quiverdream:
I was hesitant to get on a plane yesterday and the con indeed was how it’s even MORE complicated now because of Covid restrictions, esp between different countries.
But the pro?? It was a long trip and unexpectedly my round, new, little pandemic belly wedged its way up from under my shirt, even though I’d tucked said shirt in originally. And my (non-fa/non-anything-feederism-but-very-open-minded-and-sweet) man took notice and started giving it discreet little rubs 🤤 oh, yes please.
I don’t consider myself to be a gainer and none of my new chub has been intentional at all, and I’m sure it’s still going (bit by bit) because quarantine is still very much not over. Originally I was telling myself I wanted to keep it under control and work it back off- but after that sampling, how could I? Can anyone here relate?
I can relate all too well. Years ago, before I even knew this lifestyle existed; my weight started to slowly creep up. I always put it off and thought that I could lose it at any time but eventually I got used to it and slowly but surely especially during the Fall/ Winter gaining holidays; I kept putting it off until the fat just became a part or the new me so welcome to the club. Lol.
3 years
quiverdream:
Lol I literally just started a topic on this same idea a couple hours ago. I don’t own a scale and i’m nervous to check, but I know I’ve put on a number of pounds related to quarantine. I’ve been holding on to wanting to work it off or at least maintain it, but my efforts don’t seem to be doing anything. And quarantine hasn’t ended yet, so there’s no reason to believe it’s gonna just level off magically.
That just means that the gaining bug has gotten you....Welcome to the club...future chub. Lol.
then yesterday when I was on a tight little airplane seat, I realized my shirt was riding up and my belly had made its way out. My man started giving it discreet little rubs and suddenly I had a moment of “oh, I REALLY like a little extra chub on myself” 😉 it makes me want to say “screw it” to the attempts to tightly control my meal portions, etc.
That just means that the gaining bug has gotten you. Welcome to the chub club my dear. Lol
3 years
Bicepsual:
It takes some time for you to accept that you're the "fattie" of the group - that you're always the biggest in group photos. It can be startling at first.
But once that is normalized, the feedee will have no problem piling it on. Being "bigger" will eventually become part of their self-identity. Their openness about their gluttony will also change as there's no way or use in attempting to hide it any more.
It took my awhile to get used to it because I always saw myself through my two hundred pound self but when other people pointed my weight gain out was when I actually came to reality and finally see myself for what I was then. After that, then acceptance is the next step and once you waddle to that point then slowness will be your new way of movement. Lol.
3 years
Enessel85:
I really was starting to think I was the only one inhad a feeder that would play with my udders while I ate and it finally trained my body to get wet when I would eat now it's everytime I eat wish I could find that again
quiverdream:
Whoa jfc 😍🤤 I know how I’m spending my weekend now!! Thanks for the inspo
This post is very inspirational
3 years
Enessel85:
I really was starting to think I was the only one inhad a feeder that would play with my udders while I ate and it finally trained my body to get wet when I would eat now it's everytime I eat wish I could find that again
You aren't the only one. It is like that experience rewired our brains to the point that food becomes its own drug and we get the same dopamine hit as getting high. Finding folks who get that is refreshing
3 years
GingerGiant:
Count me in this club!
Let's call it "Weight Gainification"...
Just eat a little more tomorrow than you did today!
That's like what I call Fat Kaizen. Just eat a little more than you did the day before and watch your waistline expand 😂😂😂
3 years
My why has germinated over time from liking fat women to eventually liking fat on me more than anything else and I actually like some of the trade offs that comes with my weight gain.
3 years
Expatbhm:
I’ve got a hefty amount of experience in this area. It gets to the point where I sometimes just get aroused from eating. The pleasure of both are entwined.
quiverdream:
I adore the thought of conditioning someone into experiencing this regularly, or experiencing it yourself. It sure must make going to restaurants an interesting time! 😜
I had a relationship one time in which my ex actively asked me could we include this to our sex life to the point where over time my mind began to rewire itself to get aroused while I was eating even by myself and how I experienced food completely changed. Going to restaurants for me became almost like a psychedelic experience but only I was in on how I was experiencing my food
3 years
Come out of what closet ? Fat is something that I got into over a period of time and I personally don't need to parade it around like a sexual orientation; it is something that I am personally into and nothing more. People that know me personally know that fat is my thing and they appreciate my honesty about it so there is no need for me to come out of any closet.
3 years
