Dear feedee8604,

I'm with boony and butterfly. In *what* kind of relationship do you trick your partner/lover? How will she feel when she finds out? Would you drug her and tattoo her? How is this different?

Yuck.

J

Konstantin,

Can I suggest that you ask people who would like to receive updates to be put on your mailing list? Then you can post here perhaps twice a year or something to invite people to be added to the mailing list, rather than posting every update. That should serve both your needs and the concerns being expressed here.

Thanks,
J