I have to agree to some extent, that we are in someway, hard wired to like big bellies/heavy thighs etc.
I do want to point out one curious fact. You look at the American population, especially as the media and our government would have you believe, that the vast majority of us are overweight or obese. That being said, why are the majority of those obese/overweight people married? If you believe the media/fashion hype, the divorce rate should be through the roof! They would have you believe that your spouse/SA should be young and slim. If he or she gains weight (heaven forbid) then dump them for a slimmer new one. Obviously that is not happening.
I really think I lot more people/members of society, either appreciate thicker heavier spouse/SA or truely like and adore them.
Think about it! Ned Fox

Dr. Feeder: I know this is what would happen to me if I won the lottery. I would be huge in a year!

Great little slide show!

Ned Fox

I don't want to necessarily "tute" my own horn, however, my story, "The Best Summer Ever!" is one of my personal favorites and has been commented and appreciated on both this site and DA.

bobbybob, Your last gain was what is called visceral fat. The is fat cells that collect (for lack of a better term) around your abdominal organs. Thus even though you have a big belly, it is relativly firm. My belly/abdomen is the same way. I think to get a really soft belly, which I would love someday, I think it is a matter of gaining more weight in total, rather than different foods. Ned Fox

I am back to 42" standing.

Ned Fox

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My wife is catching up to her mom. I knew she was the one for me when I met her mom. She was well over two hundred on a five foot two frame. My wife was plump when we got married (still could where a bikini) she now is around one ninety on a five foot four frame. My mother in law is two thirty now and nearly imobile partly to her weight, partly do to a minor stroke and demenia. My wife's figure is all belly and bottom, which I adore!

I have padded just looking in the mirror, but a couple of month ago I actually went out and did some errands padded. It was a huge turn on! I padded my butt and added some padding in front just below the waist of my jeans, it felt great to feel the added girth. I went to a sub shop, on the way in I passed the window wall of a pizza place, there were to young women eating, one of them nodded to her friend pointing out how big my but was! It was a great day, I wished for more errands and bought the largest sub they had and got stuffed!

Getting stuffed by a significant other while wearing only tight briefs and t-shirt, so I can see my belly growing bigger and bigger. My "SA" would be a plumper too!

First thing, I envy you, you are so lucky, to have an SO want you to gain! Awesome.
Next, your worst enemy right now is your age! In your early twenties, your metabolism is naturally high. You will find it easier to gain as you get older, trust me. I currenty struggle to stay at or under 200 lbs. and I exercise regularly etc. I am still in the military reserves,so I have to stay in shape. Hang in there the pounds will come!