Bxbeans:
Feederism is skewed so that there are naturally more female feedees and male feeders/encouragers. I wanted a topic for ladies and other vulnerable groups to share their experiences and tip and tricks to staying safe in the kink.
I would like this topic to be a safe space. Men - we can't stop you from reading (and you might learn something) but it would be great if this could be a discussion for women and trans members.
For example, real-world ethical questions like: staying safe from abusive feeders. Consent in feeding, especially force feeding. Or if you had a feeder that was fattening you for sexual gratification without your knowledge, how close do you consider this to r*pe?
If a feeder fattens you up without your consent, this is abuse. I would consider it rape due to the sexual element.
As a female feeder, it disheartens me so much to see how many of my male counterparts do not seek out enthusiastic yeses from others. To them, "no" doesn't mean "no". It's a challenge to overcome.
It's all wrapped up in entitlement and shame. They feel entitled to having a feedee but are too chicken shit and impatient to go about it the right way.
And on that note, some of y'all need to be bashed with a steel chair. Specifically, the ones who are either in a relationship with a non-feedee or a feedee who's losing weight and are looking for ways to fatten them up. Knock it off. That's gross. You're gross. Be better.
and being told I needed to lose 5 lbs because I was too heavy. 