I have always been a muscle chub since gaining weight. I have always had the big gut with tight pecs and big muscular arms although over my gaining and the years my once tight pecs are now big and a lot more squishy. I am not a fan but my wife seems to be very much a fan. At first I was kind of shy she would lead with palming and grabbing my chest most before touching and cuddling my big gut. But both of those two spots are where her hands go first.

It seems true here from women chiming in but do you think average women like to see men’s moons or softer pecs. I notice mine when wearing most shorts these days and I had on a soft white sweatshirt the other night and it was like a magnet attraction as soon as I put it on walking toward my wife my chest must have been bouncing and looking very enticing she could keep her hands off my moobs as soon as I walked over to her.

When I was intentionally gaining and at my heaviest I got absolutely No comments. That’s not to say that everyone didn’t notice the enormous weight in a short time I packed on - mostly all going to my new huge gut.

I so wanted to have my wife tease, joke or even scold me for getting so big, but it didn’t happen. I think she is one that never wants anyone to bring up her gaining and I have learned over the years to not discuss when she starts packing on the pounds unless she does first. I extend her the courtesy of not talking or asking about her gains just discuss how pretty she looks, even though she knows like her gaining weight and getting fatter. I just assumed she extended me the same courtesy even though I was intentionally getting Fat trying to get a reaction from her because it was so arousing to me for her to notice. She seemed to like it as I have mentioned, but never came out and said anything.

I found out some time before that she commented on me from years ago when we were looking at some pictures from way back, she said “that’s when you got heavier”, ironically it aroused me but I wasn’t even close to as big as I was when intentionally gaining. So, she noticed everything even though she did not mention it directly to me at the time. I sometimes wonder if she talks to her friends about my big gut, when I was sporting it and looking 15 months pregnant at the time. Or down the line she comments on pictures together and mention the same thing even though when I was trying to get her to notice, she didn’t say anything and kept feeding me like I was in some eating competition. She was feeding me and us at the time so much especially me it had me thinking I was going to be 350+ lbs. before she ever commented on my gaining.

I am sure her friends talked behind my back and possibly to her. I have heard the way she comments to her friends about other friends of theirs which packed on some pounds.

People see and know that you are getting Fat that just don’t tell you to your face typically.

Also cold temps will make the fingers slim down.

This is the kind of intimacy that makes mutual gaining my favorite!

Both my wife and I were gaining at the same time. When I realized I was getting a big gut I started to intentionally gain while she was just eating really good. I packed on a pretty big gut and she was very close behind with her belly.

I would go in for a kiss standing up and our bellies would bump, at first it was awkward, she would kind of bounce off me coming in for the kiss and then come back reaching one arm over my shoulder and the other hand on top of my big round gut to pull closer for the kiss and our guts would smash together. I was instantly aroused every time, especially with more weight and bigger bellies it was even more challenging but she got the hang of it after a while and it made me feel so Fat and aroused every time.

There are many other things where the intimacy with two big bellies getting in the way is so special and exciting - I can go on but do t want to take up this whole post, yet!

I tend to get this a lot when I am sick. Not the flu type of sickness but if I have a sinus infection or a mild cold, I seem to be ravenous. During a cold like such I tend to gain a good 5-7 pounds from the excess eating within a two week span - even if I was only sick for 3-5 days.

A sexy trade-off problem to have

Not attracted to the opposite gender but I can appreciate a big fat gut on a man. I think it is somewhat normal for us with this fetish and more of an attraction to Fat and its overall aesthetics. Almost like seeing a man gain weight although not nearly as interesting or sexy as a woman gaining weight, but regardless interesting all the same.

When I was quite young I was fascinated with girls belly buttons - primarily the deep innies! I would live exactly what you mentioned anything clothes wise that allowed their belly buttons to show. I think the girls that typically had more stomach fat had the best innies and those were most attractive. I still think today that showing off bellies in clothes is so damn attractive even for 350 + women.

With my wife on her back giving her oral and gently massaging her lower gut. Then having her ride me cowgirl with seeing her huge thighs wrapped on top with her gorgeous gut jiggling with every rhythmic thrust she does.

Very true