really try and approach thing's in an derogatory or aggressive manner......with that said this kind of banter isn't what I come here for. Everyone is different OBVIOUSLY and if they want to have a Bitch session, a condescending scolding or a reprimand/lecture so be it......I don't have the time for it.

Interesting post ....I had to respond!

For me ....I have always been attracted to chunkier girls when I was younger and years later my desire for more weight on women has increased.

I have always been into weight gain on women and watching the changes as they became bigger. I appreciate weight gain on all women but am most interested in the one I am with to gain weight. I really like everything about my wife as she gains weight....first and foremost her care free and more sexual attitude, definitely her bigger appetite......her bigger belly, fatter sexy thighs, her softer and wider love handles, her big wide bubble butt, her breasts that seem to get enormous, her fat pillowy upper arms with just a hint of cellulite on them and even her heart shaped face as it softens and looks puffier with an ever so slight double chin.

With all this said everyone has a preference and I think there are a lot of guy's that like heavier women other than the ones who actually admit it. I myself as previously mentioned used to like girls on the shorter side and who were chunkier than normal, then I began to like women who were clearly overweight by most peoples standards, as time went on I liked women 200 Lbs., then 250 Lbs. and now I find myself loving the look of a shorter woman that is 350+ Lbs. My wife is 5' 3" and around 175 Lbs. with a fairly small frame/bone structure.....she was at 200 Lbs. after several kids and she looked amazing....I can't help but wonder how she would look at say 250 Lbs. and I even wish I had a crystal ball to see her at 300 Lbs......oh heck I would think she was mouth watering babealicious at that weight....I already know......I guess it is the saying you can never have to much of a good thing.