Too fat to have sex

I am not even that Big ....yet.... but I can already tell that several positions would be very difficult & challenging with a much bigger belly.

When my belly is stuffed it is 46"+ around and I am 244 Lbs. as of the other day. When I make love to my wife missionary my belly definitely gets in the way which actually makes it even more arousing to me and it sounds like to her as well. Although it is pretty exciting for us I can tell my weight and belly certainly feel heavy on top of her in this position. At certain angles for missionary even at my current size my belly stop's me from full penetration and I have to move slightly to the side to get full penetration. I know my weight on top of her at times is a little bit much because I have seen her facial expressions and hear her gasp a bit for breath after we are finished and more of my weight is resting on her.

This is entirely different from when my wife was heavier with a bigger belly and I had not developed my big old gut yet. Missionary was so much easier even though she was a lot fatter. It has only been since I grew a big belly that this position is harder.

I can only imagine if i weighed another 30-40 more Lbs. and my belly measured 55"+. It might be tough to make it work. Never in my wildest dreams could I have ever imagined this but now I kind of think about it....based on the little struggles we have had at my current size. I honestly believe another 20+ Lbs. and my wife will comment to me about my belly getting to big to make love missionary because it clearly gets in the way at my current weight. Not to mention she may think I might smother her being on top.
10 years

Sex positions with a ssbhm

FemaleFatAdmirer wrote:
Some women like it very, very much.


Very very good to know....just in case I slip way past the 250 or even 300 Lb. mark in the future.

Quite the beautiful belly you have there by the way!
10 years

Male feeders for men?

Cant say that I can prove you wrong!

I myself for what it is worth drive sexual excitement from women gaining weight firstly and found it exciting in the last several years to gain myself..... being that it has been much easier the older I get. Also, this started because of the lack of weight gain on my wife and in general in my life at that particular moment.

Now thinking about it ....I think I would only let my wife feed and fatten me if she were willing, in fact I get pretty turned on thinking of her fattening me up and teasing me about how big she got me. This... or another women that drew excitement from feeding me and getting me bigger.

Just my bit of input to your post.....I find that the percentages you are looking for will probably be pretty small.
10 years

Weight gain & eating

browneyedfeedee wrote:
So many guys here seem to struggle with this very problem! Gaining weight may be fun for many of us here on FF, but to others it isn't. There is a loss of control aspect to this; your wife may want to stop gaining and even lose, but obviously is losing that battle. I know I have gone through this - I don't always want to gain and have at times been disgusted with myself for not having any control. My only advice is to continue to she her you love her, focusing on the things you love about her that have nothing to do with her weight and just be patient. There is nothing you can do to help her accept or even love her extra weight; only she can decide how she feels about it. Hope I've helped BBW_)


Gotcha

Yes....It sounds simple but I just wish she would be vulnerable and totally give in knowing that I love her gaining and getting bigger and she would feel great just getting to eat anything and everything she wants and knowing that I will love the effects it has on her figure.

There have been many women I have heard on this site and elsewhere that do that......I guess the percentages are low....and there are a lot of variables involved to those particular percentages
10 years

Weight gain & eating

The bad thing is while she is gaining weight even though I love watching her et and gain.....she is always in a bad mood.

I would love to tell her how sexy she is but she goes through a transition stage and acts disgusted by her weight gain.

In the past I have always just weathered the storm and kind of looked on from a slight distance not directing to much attention her way because she get's a little bugged out knowing I like her extra fattened up figure.....and it kind of magnifies that she is gaining and getting bigger.

Any suggestions from a woman's point of view how I should try and approach it this time?

I would love for her to at least accept and sort of like all the new weight she gains and hopefully continue on with much bigger gains.
10 years

Cholesterol and gaining

You may also look into cholesterol medication.. This may help lower it even while you are eating fattening carb loaded food and gaining a lot of weight.
10 years

Weight gain & eating

My wife has started to gain some weight recently. She has been eating good for around a month now .

I just love every nuance of watching her eat....whether it be meals, snacks, deserts or whatever.

During her meals at home I have been noticing she loads more on her plate. Going out to eat she rarely used to finish her entrees but now the plate look's licked clean.

