I'm a fat man who would like a woman to prefer him.

There's a part of me that likes the negative attention. It's a very small part though, a much larger part becomes very angry over it very easily.

If it's playful teasing from a feeder, or fat admirer it's a different story. Comments like, "Holy crap, you've got a big fat-@$$...and look at that jiggling gut!" go from very offensive to fairly erotic. But I suppose that's beside the point.

Again I'd like to congratulate the OP on this great thread. It's very true that the gainer/feedee absorbs nearly all of the risk in the relationship. I think that fact alone could make it hard to trust in a relationship that revolves around feeding.

Yea, Happy Single's Awareness Day! (SAD)

I was a chubby kid. That weight was purely non-intentional. But I started gaining on purpose, at least partially anyway, before I really discovered that gaining was a thing.

I didn't really go for it until after I had discovered the wide world of feederism though.

To the OP, this is a thing of beauty. It sums up feederism very well, and very articulately. I'm glad that I clicked on this thread now!

As a pretty hard-core gainer I can safely tell you that eating when you start feeling that "Bleh...food" sensation actually helps. It also stops the "chocolate burps". I've had sugar-hangover a few times and sometimes eating savories when feeling that can lessen the discomfort some.

His posts amuse me

I'd have to cast my vote for Elvira too...I know she's much older than me but still >.>

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