It sounds like you care for this person, and I hope you two can continue to be friends. But it sounds like you'd be better off not as a romantic couple, and if she's going to care for you in a friendship capacity then she needs to recognize and respect that your romantic/relationship needs are important to you, even if the things you want and need aren't things that appeal to her.
3 years
Private Practice by Corey on Dimensions! It's a bit of a slow burn but so, so worth it for all the descriptions of the stuffings & pregnant belly.
3 years
-Polycule of feeder(s) and feedee(s)
-Feeder (willingly) turned feedee
-Platonic weight gain encouragement (maybe with friends to lovers?) Also, on that note:
-Weight gain competition between 2 or more feedees
-Weight gain as part of a healing process (either emotional or physical)
Ofc, this is just some of my personal favorite tropes. I know there are a few good stories on here that incorporate them, but I'd never say no to more!
I'll list more if I can think of any.
3 years
My partner who's a feedee and a car salesman recommends looking into a Kia Sorrento. Other options include pickup trucks with a bench seat or a Mazda CX5. Basically you're gonna want a good ride height that'll be easy on your knees--you want to be sitting, not squatting. But if you really want a sedan, a Chrysler 300.
3 years
Five Little Piggies by CyrilFiggus on here
Heavy Debt by JP on Dimensions
My story Big Tech and Bombshell also has a premise centered around rapid xwg but it's currently on hiatus while I work on Spark.
3 years
You can deep fry in a large stock pot on the stove. The walls of the pot will be tall enough to stop oil from jumping out and it's easier to clean than a fryer with a basket. If you want to save the oil you can just cover it with the lid so dust doesn't get in there. But don't reuse it too many times--when it starts to darken in color, replace it. For fishing the finished food out of the pot, get a large metal strainer or slotted spoon. Happy cooking and happy feeding!
3 years
Two reasons:
1. Capitalism is interested in selling thinness as the ideal because it's hard and expensive to maintain and the diet industry as well as the medical-industrial complex are determined to milk societal insecurity for all it's worth, and
2. Bezos, Musk and Zuckerburg are hoarding all the money.
You for real sound like an awesome feedee and if it was possible I'd say let's buy a mansion and a bunch of feeders and feedees could just live there all together and have a great time but I'm a broke bitch too.
3 years
Bicepsual:
I could see Findom being a natural pairing with feederism.
The man being financially dominated by his obese princess who runs up his cards on constant eating out, delivery meals, snacks and verbally lets him know his place and how the money is all hers if he wants to see her grow.
Aroused by checking his bank account and seeing the countless food charges.
Love this! But with me as the feeder/breadwinner and watching my spoiled flabby prince/ss blow all my money on junk food and sexy outfits to fatten themself out of before my eyes *drool*
3 years
Next time someone says something rude to/about your feedee, remind them of the lesson every first grade teacher tells their class: "If you don't have something nice to say, then just don't say anything."
And some of them probably think they're showing "tough love," but in that case pull them aside and show them a study or two on the subject: it's been clinically proven that not only does fat-shaming not help anyone lose weight, but it has a very negative impact on overall health as well.
Not that health is a metric for worth, but maybe they'll stop if they heard it from a literal doctor that their words are not helping.
3 years
