I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I really love Pear shape....along with a big belly, Huge breasts and some pretty huge fluffy upper arms!

Pretty interesting......and inspirational!

I don't love handling fish either....could be a texture thing or just fish smell that gets to me.

I wish I had the time and interest to become a good chef....I could cook my wife so many amazing fattening dishes and watch her grow out of clothes week by week.

Best of luck if you move onto challenges with your cooking endeavors.

I definitely get more submissive when I get fatter.

I feel it is part a confidence thing with masculinity and also I cant move around as well.....usually because I am always stuffed to the max.

As I get fatter after stuffing for several months the loss of appetite control plays a roll on feeling a little insecure and out of control....which is fairly new to me and sort of feminizing.

Over eating is a complete turn on but after being so stuffed and lethargic it makes me feel very submissive and vulnerable.


What I see in my wife when she gains quite a bit is the same....she becomes more submissive and way more vulnerable. She generally is pretty strong willed....but after she gains a good amount of weight she is less motivated and she tends to relax more ....sit around and eat and snack when she would otherwise be constantly doing something.

She also becomes more affectionate when she is heavier which I really like.....and definitely less will power and wants to celebrate together over big dinners and deserts.

During the phases while I am gaining weight intentionally....thus stuffing quite a bit. I tend to stuff myself to the max every night before bed..... Actually my belly stays stuffed all the time.

But yes.....if I am not full before bed it starts feeling unusual.

Which almost brings me to another thought. During the times when I am not gaining intentionally if I go to bed stuffed I feel really uncomfortable and hate the feeling and feel like a Fat pig. But during the times when I am gaining and stuffing it feels so good being stuffed. It takes a bit of time to get used to always being so full and stuffed.

Is it really more buoyant?

I like this on a slightly different level!

When my wife started gaining and was at her heaviest.....she couldn't even do a sit up no matter how hard she tried. I thought it was incredibly sexy and I loved it.

She was only a bit over 200 Lbs. at 5' 3" but got really out of shape with her belly and her stomach muscles. Like I said it was so damn sexy I couldn't even believe it....she kind of joked around at first while laying down and then really gave huge effort and still couldnt do it. She was vulnerable for one of the few times in her life. After she was done struggling she struggled to hoist her new bigger figure off the ground and came in to hug me and in a soft pouty voice she said "I am a big Fatty now".....and it was so damn cute hearing that.

This is Very sexy.....and my kind of ideal with such vulnerability.