I can understand the distress in figuring out the right way to discuss.

It seem's like you are fairly new in this relationship....how long have you known here or been going out?

I have been married for many many years and dated my wife for several years before that. At the beginning I told my wife or girlfriend at that time fairly directly to lay off the gym and eat more. Then I asked her to try and gain some weight for me. Many years years have passed by and she gained and lost many times not necessarily for me but mainly because she likes to eat and really loves her sweats.

In the last several years I found myself gaining while stocking the house full of food and deserts and snacks in hopes she would eat herself out of many sizes of clothes. I happened to gain during this times and decided to intentionally gain myself along with her gaining 10-15 Lbs. I ended up gaining close to 40 Lbs. and she never mentioned anything other than a couple of times playfully when she was intoxicated.

Currently she is on a good gaining streak of her own and I don't mention anything for fear she may try and diet to lose all her new sexy Lbs. She is walking around the house with tight shorts and tiny tank tops that barely fit now due to her 25 or Lb. weight gain......it is so damn sexy but I don't say a thing. There are times where her belly is so big after dinner and multiple deserts that her tank top rides up exposing her now huge lower belly roll. don't say anything but sometimes I think she wants me to notice or say something.....even though in the past she would a lot of times be disgusted by her gaining.....but this time she seems like she wants me to notice and point out the obvious.

I slow down and take a deep breath and say nothing. I guess what I am saying is that maybe 25% of her might be intrigued by her fattened up figure and displays it openly in front of me ....possibly to watch my mouth water or my jaw drop open but ultimately I think if I discussed her weight gain she would get more and more turned off by it. Simply because most people are not like us and can talk and think about weight gain almost all the time.

Hopefully you are right and your girl is into gaining herself and you can have a mutual gaining relationship.
I would say hint around and see how she takes it.

Let us know how it goes.

I think it is common if you have this fetish to admire other bellies be it that it is another guy. Primarily for the purpose of envisioning what it would be like to have your own belly that big and Fat and how it would feel.

Likewise I admire women's figures and actually pick out bellies etc. on fatter bigger women who have similar figures to my wife and envision her at that bigger size or weight.

I am sure it has a lot to do with the overall change that excites us with regard to gaining in general. I do however appreciate many bellies but like I said with my wife as well as myself when looking at some guy's really big Fat bellies it is more finding one that look's similar to mine that I can dream of getting that big or huge.

So....you like mutual gaining....but would you say that yourself being fatter or thinking of your self getting fatter gets you more aroused than your girlfriend getting fatter or her actually being a lot fatter?

Yep....It's always pretty damn sexy seeing and ex or for that matter any woman I know show a little gain or even better a considerable gain.

As far as getting with them.....I am married and that doesn't work like that for me. But for you I would say get with her......it may work out perfectly for you both.

In my experience......once that ball belly has developed like mine was and is when I gain it has never gone in the direction of a double belly.

Mine belly more or less as I keep gaining starts to grow outward underneath my chest and down producing a huge muscle gut sticking further and further out. Sorry if that's what you are trying for but I have never seen with my belly which your's is similar go that way.

I do know that as I lose my bigger gut it tends to develop a little softer fat then when it is thinner but the minute I start putting on the Lbs. it starts taking that exact same shape. But yes I know what you mean more Fat does accumulate under your belly in the pubic region with weight gain although I have never developed that much of it.

I agree this site is a good release for discussing things related to this fetish.

Yes....very excited for her to gain.

She has gained and slowly lost many times (10+ Lbs. over the years) and a couple of times she got much heavier and it lasted much longer and each time several of the Lbs. stayed even though she eventually reduced back down to a more typical weight she used to be at.

I am just looking to have her gain to a much heavier weight than the typical 10+ Lbs. but was interested what may go through her mind as she starts to gain or continue to gain......or what was the reasons she gained so much the other times.

I do know, which makes sense that when she gains a lot more weight she can't really lose it for a long while .....probably because of eating habits and so much extra weight to try and get off becomes a bit more psychologically frustrating and harder to achieve, and ultimately resort to just eating and keeping the weight. .......which I would love if she never lost it.
Have you been there or experienced that because I am kind of just guesstimating.

Not a great Title...but I couldn't figure one out right away and wanted to get into it.

So my wife is gaining ....at least I think so...actually I am sure of it, but don't know how much. Me being the FA/ weight gain guy that watches and notices even the little things that develop with her figure.

First question for the ladies, would my wife notice a 5 Lb. gain on herself?
(She is 5' 3" +....and very curvy....probably 150-160 Lbs.)

At what weight do most women notice their gaining and try to start to lose? I know there are many variables but if you could expand a bit on your past or other friend's.

Do any of you look much heavier at the end of the day than the morning?

Reason I ask is because she tends to look much bigger ...especially in her belly in the evening almost as if she is full and very stuffed and gained a good amount of weight.....but in the morning she is softer and more jiggly in the belly and ultimately look's thinner then!
She has certainly been eating and snacking way more so I have anticipated that she would gain.

Thank's in advance for any input because I would like to know first hand answers to some of these questions and any more related.....to women's stages of eating and gaining.

Yep......when I was young I remember stuffing pillows in my shirt with a few friends and bumping into each other like bumper cars....only it was belly bumping (or Pillow bumping/with simulated bellies).

Kind of a kid thing I guess but I really liked the feeling, not in a sexual way, but I remember feeling how great it felt and the struggle having the huge mound of a belly out in front of me.

Many years later I happened to grow a pretty big Fat gut several times. The feeling of it getting in the way and clumsily bumping and then squish into my wife as I went in for a kiss.....or the struggle to get in the right position so it didn't push me away when trying to make love sent me through the roof with arousal.

I think it is more the initial gain. Stuffing or eating a lot stretches the belly at first and tends to give it a big beer belly look and become more distended and wide the more stretching and eating that goes on.