CuppaJoe:
I agree with Animus - congratulations on making the decision to potentially risk rejection and to share something deeply personal in your relationship.
How many times do you see the advice (even in these forums!) to talk with your partner and openly and lovingly communicate about your emotional and sexual needs and desires? (Heck, I feel like Munchies must have a copy/paste file at this point - lol)
Part of communication is active listening and ensuring that you are sensitive to your partners needs and desires as well. As with anything new, start slowly and check frequently with your partner- explain that you are so excited that they are trying something that you love, and that you want to ensure that they are also okay...
My first few times feeding someone new to feederism were not to max stuff to the point of discomfort, but simply to introduce some fun decadent treats into the bedroom. Cake, brownies, ice cream, eclairs, donuts - these are all pretty great starters that you can start/stop depending on how your partner is doing. Let him/her/them dictate to you how far to go, and provide a LOT of verbal and physical feedback to let him/her/them know how much YOU are enjoying what they are doing.
Good luck!
You and Munchies have solid points yourselves
3 years
Lemon2:
Hi all, looking for advice.
I recently came out to my skinny wife about my preferences/kinks. I was worried she would be weirded out, but she wasn't which was great! However, she did mention that while she wasn't weirded out at all, she wasn't looking to put on weight which I totally understood.
Since that discussion, I haven't pressured her but we have had many casual conversations about it. She had a lot of questions about feederism because she was curious. She's never thought it was strange.
Recently, she brought up to me how she would let me feed her during sex because she thought i would like it and mentioned "who knows, maybe i'll enjoy it too".
Obviously, I'm ecstatic to get the chance to explore this with her (even if it's only slightly). However, I am looking for advice for how I should approach feeding/stuffing her during sex. She is submissive, but she's new to this and obviously it's my kink more than hers.
Anyone encounter this sort of situation before and have any advice?
Just would like to give you kudos for opening up the conversation to her as that is typically the hardest part.
3 years
For me, it really kicked off in college, as that was when people around me started gaining weight. From then on, I only dated fat women. It’s rare for me to find an average sized woman, but not out of the question.
3 years
The***teen:
I have been together with my gf for 5 years.
She is not into this fetish (I think) and doesn't know I am gaining weight on purpose.
When we met I was arround 75-80 kgs.
Now I'm pushing over 130 kgs atm
I got pretty fat honestly 😅
She was really really skinny when we meet, she was arround maby 60 kgs.
She is 97 kgs now,
I am Completly covered i stretchmarks all over my body, she did not have a single one when I meet her, now she have stretchmarks all over as well, including a few on her belly.
She doesn't seem to mind gaining weight, and my "bad" eating habits have really rubbed off on her 😅🐖
Sounds like both of you are happy😀
3 years
It’s a possibility for sure. I have a friend who is the same way despite not knowing if they have the kink or not
3 years
Throwaway77:
If you could be as big as you want for a day, how big would you be?
Blimp Bizkit:
I would love to be 420 lbs for one day 🤩 I would had loved to feel all that fat on me and feeling how heavy I am
350 for sure
3 years
Cinnamontwist:Krispy Kreme donuts
Soooo good and fresh, right out of the oven!
3 years
I like the idea of being inflated like a balloon in front of my partner and her friends. To see their look of horror at my completely rounded body, growing larger of course.
3 years
This is on my list of things. I do have a higher libido so that would complicate such if someone had to help me, but still find the scenario intoxicating
3 years
