Looking back I can certainly remember several hot girls in Middle school who went away on summer break to come back with an extra 20+ Lbs.
Most of these cases were due to first several years of puberty I imagine.
I really knew I was an FA when I would see these girls with their fat belly rolls, huge butts and Massive new breasts not being able to be contained by any of their clothing.
11 years
acritarch26 wrote:
From what I witnessed, I know some women like men with a small beer belly.
This makes sense. Everyone is different but I am sure your right that percentages not on this site like a little bit of chub or a beer belly the same as men not on this site comment they like women a little curvy not stick thin.
I guess we on this site take it to the extreme and like that more.
11 years
darrin wrote:
Just back from a month long visit to the Jersey shore, spent most of the time down in Cape May. CM is know as the best food place of any of the Jersey shore towns and I sure indulged, I had lost 15 lbs over the 3 months prior, well I gained it all back plus 4 lbs, now I am 249 lbs only 1 more to break the 250 mark,LOL. My wife has known me since I was 165 lbs and teases me about making a 100 lb gain, what a turn on. She also loves to remind me that when we met 30 years ago I teased her about being slightly chubby, maybe 145 lbs on a 5'4" very curvy frame, now its me who get teased, and I love it! the Problem is I don't really think I look that fat, while my middle(gut & Love handles)have grown so has the rest of me as I try to stay if not in shape at least strong with decent muscle tone, and I have grown and grown. At almost 72" tall with a weight of 249 I am definitely in the obese range, but I have a very big chest and pectoral area 51" with a 40" waist(below my love handles 44" at them) although I still wear 36" genes (but they are worn low so as to fit my but and legs) and my hips are now 44" with 26-27" thighs. My wife teases me and says I have grown from a thin weak guy to big strong guy with many rolls of fat; and when she grabs these rolls it is quite the turn on!!!! I only wish I could talk her into gaining, she has the perfect figure for a curvaceous outrageous plump goddess, even so she has a perfect figure, but how the excess would accentuate that perfection.
Even with this extra weight 19 recent pounds in the last month I can't say I feel fat as much as I just feel bigger. Maybe I am just kidding myself. Anybody else has these same kinds of feeling with recent weight gains?
Trust me.....I am similar size to you just a couple inches taller and you may not feel big all the time but if someone not of this site would honestly describe you as big to be nice, but also overweight and Fat! I know this because I have been through this first hand.....people view us as Big and fat. My wife doesn't really say anything but she is similar curvy size as your wife just around 15-20 lbs. heavier and I can tell that I am quite heavy on top of her. Or trying but bumping your wife when you are walking side by side....she will literally get knocked several feet away from you and off balance simply because your girth, weight and sheer size. I have been through the exact same thing until I realized how others look at your size. 250 Lbs. Is a big guy......look at a big guy on the football field and you will think that guy is huge and fat....and he is probably only 50 lbs. More and is usually several inches taller. We perceive ourselves to be much bigger feeling with the weight gain then we actually feel! There is another post somewhere about gaining past your original limit and choosing to go on because you don't feel that big etc.
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Yep...definitely something pretty erotic about hearing them out of shape because of the weight they gained.
After my wife gained a lot of weight some years ago nearly her heaviest ever. On several love making sessions she was so out of breath she had to ask me to stop for a breather mid way through. I found it so damn sexy and erotic!
It's not that I would like to see her out of shape like this in every part of her life.....but I do appreciate the sudden fact of becoming out of shape from a lot of weight gain and it is so sexy when they are vulnerable about it.
11 years
This is a great real life weight gain story!
Love to hear real life weight gain stories.
I hope you go past 200 Lbs. Soon
11 years
Razputin wrote:
I think a lot of you have hit the nail on the head. For me perception was the big key. When I was 200 lbs 300 lbs seemed massive, but now that i'm nearly 350 I don't feel nearly as big as I thought I would. In actuality, to your average person I am pretty big, but I don't feel it.
I think perception is very key. I to felt the same, I was right close to 250 Lbs. and years ago I could have never even imagined being that big or having a 48-50" belly.
But for some reason I didn't feel that big a lot of the time and had an urge to get bigger. The same thing goes for when I look at my wife, I want her much heavier maybe 30-50 Lbs. maybe much more and I think she would look beautiful with a 100 Lb gain but she thinks she is Fat currently and I tend to look at her as skinny. These boards have a way of shaping your levels of Fat up the scale quite a bit or changing your Perception of what is big or Fat compared to mainstream.
I will tell you that in the outside world or mainstream I am considered Fat and my wife is considered Fat but it is crazy that I don't even see it that way. If I were to tell any of my friends that I would love it if my wife gained 30-50 Lbs. they would think that I am crazy. In fact my wife look's exactly like my new pic to the left... body size shape, hair, face and everything maybe she a has just a slightly bigger and softer belly with a little hang to it..... just in a drawing. All I can think about is seeing her get fatter because this seems skinny to me. That's exactly why I come to this board for like minded people, talk and interest of this weight gain desire.
11 years
I am wondering how many women on a percentage basis not from this site actually think a man gaining weight and getting a big belly is sexy?
Also, what percentage of women from this site think the above mentioned is sexy.
The reason I ask is somehow always being on this site it seems as though it is actually common place and normal to think that a bigger belly is sexy and desired and I start thinking that there are other women out there who I come in contact with that are noticing and looking at my bigger belly and I start to wonder what they are thinking. To tell you the truth it is kind of fun showing off my new bigger gut and I almost have a security in thinking that these women somehow like it. But reading through stuff in mainstream leads me to believe that many women are not only turned off but pretty disgusted by a fattened up man.
Just curious, I know everyone is different so there are a lot of variables here but some percentages can be determined I imagine. Also it will be interesting to see if everyone is close to the same or a wide spectrum.
I feel that we are in a very niche fetish but there are still varying degrees of people who may still like there partner gaining some weight and showing a belly......just change is exciting for a lot of people......but the people who like bigger gains and a very noticeable change in weight and belly size are in the very small minority. Even smaller minority as one goes higher in weight and to the extreme of immobility I would imagine.
11 years
SilverRider wrote:
doggy... my face... in pastries... ughhhhhhhh so hot
Wow....That is Hot!
11 years
crazyfnbill wrote:Well, at 375... being on top is always always out of the question. Unless I'm standing at the edge of the bed and her legs are on my shoulders.
However, being on bottom is still 100% doable (no pun intended) and I find that a girl who loves big guys, tends to love the 'cowgirl' position to better play with my belly and moobs.
So yes, missionary doesn't work well, but everything else is still just fine!

lol
Yep....I also like it on bottom with my wife riding me because I get to enjoy all her weight and belly jiggling.
Do you remember at what weight you realized missionary wasn't working as well? Also, what were the first indicators, your weight on her, your belly to big to get full penetration from many angles, did she mention anything, or could you tell that it wasn't as good for both of you in this position or your extra weight tired you out and were kind of lazy and just had her get on top.
The reason I ask for me it seems like several combination's. I think my wife know's I am heavier and my belly gets in the way a bit now so she tends to hop on cowgirl and to be honest I may be a bit lazier because it seems like at night which is our typical session time that I am always stuffed Fat and I am more submissive to her.
Interested to know!
11 years