Agree to disagree about gaining on your own sucking the life out of you.

I am an ex-gainer. I gained 50 lbs by myself. Went from 115 to 168 before stopping.

I am happy I did it alone. I never wanted someone's help because I didn't want to be under anyone else's authority. I was already underweight due to my mother insisting 115 was a good weight (and sometimes insisting I could stand to lose more.)

So while I understand that solo gaining isn't right for you, it can be the right choice for other people.

I'm glad you are no longer underweight.

I used to be super underweight. I put on about 50 lbs on purpose and noticed my health significantly improved. I went from getting sick at least 2 a year to very rarely.

I do see post from new gainers talking about how they gain from people who just moved out. However, I've noticed most of those people don't stick around for long.

Some of them come back for good. Most of them are serial deleters. Best I can tell, most of them feel overwhelmed about gaining and go back and forth about whether or not they want to commit it gaining.

I can imagine. Even though I am strictly an FA and feeder, I still get messages from male feeders and encouragers trying to convince me to eat for them.

Let's just say I have no idea how feedees and gainers haven't completely gone insane.

Hey, man. You gotta do what's best for you. If you think that taking a break from gaining is best for you, then you hardly need our blessing to do it.

And yeah. It's really hard to find decent feeders. A lot of them feel entitled to people's bodies.

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This is your friendly reminder that you can only asorb so much nutrition at once. You will poop out the rest.

The amount of calories you can consume at once varies, but 1K is the average amount. However, the more fat in your diet, the less you can absorb.

If you want to try drinking more, feel free. However, I highly recommend taking breaks. It's not healthy to have your blood trygliceride levels elevated for too long.

Also, consider cooking or baking with the cream instead of drinking it. It will add a nice calorie boost to your foods, make things taste richer, and you won't go through the cream as fast.

After all, if you use dairy products to gain weight, they work best in tangent with other foods.

Nah, this is something different.

Subs submit because it gives them pleasure. OP wants to be used because he feels like that's all he's worth. That's not a power dynamic kink. That's self-loathing.

I'm just saying.

I feel a little bad for people who need to have body contrast. Life is weird and full of surprises. I've seen feeders unravel because they start to get squishy or lose their minds when their squishy partners lose their squish.

I remember a while ago - possibly before your time - a user had a long-time feedee. I think they were married, too. One day, she expressed a desire to maintain before eventually deciding she wanted to lose weight.

This culminated in a very public, very severe emotional breakdown. Watching was extremely painful, and there was nothing anyone could do to help. He eventually left the site.

I've also run into many feeders that spiral down a whole body dismorphia slide of despair when they start to become chunky. I've seen budding eating disorders, pushing their partners to gain weight past said partner's comfort, general hostility and more.

All I'm saying is be careful.

What would you do if you got chunky too?

You're missing the point. Stores like the ones you are brought up are so fatphobic that they will label you as too fat for their clothes without you even being fat. So, they cannot be a reliable benchmark for anything.