Buffet restaurants are also a good option. I stuff anywhere though.

I havent done plain cream much, but I certainly have gorged on ice cream quite often. A new discovery is making nutella fondue, which is just nutella and heavy cream. But usually I just eat the Nutella out of the jar.

I usually get indirect comments, like "do you still exercise?" My parents keep saying "looks like you've put on some weight" as if to start a conversation but I just deflect and say "I guess" and start a new topic. What I really want to say is that I have been gaining weight on purpose and want to be much fatter, and it probably somehow relates to this family's obsession with weight all the time! Then go grab a huge pile of food and stuff right there. haha

I have to say I am a little embarrassed by my moobs, so its good to hear that some appreciate them. When I was about 30 lbs thinner I was out at a club dancing a little and a girl cupped my moob (probably thinking it was more of a muscular peck!) and then whispered to her friend and started laughing. Ever since then I'm a bit self conscious and I have put on 30-40 lbs since, so my moobs are quite a bit fatter!

Nothing major for me after gaining 80 lbs. Some of the standard blood test numbers are not as good but not high or over limits. The main thing is that I think I have started snoring so I don't sleep as well... sleeping on my side fixes that though.

I have also gone to a few buffets or other meals by myself and stuffed. Mostly because I don't really have any fat friends or feeders to do it with! It's still fun though, especially getting a few looks as my belly begins to push out against my shirt and belt more and more.

The mental barrier is tough. I have struggled with that. For years I wouldn't let myself gain even a few pounds but then I let go a bit as a test and really enjoyed it. I lost the weight and then went for a more dramatic gain recently, which started out as letting go a bit to outright gaining on purpose (total 80 lbs).

Gaining has been great... one of the best decisions I have made... I feel much more free and happy. I haven't gotten many negative comments from people that I don't want to hear them from, but might if I gained more.

Of course, I feel like I want to gain even more, up to 300 lbs! So far, I havent been able to get past 250 without panicking and losing some weight. I am interested in hearing how others have dealt with this too.

I would say you should try a small test with about 20 lbs. You will likely enjoy it but then you can decide what to do. I think you are right that large gains are hard to reverse, but they are also so fun You will ultimately have to do what makes you happy... easier said than done...

Yes, this happened to me. I gained a lot and then tried to lose... lost some, then gained it all back plus some... and repeat that a few times. Here I am gaining again. Recent gains have all been on purpose though. Its just too fun

belly mostly, but also love handles and moobs

This has happened with two girls I have dated. In one case a salesperson at a retail store said something to the effect of congratulations and good luck on your pregnancy and my girlfriend said that she was just fat... awkward silence followed. In the other case, it was a coworker noticing how much bigger her belly was getting. I dont remember her response, but she had to confess that she was just getting fatter. They each took it surprisingly well, although it made them think about dieting for a moment. I loved it of course... nothing better than other noticing the signs of a good gain.