So, I am very much into weight gain, on my wife, on other women and even on me at times.

I have a friend that keep's complaining to me about his wife and how much weight she has gained. Probably 60-70 Lbs. since they have been married for 8 years. He say's that no matter what he tell's her in a constructive manner not only about her weight but about their marriage she doesn't show any effort on any level. He has kind of given her an ultimatum and she still doesn't show much effort.

I was wondering if possibly she likes her weight gain and maybe is trying to keep gaining? I know being on this board and knowing my own kinks and fetishes with my wife and even myself I can't wonder if she maybe is a feedee and she has an online feedee relationship going. She works from home on her computer all day and a few other signs that got me thinking. My friend said she doesn't even seem like she wants to lose weight. My friend probably not even knowing about this community probably would not even think of this as something.

Question to all is, am I way off on this one?

Have any of you ladies been in a similar situation and still not opened up to your significant other or spouse, possibly because they seemed so against weight gain or them being into fitness, etc.?

I even thought maybe she might have found another guy that somehow appreciated her for her weight gain and has kind of built up a wall with my friend her husband, anyone think this might be it?

Craziest thing her weight gain is not his only issue with her but certainly is the major one that he talks about. I can't help but think every time he complains about her Fat belly bouncing and her shirt riding up when she reaches up for something how I wish my wife gained 60-70 Lbs.!!!

So over the last several months my wife has been gaining weight and I have noticed all the Beautiful changes to her figure......which I love.

But there was one unexpected change that I didn't realize until yesterday after she got out of the shower. She was blow drying her hair only wearing a pair of panties. Now I happen to be a panty guy and really like the tiny string sides and small in the front/low and either a g string in the back or brazilian bootie coverage. My wife said those just are not comfortable for every day use.....which I get. So over the last several years she wears a type called Hanky Panky for every day use.....which have wider almost 2+" bands on the sides with lace with a wide Brazilian back and the front has plenty of coverage and goes pretty high up towards her navel leaving maybe a 1" belly exposed. Now I have never really been overly excited about these panties but I am all for her comfort in clothes. So as I saw her very sexily blow drying her hair and smelling the intoxicating aroma of bath soap and shampoo blowing through the air from her skin and hair I was in awe as I always am........as I came in and sat down by her watching her with slight arousal at this point I noticed her once loose fitting Hanky Panky Panties now looked like a tiny G string on her. The side bands 2" plus fabric and lace now rolled over making them a 1/2" or less tiny band.....and them wrapping around her lower waist because they were now very tight. Instead of the front fabric covering up a good portion and extended up just an inch below her navel they were now a very low triangle that was being swallowed up allowing a good 6-7 inches of her tan belly protruding out with a slight belly hang and of course big jiggle with every movement of her blow drying. In the back her Butt dwarfed the fabric once again mostly looking like they were being eaten up in her soft pillowy butt crack. So long story short I really like how the Panties look know. I believe if I am not wrong that these panties says one size fit all......although these happen to be a bit older ones and have probably shrunk slightly I am still excited to think that one size that fits all now look's like a tiny g string panty on my wife which barely fits and almost look's uncomfortable....which I really like. I look forward to her not wearing these "one size fits all Hanky Panky's" anymore with her gaining more weight because that will mean she can't wear them anymore because she is to big and that she goes back to L tiny g string I mean XXL panties....and maybe then XXXL!!!

Yep....I can relate to this with the anonymity! Although as I have gotten older and have had several times where I had gained many Lbs. and grown a big gut I found myself stuffing myself to the maximum and the urge to show my gain off in front of people who know me but are not extremely close.

For example a waitress that I know from a restaurant my wife and I frequent.....I went for lunch by myself already going through a drive thru and stuffing myself and then going in for a second lunch with my dress shirt buttons ready to burst and my gut hanging a good 6-8 inches out in front of me over my belt. I had easily gained 30+ Lbs. since she had seen me last. It was so exciting and erotic.....when she greeted me when I walked in she said "wow, I haven't seen you in a while" and I know what was going through her mind even though she said nothing about my huge gut and how I had gained.
Another instance was when I saw some friends of my ours who we hadn't seen for a couple of months and I definitely had on a shirt that now was quite form fitting especially in my big old belly and as I greeted the other woman I reached in for a hug and my big belly pushed into her rather aggressively .......she herself had recently gained a good amount of weight. Although she never said anything she couldn't take her eyes off of me all night especially when I stood up I saw her staring at my new big Fat Gut.

