Getting respect as a male fa!

You haven't described what it is you did to get this negative reaction nor provide a link to your blog, so it's difficult to comment on your actual circumstances.

However I do feel that guys can sometimes get a hard time just for liking what they like. The thing is that we DO sometimes like to objectify women and/or men or aspects of their bodies, because we find it hot and it turns us on. I just believe it's the way some of us are made.

The politically correct brigade might tell us that this is sexist, demeaning and morally wrong, however I personally don't agree. Just because I may objectify someone whilst fantasizing over pictures, videos or when reading erotic stories, this does not mean that I can't treat them with equality and the respect they may deserve in my everyday interactions.

I also get tired of being made to feel guilty about the way nature made us, or made to feel creepy, gross or weird about it (as you seem to be saying). I can't see that there's anything wrong with admiring pictures of beautiful large women, or of feeling horny or sexy in what ever way suits you so long as it harms no-one.

Continue to respect yourself for what you are and don't let people run you down just because they don't understand or don't get you smiley
12 years

Earn money from your stories

I have just over half a dozen stories now, but I'm hoping to get up to 10-15 in total.

If you think you have what it takes and would like to receive up to $80 for your story then please message me asap.

I'm still looking for authors smiley
12 years

Men and their pictures

The Only Weigh is Essex wrote:
That being said these statistics include all profiles (though deleted ones are excluded). Do remember though that some of these might not have been used for years (I wish we removed long dead profiles)!


All unused profiles are automatically deleted after two years of inactivity, so there shouldn't be any dead profiles older than this.
12 years

Earn money from your stories

Just sent out payments for some great stories that have been sent in. It's fantastic to see how much talent there is out there amongst amateur story writers.

However I still need more authors, particularly male authors. So far they've all been female, don't know why this is but it would be nice to balance it with some male authors since they tend to have a different writing style.

Anyway whether you're male or female, if you fancy earning some money and have an unpublished story or fancy writing one, please get in touch with me.
12 years

Earn money from your stories

Thanks for your offer, but as stated in my original post the stories need to be new material that have not been seen before. That means that it shouldn't have been posted anywhere on the web, especially on FF.

This is because I'm going to be selling the anthology online, so I can hardly expect people to pay for something they may have already read. Sorry about this, I appreciate your offer but it is important.

If you have anything that you haven't already published then please send it to me as soon as you can and especially before 21st February.
12 years

Earn money from your stories

Yes I am still accepting stories so please do send them to me.

Your Story should be 3-5,000 words long and based on the general themes of weight-gain, feederism and obesity, designed to appeal to the audience of fantasyfeeder.com. Whilst being erotic, it should not be overly pornographic, and should not contain graphic descriptions of sexual acts, sex with minors or animals, or excessively violent or abusive behaviour. The Story should be written in grammatically correct U.S. English, laid out in paragraphs, and be free from punctuation and spelling mistakes. You should submit the Story in Microsoft Word format.

Please also could you make sure it is a complete story, since although there may be more anthologies in the future, at this moment in time I'm only doing the one.
12 years

Changes to the forums section

Thanks for pointing this out. I've now updated the drop down menu.
12 years

Changes to the forums section

I've made some changes to the forums, getting rid of some of those which were underused and adding a new fat experiences forum.

This new forum is for you to share your true, humorous or interesting experiences as a large person or fat admirer living in the 'real' world.

The forums that have been removed are fat liberation and LGBT. These posts have all been merged into the general forum.
12 years

Please read about this forum

I'm sure many of you must have had funny or interesting experiences living life as a large person or fat admirer. Perhaps you've just been on your first date with a BBW, or maybe you overate in a restaurant and found it turned you on. If you have a story you'd like to share we'd love to hear about it, so please start a new thread in this forum giving us as much juicy detail as possible.

All experiences should be true and have actually happened to you, so don't post about things you've seen or heard happening to someone else unless you were directly involved. Also only start a new thread if you actually have an experience to share, so please don't start threads with questions like 'Have you ever had an experience when..?'

We'd like to encourage people to open up about their thoughts and feelings in their experiences, so if you're going to comment please don't be overly critical or politically correct even if you don't necessarily agree with them. An example might be a fat admirer who finds that he's turned on when he witnesses a BBW accidentally breaking a chair in a restaurant. You may think he should be more concerned about the BBW and the fact that it must have been quite a humiliating experience. Whilst he may well have been concerned, the point of his story is that it turned him on and that's the aspect of his experience that he wants to share.
12 years