Well, parents always have a vision for their children whether it is right or wrong and communicate in wrong ways at times.

Controlling your meals seems a bit extreme especially since you are not really even big....right? Has your mother always tried to control your eating or is it something new and maybe she has noticed the recent gain of yours along with the increased appetite?

Are you interested it gaining a lot or just having fun with it as a new experience and you are enjoying it? I would say take it slow and have fun and try and talk to your mother in a constructive way with regard to your body and how a little weight gain doesn't bother you the way it might her....because everyone is different! Maybe even have her try and think about something she may have done in the past that her mother didn't approve of but she did because it was her own decision and wasn't hurting anyone else.

Interesting reaction! Obviously very sexy from a weight gain perspective!

Thanks!

Thanks for your quality input! I agree that this above is most likely the reason, coupled with she doesn't want to be told what to do. Not to mention once you gain a lot of weight and get used to eating so much more, it isn't really fun to make a change and not eat the same and try and get the weight off.

All very valid points, Thanks for the input>

Thanks for your input! agreed with the point of someone telling you what to do would actually change things to spite them if you will.

Valid points and I think most who desire their significant others to gain and or share their gaining fantasies with their significant others definitely leave themselves open to being a bit strange and not close to the norm.

Thanks again for your personal take on this.

I agree with this and have seen this happen a lot.

As far as discussing another's situation I felt as though the anonymity was there....and I was only wondering what others may think of the situation possibly relating it to their own. I don't plan on being involved in this question any further but merely thought it would be interesting.

Once again I remain with my original thought's as the comment's seemed rather aggressive....and it is clearly not the first time I thought this about other post's i have read.

I also agree that I come here for like minded talk and thought's and don't really try and approach thing's in an derogatory or aggressive manner......with that said this kind of banter isn't what I come here for. Everyone is different OBVIOUSLY and if they want to have a Bitch session, a condescending scolding or a reprimand/lecture so be it......I don't have the time for it.

Interesting post ....I had to respond!

For me ....I have always been attracted to chunkier girls when I was younger and years later my desire for more weight on women has increased.

I have always been into weight gain on women and watching the changes as they became bigger. I appreciate weight gain on all women but am most interested in the one I am with to gain weight. I really like everything about my wife as she gains weight....first and foremost her care free and more sexual attitude, definitely her bigger appetite......her bigger belly, fatter sexy thighs, her softer and wider love handles, her big wide bubble butt, her breasts that seem to get enormous, her fat pillowy upper arms with just a hint of cellulite on them and even her heart shaped face as it softens and looks puffier with an ever so slight double chin.

With all this said everyone has a preference and I think there are a lot of guy's that like heavier women other than the ones who actually admit it. I myself as previously mentioned used to like girls on the shorter side and who were chunkier than normal, then I began to like women who were clearly overweight by most peoples standards, as time went on I liked women 200 Lbs., then 250 Lbs. and now I find myself loving the look of a shorter woman that is 350+ Lbs. My wife is 5' 3" and around 175 Lbs. with a fairly small frame/bone structure.....she was at 200 Lbs. after several kids and she looked amazing....I can't help but wonder how she would look at say 250 Lbs. and I even wish I had a crystal ball to see her at 300 Lbs......oh heck I would think she was mouth watering babealicious at that weight....I already know......I guess it is the saying you can never have to much of a good thing.

So, I am very much into weight gain, on my wife, on other women and even on me at times.

I have a friend that keep's complaining to me about his wife and how much weight she has gained. Probably 60-70 Lbs. since they have been married for 8 years. He say's that no matter what he tell's her in a constructive manner not only about her weight but about their marriage she doesn't show any effort on any level. He has kind of given her an ultimatum and she still doesn't show much effort.

I was wondering if possibly she likes her weight gain and maybe is trying to keep gaining? I know being on this board and knowing my own kinks and fetishes with my wife and even myself I can't wonder if she maybe is a feedee and she has an online feedee relationship going. She works from home on her computer all day and a few other signs that got me thinking. My friend said she doesn't even seem like she wants to lose weight. My friend probably not even knowing about this community probably would not even think of this as something.

Question to all is, am I way off on this one?

Have any of you ladies been in a similar situation and still not opened up to your significant other or spouse, possibly because they seemed so against weight gain or them being into fitness, etc.?

I even thought maybe she might have found another guy that somehow appreciated her for her weight gain and has kind of built up a wall with my friend her husband, anyone think this might be it?

Craziest thing her weight gain is not his only issue with her but certainly is the major one that he talks about. I can't help but think every time he complains about her Fat belly bouncing and her shirt riding up when she reaches up for something how I wish my wife gained 60-70 Lbs.!!!

So over the last several months my wife has been gaining weight and I have noticed all the Beautiful changes to her figure......which I love.

But there was one unexpected change that I didn't realize until yesterday after she got out of the shower. She was blow drying her hair only wearing a pair of panties. Now I happen to be a panty guy and really like the tiny string sides and small in the front/low and either a g string in the back or brazilian bootie coverage. My wife said those just are not comfortable for every day use.....which I get. So over the last several years she wears a type called Hanky Panky for every day use.....which have wider almost 2+" bands on the sides with lace with a wide Brazilian back and the front has plenty of coverage and goes pretty high up towards her navel leaving maybe a 1" belly exposed. Now I have never really been overly excited about these panties but I am all for her comfort in clothes. So as I saw her very sexily blow drying her hair and smelling the intoxicating aroma of bath soap and shampoo blowing through the air from her skin and hair I was in awe as I always am........as I came in and sat down by her watching her with slight arousal at this point I noticed her once loose fitting Hanky Panky Panties now looked like a tiny G string on her. The side bands 2" plus fabric and lace now rolled over making them a 1/2" or less tiny band.....and them wrapping around her lower waist because they were now very tight. Instead of the front fabric covering up a good portion and extended up just an inch below her navel they were now a very low triangle that was being swallowed up allowing a good 6-7 inches of her tan belly protruding out with a slight belly hang and of course big jiggle with every movement of her blow drying. In the back her Butt dwarfed the fabric once again mostly looking like they were being eaten up in her soft pillowy butt crack. So long story short I really like how the Panties look know. I believe if I am not wrong that these panties says one size fit all......although these happen to be a bit older ones and have probably shrunk slightly I am still excited to think that one size that fits all now look's like a tiny g string panty on my wife which barely fits and almost look's uncomfortable....which I really like. I look forward to her not wearing these "one size fits all Hanky Panky's" anymore with her gaining more weight because that will mean she can't wear them anymore because she is to big and that she goes back to L tiny g string I mean XXL panties....and maybe then XXXL!!!