You are so welcome I hope you find some great items

Torrid is pretty cost effective.
I shop Goodwill a lot just because its a great bargain. I hate paying full price for clothes.
Penny's Catherine's,Woman Within or Lane Bryant are good choices.

Muscular with a little extra chub

Congrats.
I always loved finally fitting in the next size up.

OMgosh I would have felt the same way.
I always notice the big guys and I make sure they see me checking them out.
I am so shameful LOL

Yes you are over thinking things.
Put yourself out there and just be yourself.
Don't try to be everything to everybody.
Don't worry about fat or thin judge people by their character and personality.
Years ago I fell into a relationship with the perfect man purely by accident.
I wasn't looking and it just happened.

If actively gaining I would check at the end of the month. So once a month.

I would like to know as well

I am curious why is he afraid of his room mates?
Does he tell them what they can eat everyday?

I totally understand.