Delta9:
Why is it that even with body positivity and size acceptance becoming mainstream that feedism is still seen as bad by most, even regular fat people who don't share the fetish?
My opinion:
1. Encouraging fat gain is seen as encouraging someone to be more unhealthy. Almost like saying, "I only love you because you're an alcoholic". Substance abuse being analogous to food abuse. And most people see alcoholism as very self destructive. And many people see size acceptance as promoting the person's psychological health by ignoring the cost to their physical health.
2. It's almost the opposite of body positivity/acceptance, because it's saying we want someone to change the way their body already is to please us. It would be one thing to say someone is fat and I love them or like their body that way, but saying someone is thin and to please me they need to change their body by becoming fat is obviously not acceptance. I think to people outside this community, it feels very much like using the other person by projecting our desires onto them and expecting it to manifest in a physical way. Taking control of the feedee's own body and body image away from them.

I think the biggest disconnect in all this is not understanding or believing why someone would want to be or change to become fat. But we know that people actively go on weight loss programs all the time. They want to change their bodies. And promoting that is totally fine (in the mainstream). Yet promoting or helping someone go the opposite direction (to get fat) is bad. So it's obvious that being a healthy happy thin person is still not seen as equal to being a healthy happy fat person.

Munchies:
This is the biggest reason. That and most public depictions of feeders are predatory men taking advantage of women with low self-esteem.

FattyHunter:
I recently selected a new submissive to serve me. She’s a foot shorter and very thick with large breasts and soft features. She’s currently in training as I’m her first true Dom and she’s hinting at becoming a little heavier…

Little does she know that I’m going to fatten her up to my standards.

LoraDayton:
Pretty sure you're describing something that can be a felony in several states.

This isn't "domination" this is abuse, assault, and food tampering.

StormEnthusiast:
Yes, and it was amazing. Falling in love with someone who has the same/similar kinks as you makes intimacy much more enjoyable.

Just make sure that you're not getting into the relationship for lust, but because you actually like (eventually love) the person :]

Chubster87:
Ive been drinking 2500 calories a day of heavy cream. Thats my base amount of calories out of the way and then after that whatever I eat is a bonus and thats usually an extra 3000 calories..I'm getting really fat fast

Delta9:
Why is it that even with body positivity and size acceptance becoming mainstream that feedism is still seen as bad by most, even regular fat people who don't share the fetish?
My opinion:
1. Encouraging fat gain is seen as encouraging someone to be more unhealthy. Almost like saying, "I only love you because you're an alcoholic". Substance abuse being analogous to food abuse. And most people see alcoholism as very self destructive. And many people see size acceptance as promoting the person's psychological health by ignoring the cost to their physical health.
2. It's almost the opposite of body positivity/acceptance, because it's saying we want someone to change the way their body already is to please us. It would be one thing to say someone is fat and I love them or like their body that way, but saying someone is thin and to please me they need to change their body by becoming fat is obviously not acceptance. I think to people outside this community, it feels very much like using the other person by projecting our desires onto them and expecting it to manifest in a physical way. Taking control of the feedee's own body and body image away from them.

I think the biggest disconnect in all this is not understanding or believing why someone would want to be or change to become fat. But we know that people actively go on weight loss programs all the time. They want to change their bodies. And promoting that is totally fine (in the mainstream). Yet promoting or helping someone go the opposite direction (to get fat) is bad. So it's obvious that being a healthy happy thin person is still not seen as equal to being a healthy happy fat person.

Morbidly A Beast:
People who have been fat all their lives have feelings associated with it and them seeing people enjoying what causes them so much suffering could come off as trivializing their struggles and hardships. Also yeah, people aren’t ready for people who are fat and happy

Ssbbwstella:
Hey, I’m just looking to expand my taste buds and wanting to try some big challenges if anyone can give me recipes

0Seth0:
It can actually be easier thank you think. For example, pasta carbonara can easly get up to 1000 calories per serving. And then I'm talking about normal servings. An experienced eater can easly shove 1500 - 2000 calories pf pasta carbonara down their throat

Primal23:
Heavy cream alone can be a huge weight gain help. Making weight gain shakes can also help. Heavy cream, weight gainer powder (found in health food stores for body builders), and ice cream all blended together. Mixing heavy cream with sugary foods. Just be sure to pace yourself and give your gi track time to adjust to such high fat food and drink. Smaller amounts many times a day is better than all at once. Good luck!

Sl2010:
Both have their places and their uses. If I want to get lost in the fantasy I want a slower burn. If I want something to…satisfy quicker (wink) something faster and more intense is fun. Your stories always deliver!

DeepAppreciation:
There is something erotic when women embrace gaining in their mid 30s to late 40s. Typically these women have been suppressing the desire to have a chubby belly or be fat but now just can’t hold it back any longer.

Emerging from that cocoon of fear and shame produces such beautiful results!

DeepAppreciation:
There is something erotic when women embrace gaining in their mid 30s to late 40s. Typically these women have been suppressing the desire to have a chubby belly or be fat but now just can’t hold it back any longer.

Emerging from that cocoon of fear and shame produces such beautiful results!