Fantasy Feeder

Feeder to feedee?

Yep this happened to me several times over the last few years.

Stocking a lot of food and sweets in the pantry in hopes that my wife would start gaining a lot of weight back again.....all of a sudden I noticed my pants not being able to fasten up with out a slight bulge hanging over the waist band.

After this I turned myself into the project and it became kind of addicting seeing how Fat I could get. My eating became out of control and I was inflating and gaining at a very fast rate. For a short while I was more turned on by my wife hopefully noticing how Fat I was getting rather than watching her gain weight. Mostly because she wasn't gaining nearly as much or as fast as I was.

So, I guess there have been short periods where this flipped but ultimately I enjoy my wife getting fatter and not myself the majority of the time. But I guess if there is a void with her getting Fat I my as well enjoy myself fattening up during those times.

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Husband wants me to gain

Nomoreskinnygirl wrote:
My husband used to tell me I was too skinny. Now he tells me I'm hot. If you want to do it, go for it. Guys know what they like.

This This This!!!

A long time ago I used to tell my girlfriend at the time....why do you need to go to the gym so much? You could stand to gain a few Lbs. not lose!

Then I told her to try and gain 10 lbs.....then 10 more

later when she was my wife and she gained a lot of weight with pregnancies and was around 200 Lbs. I told her and thought she looked more beautiful than ever.
After losing around 20 Lbs. of the baby weight she ended up gaining a lot more weight and was fatter than ever.....and she was more beautiful than ever to me.

At this time she probably didn't believe that I thought she was so beautiful even though I truthfully did and showed and told her all the time. I would have thought she was even more beautiful the heavier she got......so yes if your man hints around or even tells you to gain some weight....usually it is a heck of a lot more weight than you would even think!!!

11 years

Voluptuouslover

"i put you on a diet"

SilverRider wrote:

voluptuouslover wrote:

SilverRider wrote:
Firstly, this wouldn't happen because my boyfriend is an FA. But if it DID, I would totally just completely go against him and eat wayyy more than normal really obviously to do the exact opposite and show him he can't tell me what to do.

Interesting reaction! Obviously very sexy from a weight gain perspective!

Yeah... I kind of want him to tell me to go on a diet now....

Ok....I have to say that is sooooo Hot!

I wish my wife would have the same reaction if I told her that.....and she would make it her project to get as Fat as she could!

Hmmmm maybe reverse Psychology is the way?

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Help dealing with family! :(

Well, parents always have a vision for their children whether it is right or wrong and communicate in wrong ways at times.

Controlling your meals seems a bit extreme especially since you are not really even big....right? Has your mother always tried to control your eating or is it something new and maybe she has noticed the recent gain of yours along with the increased appetite?

Are you interested it gaining a lot or just having fun with it as a new experience and you are enjoying it? I would say take it slow and have fun and try and talk to your mother in a constructive way with regard to your body and how a little weight gain doesn't bother you the way it might her....because everyone is different! Maybe even have her try and think about something she may have done in the past that her mother didn't approve of but she did because it was her own decision and wasn't hurting anyone else.

11 years

Voluptuouslover

"i put you on a diet"

SilverRider wrote:
Firstly, this wouldn't happen because my boyfriend is an FA. But if it DID, I would totally just completely go against him and eat wayyy more than normal really obviously to do the exact opposite and show him he can't tell me what to do.

Interesting reaction! Obviously very sexy from a weight gain perspective!

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Secret gluttony?

billedmeup wrote:
Awesome story, voluptuouslover. You have some of the greatest posts. I love the detail.

Thanks!

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Question about gaining

metroidnerd wrote:
Thank you for being sane and getting the thread back on track.

I agree with you, and would only like to add one thing: Maybe she is just happy with herself and happy eating whatever the heck she wants, and does not wanna put up with the BS.

Thanks for your quality input! I agree that this above is most likely the reason, coupled with she doesn't want to be told what to do. Not to mention once you gain a lot of weight and get used to eating so much more, it isn't really fun to make a change and not eat the same and try and get the weight off.

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Question about gaining

sensualdistender wrote:

LilRascl wrote:
However, I struggle with wanting to tell any man I'm with, FA or not, and now more than ever since the 75 lbs I put on last year. The primary reason for my nerves? I just know how likely it is that they're not of the same mind, and don't think it's worth the risk of making things weird, or worse, bad.

It is a very difficult situation for men also. For myself anyway, I find it impossible to bring myself to ask a woman if she has a desire to grow fatter. As you say, there is a very good chance that she would be disgusted and repulsed. Unless of course we met on web site that celebrates fat.

All very valid points, Thanks for the input>

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Question about gaining

LilRascl wrote:
I'm going to try and get this thread back on track by responding to OP's questions and thoughts (I'll consider this my "be the solution" moment for the day

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As interesting and, dare I say, fun as this may be to consider, just the statistical odds that she's a closeted feedee are a lot smaller than any other possibility mentioned above. Personally, if I were her and my husband issued an ultimatum about my weight (or any similar characteristic), it would seriously affect my desire to please them. Kind of a jerk move if you ask me.

I've been lucky to never have a partner who expressed their desire for me to lose weight, whether I'd gained some or not (dating FA's almost exclusively saves a lot of hassle!). However, I struggle with wanting to tell any man I'm with, FA or not, and now more than ever since the 75 lbs I put on last year. The primary reason for my nerves? I just know how likely it is that they're not of the same mind, and don't think it's worth the risk of making things weird, or worse, bad.

I'm probably not the best person to reply since I'm not married or in a serious relationship. Perhaps someone else can give you a better answer, but I thought you deserved an answer after the angry nonsense some responded with before!

Thanks for your input! agreed with the point of someone telling you what to do would actually change things to spite them if you will.

Valid points and I think most who desire their significant others to gain and or share their gaining fantasies with their significant others definitely leave themselves open to being a bit strange and not close to the norm.

Thanks again for your personal take on this.

11 years

Voluptuouslover

Question about gaining

metroidnerd wrote:
Why do all the good threads degenerate into flame wars? I miss the days of constructive conversation, where people could say what they wanted nicely and not take offense at other people's statements. Makes me not want to post on the forums anymore ... and i am pretty active on here.

I agree with this and have seen this happen a lot.

As far as discussing another's situation I felt as though the anonymity was there....and I was only wondering what others may think of the situation possibly relating it to their own. I don't plan on being involved in this question any further but merely thought it would be interesting.

Once again I remain with my original thought's as the comment's seemed rather aggressive....and it is clearly not the first time I thought this about other post's i have read.

I also agree that I come here for like minded talk and thought's and don't really try and approach thing's in an derogatory or aggressive manner......with that said this kind of banter isn't what I come here for. Everyone is different OBVIOUSLY and if they want to have a Bitch session, a condescending scolding or a reprimand/lecture so be it......I don't have the time for it.

11 years

Voluptuouslover