I have to say in both instances the women never looked disgusted by any means....they were actually very intrigued in there stares. I think that a lot of people really like seeing the difference weight gain has on someones figure and a lot more people definitely like it ......more than we would think......or at least are very intrigued by it.

Even my wife who never really likes weight gain on herself ....can't stop talking about someone else who has gained a noticeable amount of weight. Not in a derogatory way.....but here are a few things she has said to me about a few of her friends over the years ...."She has gotten really big, she has always had a tendency to get heavy" or "Her eating has finally caught up to her....her metabolism finally changed I guess, she will have a tough time not getting bigger now".
Another time she had a friend for a long time who we would see maybe 3 times a year who had always been much thinner than my wife and several inches taller. This friend would always comment to my wife how beautiful she thought she was....and in a slightly condescending way I assume or either just a standard opening statement she has.... just after my wife would have put on a good 10-15 Lbs. from the last time she saw her....this other woman would say "you look great have you lost some weight". It never failed...early on I overheard the conversation and my wife would usually say "No, I don't think so.....clearly knowing she had gained a good amount of weight". One time after not seeing her for a long time and my wife actually was much heavier probably an extra 20+ Lbs more than even the last time she saw her. This woman said Hi and then said you look beautiful, what is different about you? My wife said "well, I have gained 35 Lbs. and got Fat"!
I was in full erotic shock but at the same time felt kind of sad for my wife because this woman was a really good friend and I could always tell it was a slightly condescending way which she would talk to her knowing damn well my wife was Beautiful, sexy and even more sexy when she gained weight but this skinny woman would kind of always make my Beautiful wife feel fat and not as worthy even though my wife wouldn't tell me this I could kind of tell.

sorry for the long story.......years later after not seeing them for what seemed like forever we met up with this couple and to my surprise this woman always taller than my wife by 4 inches or so was now making my wife look thinner. She must have put on 80+ Lbs. in the past 2 years. I was in shock....I obviously thought the woman looked much better. On the car ride home my wife couldn't top talking about what we had just witnessed. Now as mentioned before my wife never talk's bad about other's gaining weight but this time she was slightly intentional in her delivery. She started by saying, "Wow, I can't believe how big Kim got.....I mean she is huge.....I felt skinny standing next to her, where as I always used to feel so Fat next to her." "It was kind of clear how she got so big.....I never saw her stop snacking from the time we got there....and when the cookies and desert tray came out she just sat down next to it at the table and kept grabbing more....I was scared to grab an extra one or she might slap my hand or get mad at me for taking her supply" . She then told me "she is way past the uncomfortable stage", I said what do you mean? She said "well I always hovered right around the uncomfortable stage and sometimes go slightly past.....ya know, when your clothes stop fitting comfortable and you then gain more weight and try to squeeze into the same clothes and they clearly don't fit, then you get bigger ones and eventually realize they are tight and don't fit anymore so your start wearing stretchy pants and bigger looser fitting shirts that go over your big butt and then all of a sudden you don't realize your starting to bulge out of your stretch pants and your looser top are very snug around the middle, upper arms and breasts but your kind of used to this band aid fix and say what the hell....You are know starting and going past the uncomfortable stage....knowing you don't want to get the next size up in stretchy pants or tops and search for a different brand that is clearly bigger but the same size.....so now you feel thinner all of a sudden.....and at this stage you make yourself feel better and continue eating like a pig because now it is impossible to stop or even slow down."
"So ya, Kim is way past the uncomfortable stage.....I bet she wears the same 2 or 3 outfits now ....when she used to have a new outfit on every time I saw her and her closet was full to the max.....she is more interested in what her next meal or snack is going to be then actually caring about what she is going to wear.....It will be the Black extra stretch XXXL stretchy pants along with a huge loose fitting top that is now very tight and constraining."

The funniest thing is when she greeted my wife this particular time she didn't ask if my wife lost weight!

I was always the feeder or at least wanting my girlfriends or wife to gain weight.

I myself happened to gain weight along with my ex girlfriend many years ago when we moved in together and found that the mutual gaining was so erotic and something really special.