I love to come home from work and catch her snacking on the couch with a bag of chips or a box of cookies. She always seems a bit shocked. As I go to change my clothes she usually heads into another room with an entirely different snack to start on......somewhat away from me.

Also, I really like seeing her head right for desert immediately following her big dinner. The desert whether it be ice cream or cookies generally are getting way more consumed during these times.

There is something so sexy about the way she eats her dinner so fast or the way she eats her ice cream so gently and seductively but clearly finishes it equally as fast but she almost look's like she is making love to her ice cream as she eats it.

I have noticed she tends to eat way more if it is not right in front of me. I give her plenty of space because ultimately I want her to eat as much as her heart desires to see where all the calories end up fattening her beautiful figure.

I do get sneaky looking at everything she consumes and how quick with the ice cream pints and cartons finished off from the freezer or the multiple cookie boxes blown through in just a couple days. During these times I find myself stocking up on Ice cream, extra cookies and chocolates. During these times she never mentions anything she just keeps eating and it feels like Heaven on Earth.

It's funny because I use to hear all the time from random people, "I can't understand why I am gaining all this weight" because I have not been eating any more and I don't really eat that much at all. All I can say is from my experience and my wife as well.......we get Fat because we start to eat a lot more than usual. During the times we are gaining I can say our meal consumption almost doubles if not more as well as the snacking and higher calorie food.

I love it when my wife is eating out of control and enjoying / relaxing and just eating more and more.

Does anybody else get almost as excited watching there Significant other eat......and for what reasons typically?

1. Because you cant wait to see where the Lbs. will go.

2. Because you know that eating = Lbs. and Fat

3. The overall seductive nature of watching

4. The out of control eating is the biggest turn on all by itself

5. Just the oral fixation of watching

6. the numbers game of watching them eat so much more than they use to.

7. You want to watch them keep eating more and more because you now they will gain but you want them to get unbelievable huge.
10 years

Sex positions with a ssbhm

Elanor wrote:
voluptuouslover wrote:
SomeFatGuy wrote:
I read somewhere that for every 30 pounds over weight a man becomes it takes a half inch off the length of his manhood. That fat pubic mound soon surrounds all of his man parts. And speaking from personal experience that statement is true. For me at my current size conventional sex is nearly impossible unless I'm with a very very thin women. If you want to know full detail about my sexual experiences before and after my weight gain, PM me. But for now my partner and I have turned to oral or the use of toys. Yes this does take away form the intimacy.






Are you sure it is not mostly size and relation difference from when you were thinner?

I mean when I was thinner it seemed like my penis was my third leg....but that was when I was 165 Lbs. Now that I never dip below 235 Lbs. ....same heght as before the relation is much different.

I believe there will be some shrinkage because of the lower abdomen fluffing out and taking away some distance for penetration.


It is actually the pubic mound getting fatter and "swallowing" the penis. Google it, you'll find some pics of the incredible penis disappearance act.


That is actually kind of scary.......that may stop me of ever crossing the 250 Lb. mark!

I don't much like the thought of that......I can't imagine a woman would like that very much either.....huh?
10 years

Bbw hairdresser

My hairdresser is a BBW as well......Big Pear with a cute face big breasts & the most breathtaking creamy white huge upper arms.....they almost look and feel like pillows. Yes and it is kind of wonderful when there bellies bump and squish into your arms as they are cutting your hair......I was the same at first.... feeling a bit awkward as her belly would squish into me and she would just leave it squishing into me for an extra long time.

Early on when I first started getting my haircut by her some three years ago she brought up a conversation with me that she has to watch what she eats because she has gotten to big and she needs to get healthier. I let it go and changed the conversation to food and how much I like to eat and she warmed up to the talk right away and looked and discussed all the food with a passion.

She has gained a bunch more weight over the last several years and has never brought up losing weight again.

For some reason women always want to tell me they need to lose weight....when all I can think about is them getting even heavier.

I would say my hairdresser is 5' 3" and probably around 230-250 Lbs. currently. She is a very Healthy one in my eyes!!!
10 years

Thin sister & ssbbw sister

whoop's....sorry for the triplicate....damn post wouldn't send...or at least I thought...kinda trigger happy I guess!
10 years