Yep...definitely something pretty erotic about hearing them out of shape because of the weight they gained.
After my wife gained a lot of weight some years ago nearly her heaviest ever. On several love making sessions she was so out of breath she had to ask me to stop for a breather mid way through. I found it so damn sexy and erotic!
It's not that I would like to see her out of shape like this in every part of her life.....but I do appreciate the sudden fact of becoming out of shape from a lot of weight gain and it is so sexy when they are vulnerable about it.
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This is a great real life weight gain story!
Love to hear real life weight gain stories.
I hope you go past 200 Lbs. Soon
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Razputin wrote:
I think a lot of you have hit the nail on the head. For me perception was the big key. When I was 200 lbs 300 lbs seemed massive, but now that i'm nearly 350 I don't feel nearly as big as I thought I would. In actuality, to your average person I am pretty big, but I don't feel it.
I think perception is very key. I to felt the same, I was right close to 250 Lbs. and years ago I could have never even imagined being that big or having a 48-50" belly.
But for some reason I didn't feel that big a lot of the time and had an urge to get bigger. The same thing goes for when I look at my wife, I want her much heavier maybe 30-50 Lbs. maybe much more and I think she would look beautiful with a 100 Lb gain but she thinks she is Fat currently and I tend to look at her as skinny. These boards have a way of shaping your levels of Fat up the scale quite a bit or changing your Perception of what is big or Fat compared to mainstream.
I will tell you that in the outside world or mainstream I am considered Fat and my wife is considered Fat but it is crazy that I don't even see it that way. If I were to tell any of my friends that I would love it if my wife gained 30-50 Lbs. they would think that I am crazy. In fact my wife look's exactly like my new pic to the left... body size shape, hair, face and everything maybe she a has just a slightly bigger and softer belly with a little hang to it..... just in a drawing. All I can think about is seeing her get fatter because this seems skinny to me. That's exactly why I come to this board for like minded people, talk and interest of this weight gain desire.
10 years
I am wondering how many women on a percentage basis not from this site actually think a man gaining weight and getting a big belly is sexy?
Also, what percentage of women from this site think the above mentioned is sexy.
The reason I ask is somehow always being on this site it seems as though it is actually common place and normal to think that a bigger belly is sexy and desired and I start thinking that there are other women out there who I come in contact with that are noticing and looking at my bigger belly and I start to wonder what they are thinking. To tell you the truth it is kind of fun showing off my new bigger gut and I almost have a security in thinking that these women somehow like it. But reading through stuff in mainstream leads me to believe that many women are not only turned off but pretty disgusted by a fattened up man.
Just curious, I know everyone is different so there are a lot of variables here but some percentages can be determined I imagine. Also it will be interesting to see if everyone is close to the same or a wide spectrum.
I feel that we are in a very niche fetish but there are still varying degrees of people who may still like there partner gaining some weight and showing a belly......just change is exciting for a lot of people......but the people who like bigger gains and a very noticeable change in weight and belly size are in the very small minority. Even smaller minority as one goes higher in weight and to the extreme of immobility I would imagine.
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SilverRider wrote:
doggy... my face... in pastries... ughhhhhhhh so hot
Wow....That is Hot!
10 years
crazyfnbill wrote:Well, at 375... being on top is always always out of the question. Unless I'm standing at the edge of the bed and her legs are on my shoulders.
However, being on bottom is still 100% doable (no pun intended) and I find that a girl who loves big guys, tends to love the 'cowgirl' position to better play with my belly and moobs.
So yes, missionary doesn't work well, but everything else is still just fine!
lol
Yep....I also like it on bottom with my wife riding me because I get to enjoy all her weight and belly jiggling.
Do you remember at what weight you realized missionary wasn't working as well? Also, what were the first indicators, your weight on her, your belly to big to get full penetration from many angles, did she mention anything, or could you tell that it wasn't as good for both of you in this position or your extra weight tired you out and were kind of lazy and just had her get on top.
The reason I ask for me it seems like several combination's. I think my wife know's I am heavier and my belly gets in the way a bit now so she tends to hop on cowgirl and to be honest I may be a bit lazier because it seems like at night which is our typical session time that I am always stuffed Fat and I am more submissive to her.
Interested to know!
10 years
Interesting question
10 years
Bejewler wrote:
When I'm talking to an FA yes, very. When I'm around friends and family, or out at clubs... Not usually.
Well you should always! Great new pic by the way.
10 years
voluptuouslover wrote:
I am not even that Big ....yet.... but I can already tell that several positions would be very difficult & challenging with a much bigger belly.
When my belly is stuffed it is 46"+ around and I am 244 Lbs. as of the other day. When I make love to my wife missionary my belly definitely gets in the way which actually makes it even more arousing to me and it sounds like to her as well. Although it is pretty exciting for us I can tell my weight and belly certainly feel heavy on top of her in this position. At certain angles for missionary even at my current size my belly stop's me from full penetration and I have to move slightly to the side to get full penetration. I know my weight on top of her at times is a little bit much because I have seen her facial expressions and hear her gasp a bit for breath after we are finished and more of my weight is resting on her.
This is entirely different from when my wife was heavier with a bigger belly and I had not developed my big old gut yet. Missionary was so much easier even though she was a lot fatter. It has only been since I grew a big belly that this position is harder.
I can only imagine if i weighed another 30-40 more Lbs. and my belly measured 55"+. It might be tough to make it work. Never in my wildest dreams could I have ever imagined this but now I kind of think about it....based on the little struggles we have had at my current size. I honestly believe another 20+ Lbs. and my wife will comment to me about my belly getting to big to make love missionary because it clearly gets in the way at my current weight. Not to mention she may think I might smother her being on top.
I am kind of curious about some of the other guy's on this site with much bigger bellies and how they fare missionary style or other tough positions that don't work anymore with their extra belly girth? Please give me some good examples and stories!
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