Chefs

girlcrisis:
I suppose the idea of someone who will spoil them by cooking them lots of good food is what makes dating a chef appealing to people? And maybe some women find all the macho behaviour associated with professional kitchens appealing.

I work as a pastry chef though and can think of nothing worse than dating a chef. It's a profession that requires a lot of single minded commitment and doesn't leave a lot of time in your life for many other people or interests. During a typical week I'm in the kitchen from 9am to 10 or 11pm 5 days a week and have worked 100 hour weeks on occasion to cover holidays, illness or other staffing issues.

People always say to my girlfriend "It must be great dating a chef! She must cook for you all the time." I do love to cook for her or take her out to nice restaurants but I only get the chance on my days off. Most chefs I know hate cooking at home though and eat pretty terribly.


Wow, I really had no idea...I supposed it would arise out of a dislike for chocolate if you worked at the Hershey factory as a similar example?
9 years

Chefs

Is it just me, or do women really like chefs?
9 years

The maximum rate of gain

MissPorker:
The max I've gained was about 24 pounds in a week and 50 in a month. I've been up and down the scale quite a bit (up to 300 down to 260ish, back up to 305 back down to 250, etc.) since I started documenting my gains last July but I was 199.4 on July 14th and I weighed in at 342.6 yesterday, June 2nd.


Damn you're awesome!
9 years

Fat talk

BornAthlete:
I find I get turned on just by hearing certain words spoken, regardless of the context. 'fat', 'blubber', 'flab', 'wobble' and 'waddle' to name but a few..... Am I alone?


Definitely not, those are sexy words! lol
9 years

Unusual gaining/fat distribution?

Finally Fat:
Discovered a nice new padding of fat on my thighs just inside the knees and up. A pronounced pillowiness there.

My legs are fattening. So nice not to be another belly guy.


The inside of my thighs was the first to get fat...there are lots of stretchmarks there, some deep, and they're soft and rub a little. smiley
9 years

Cholesterol, triglycerides and hypothyroidism

SweetLittleTreat:
In my experience, health isn't necessarily all about body type. Yes, being fat can be correlated with certain ailments, but there's a difference between correlation and causation. To me, diet is an important factor in one's health rather than body size, fat percentage, etc. I've seen many cases where people can reverse their diagnosis, but it takes time, effort, and change to do so.

I had issues with blood sugar and PCOS in the past--I had gained a lot of weight in a very unhealthy way (wasn't into feedism at that point though) and it exacerbated both the blood sugar and PCOS issues terribly (even to the point where I no longer had periods). I started eating healthier, even unknowingly dropping some weight, and my health slowly improved, but when I slowly began to transition into a primarily whole foods plant based diet my health got SO GOOD, even though my transition was because of moral reasons. My blood results come back A+, and while I still experience PCOS my periods are fairly regular and my hormones are doing much better. I'm usually more active than I've been the past few weeks, but even with getting a little lazy, my health and energy is still great and I haven't had any trouble with my health since that. I still eat so much every day, and often stuff myself...while I'm not trying to gain weight and maintain my current physique, I imagine I could gain weight if I really wanted to, even though it's difficult to put on weight at my current size haha.

So in short, the answer is YES. Feedism can be compatible with these issues, but it's a matter of choosing how you live and choose to eat. To me, health comes down to diet more than anything--and over time, more unhealthy foods will most likely have an affect on your body. You can choose to ignore this and continue on, which is of course your business and up to you--nobody can tell you what to do. If you'd like to still enjoy feedism while improving your diagnosis, I recommend taking steps to eat healthier foods. Just like unhealthy foods can take a toll on your body, healthier, natural foods can heal you and keep you healthier. It might be harder at first, but the healthier foods grow on you... Plus you learn that there's even processed foods and more fattening treats that can be much better for you than the more cholesterol, saturated fat ,etc. laden counterparts. You may have to eat more calories to gain (but who will complain about that haha) and experiment with home cooking more, but I promise it can be a lot of fun.

Just do everything you would normally do...but just change the type of foods you're eating and try to get more activity into your life. I wish you luck on your journey!


I'm glad you're feeling better and healthier while still being heftier! So promising! smiley
9 years

Thanksgiving fantasies!

fat:
Stuff me with all the desserts!!!!


You got it....all of them! smiley
9 years

Ffas and big moobs

Ditzy:
I have a thing for guys with monster bellies and big moobs are part of the package LOL
Yeah I like em.


Can't weight to look like this! smiley
9 years

Belly drop

greyhound3378:
There is nothing sexier than watching a woman get a huge belly then watch it start to drop. I imagine it depends on height and build, but at what weight does that belly start to hang?


Especially out in public. smiley
9 years

Introduction/ say hi thread

chubbyalyssa:
My name is Alyssa smiley I'm a psychology student in the US. I am here because I'm attracted to chub and I want to meet other people who are as well. I'm trying to put on a little bit of weight and I definitely love seeing others do the same.
Chubby looks good on you, it's great being fat! smiley
9 years