Currently with my wife we have both gained good amounts of weight several times and still find this to be the most intimate and sexy thing ever.

I guess everyone is different but weight gain is the stem of a lot of erotic things for me. Watching my wife gain weight is probably the sexiest thing in the world for me!

1/4 ton combined weight couples.....can even make the bed squeak and moan!

I imagine 1/2 ton of a couples weight will likely break a bed with aggressive activity.

It is pretty exciting to think about both people in the couple setting getting really Fat and heavy and bouncing bellies into each other.

Thank's for sharing that story....I always love these real life stories.

Have you thought maybe he is into feeding a bit with his reactions or do you think he is just being extra nice for the work?

Funny thing!

I never used to like any sweets, fast food, or anything to bad for you until I started to gain some weight.

After I started to gain weight and have a bigger appetite I started eating snacks, deserts and fast food. Then when I intentionally started to gain weight I found myself needing fattening deserts and craving fast food. My appetite grew out of control and I was able to consume so much fast food and fattening deserts without even feeling sick. I guess this is how people can become really Fat and keep gaining and gaining.

I can imagine but not fully understand being that I live in the U.S. Where size and more Fat people is much more common.

From a gaining weight perspective I can relate. There are times myself where I have gone through several months of intentionally gaining weight starting from trying to help my wife get fatter by sticking all the food in the house. Being very much into Fat and weight gain on my wife and other women all of a sudden I tried to really get a lot fatter because of the lack of weight gain I was having in my life with relation to my wife. I decided I liked getting bigger and I became very excited about stuffing myself constantly to see how much bigger my gut could get. It consumed me and was very exciting but I would have mixed feelings at times even though I was muscular and with 35 extra Lbs. Mostly on my big belly. There were times where I tried to show off how Fat I had become and liked the feeling but other times I would feel a little embarrassed by my changes....resulting in an insecure feeling. Also the things that made me aroused such as pigging out to see how big and bloated I could make my gut....not to mention excited about how much I could now eat was very arousing. Other times those exact things would make me feel a little out of control......belly was so big and full all the time it would get in the way of tying my shoes, sitting down, getting up almost everything was slightly more difficult and the fact that i couldn't eat less even when I tried was a bit scary and even embarrassing. So I guess the mixed emotions are always going to be there.

It helps to live in a place where so many people are big, iverweight and Fat......but I think these emotions that us FA/weight gain enthusiasts feel that get us so excited and aroused can also flip and make us feel out of control, insecure and possibly ashamed at times.

Hope this helps and makes some sense and you feel better.

I seem to see several people from Getmany that are into this fetish.....or for that matter are if Eiropean decent.....i am curious if there has ever been a pole figuring this out.

This is such a great post!

I think that there have always been a lot of Men out there that have always liked heavier women but more and more they are starting to show it. I think it has a lot to do with age and maturity.

Speaking for myself I have always dated and gone out with girls and then women who were heavier by societies standards. As I have become older I find myself being attracted to women who are much heavier even over 300 Lbs. Obviously it is more than just the shear weight. My wife is near her heaviest other than just after her pregnancies probably 40-50 Lbs. heavier then when I met her.....and when we first met she was curvy and a bit thick by societies standards. I currently view her as fairly skinny compared to some women I see that I find very attractive who probably weigh well over 100 Lbs. more. But when I compare her to some of her thinner friends she look's much Fatter to me......because she is fatter than them. I would actually love her being 50, 70 or even 100 Lbs. heavier.

So, if I was not married and on the open market, I would probably be attracted to and go for women much heavier than my wife currently. With that being said when I first started dating my wife I actually was wanting her to be around 170 Lbs on her 5' 3" frame which she is slightly over now.....which then I would have considered Fat (And liked very much). So....not only has the weight and size I desire in women gone up as I have become older.....but so has the way I would approach them and show them how I liked their more feminine larger figures. So I guess this is a good thing for all of you Beautiful heavier women.....as Men get older they will show you what they really like.....and I am thinking that there a are a lot more men that like heavier women as opposed to skinny women...... and the good thing is the will start to show it as they mature and get older.

From your post it was refreshing to hear that you can seriously tell that these men desire you for you and your beautiful body......and part of that because it is bigger and sexier. So to all you larger beautiful women show off all those luscious curves and even rolls.....because we love them and want to softly touch, caress and hold them.