So....you like mutual gaining....but would you say that yourself being fatter or thinking of your self getting fatter gets you more aroused than your girlfriend getting fatter or her actually being a lot fatter?
10 years
Yep....It's always pretty damn sexy seeing and ex or for that matter any woman I know show a little gain or even better a considerable gain.
As far as getting with them.....I am married and that doesn't work like that for me. But for you I would say get with her......it may work out perfectly for you both.
10 years
In my experience......once that ball belly has developed like mine was and is when I gain it has never gone in the direction of a double belly.
Mine belly more or less as I keep gaining starts to grow outward underneath my chest and down producing a huge muscle gut sticking further and further out. Sorry if that's what you are trying for but I have never seen with my belly which your's is similar go that way.
I do know that as I lose my bigger gut it tends to develop a little softer fat then when it is thinner but the minute I start putting on the Lbs. it starts taking that exact same shape. But yes I know what you mean more Fat does accumulate under your belly in the pubic region with weight gain although I have never developed that much of it.
I agree this site is a good release for discussing things related to this fetish.
10 years
Yes....very excited for her to gain.
She has gained and slowly lost many times (10+ Lbs. over the years) and a couple of times she got much heavier and it lasted much longer and each time several of the Lbs. stayed even though she eventually reduced back down to a more typical weight she used to be at.
I am just looking to have her gain to a much heavier weight than the typical 10+ Lbs. but was interested what may go through her mind as she starts to gain or continue to gain......or what was the reasons she gained so much the other times.
I do know, which makes sense that when she gains a lot more weight she can't really lose it for a long while .....probably because of eating habits and so much extra weight to try and get off becomes a bit more psychologically frustrating and harder to achieve, and ultimately resort to just eating and keeping the weight. .......which I would love if she never lost it.
Have you been there or experienced that because I am kind of just guesstimating.
10 years
Not a great Title...but I couldn't figure one out right away and wanted to get into it.
So my wife is gaining ....at least I think so...actually I am sure of it, but don't know how much. Me being the FA/ weight gain guy that watches and notices even the little things that develop with her figure.
First question for the ladies, would my wife notice a 5 Lb. gain on herself?
(She is 5' 3" +....and very curvy....probably 150-160 Lbs.)
At what weight do most women notice their gaining and try to start to lose? I know there are many variables but if you could expand a bit on your past or other friend's.
Do any of you look much heavier at the end of the day than the morning?
Reason I ask is because she tends to look much bigger ...especially in her belly in the evening almost as if she is full and very stuffed and gained a good amount of weight.....but in the morning she is softer and more jiggly in the belly and ultimately look's thinner then!
She has certainly been eating and snacking way more so I have anticipated that she would gain.
Thank's in advance for any input because I would like to know first hand answers to some of these questions and any more related.....to women's stages of eating and gaining.
10 years
Yep......when I was young I remember stuffing pillows in my shirt with a few friends and bumping into each other like bumper cars....only it was belly bumping (or Pillow bumping/with simulated bellies).
Kind of a kid thing I guess but I really liked the feeling, not in a sexual way, but I remember feeling how great it felt and the struggle having the huge mound of a belly out in front of me.
Many years later I happened to grow a pretty big Fat gut several times. The feeling of it getting in the way and clumsily bumping and then squish into my wife as I went in for a kiss.....or the struggle to get in the right position so it didn't push me away when trying to make love sent me through the roof with arousal.
10 years
I think it is more the initial gain. Stuffing or eating a lot stretches the belly at first and tends to give it a big beer belly look and become more distended and wide the more stretching and eating that goes on.
10 years
Looking back I can certainly remember several hot girls in Middle school who went away on summer break to come back with an extra 20+ Lbs.
Most of these cases were due to first several years of puberty I imagine.
I really knew I was an FA when I would see these girls with their fat belly rolls, huge butts and Massive new breasts not being able to be contained by any of their clothing.
10 years
acritarch26 wrote:
From what I witnessed, I know some women like men with a small beer belly.
This makes sense. Everyone is different but I am sure your right that percentages not on this site like a little bit of chub or a beer belly the same as men not on this site comment they like women a little curvy not stick thin.
I guess we on this site take it to the extreme and like that more.
10 years
darrin wrote:
Just back from a month long visit to the Jersey shore, spent most of the time down in Cape May. CM is know as the best food place of any of the Jersey shore towns and I sure indulged, I had lost 15 lbs over the 3 months prior, well I gained it all back plus 4 lbs, now I am 249 lbs only 1 more to break the 250 mark,LOL. My wife has known me since I was 165 lbs and teases me about making a 100 lb gain, what a turn on. She also loves to remind me that when we met 30 years ago I teased her about being slightly chubby, maybe 145 lbs on a 5'4" very curvy frame, now its me who get teased, and I love it! the Problem is I don't really think I look that fat, while my middle(gut & Love handles)have grown so has the rest of me as I try to stay if not in shape at least strong with decent muscle tone, and I have grown and grown. At almost 72" tall with a weight of 249 I am definitely in the obese range, but I have a very big chest and pectoral area 51" with a 40" waist(below my love handles 44" at them) although I still wear 36" genes (but they are worn low so as to fit my but and legs) and my hips are now 44" with 26-27" thighs. My wife teases me and says I have grown from a thin weak guy to big strong guy with many rolls of fat; and when she grabs these rolls it is quite the turn on!!!! I only wish I could talk her into gaining, she has the perfect figure for a curvaceous outrageous plump goddess, even so she has a perfect figure, but how the excess would accentuate that perfection.
Even with this extra weight 19 recent pounds in the last month I can't say I feel fat as much as I just feel bigger. Maybe I am just kidding myself. Anybody else has these same kinds of feeling with recent weight gains?
Trust me.....I am similar size to you just a couple inches taller and you may not feel big all the time but if someone not of this site would honestly describe you as big to be nice, but also overweight and Fat! I know this because I have been through this first hand.....people view us as Big and fat. My wife doesn't really say anything but she is similar curvy size as your wife just around 15-20 lbs. heavier and I can tell that I am quite heavy on top of her. Or trying but bumping your wife when you are walking side by side....she will literally get knocked several feet away from you and off balance simply because your girth, weight and sheer size. I have been through the exact same thing until I realized how others look at your size. 250 Lbs. Is a big guy......look at a big guy on the football field and you will think that guy is huge and fat....and he is probably only 50 lbs. More and is usually several inches taller. We perceive ourselves to be much bigger feeling with the weight gain then we actually feel! There is another post somewhere about gaining past your original limit and choosing to go on because you don't feel that big etc.
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