SweetLittleTreat:
I've known my fair share of people who think fat girls or hot or at least are attracted to a girl who happens to be fat but were ashamed to be seen with them in public. I'm currently living where I was born and it's a very fat-negative culture, especially in school. It's absolutely sad, and it's even sadder to me that one could neglect their feelings for someone based on their appearance (too fat or too thin). I simply can't process that.
I guess I think it's really terrible that one would be ashamed of liking fatter people. I know society can train us to think that way sometimes, but the thought of someone being ready to pork a fat man or woman and tell them they love them but not ready to take them on dates and everything makes me ill. I've seen it happen too many times and it breaks my heart.
I'm really happy I'm with a man who not only loves me, but also embraces my body (both sexually and non sexually). He's always happy to kiss and hold my hand in public, and even get a bit flirtatious at times, even when I'm shy. It makes me feel very wanted and love, something everyone should have whether they're fat or thin. People seem surprised we're together sometimes, and may whisper, stare or laugh... But that's their problem, not ours. We're in love and no one can take that away, especially only based on what we look like.
It's a shame you live in such a non-supportive area. I'm i the South, a much better place for overweight people because there's so many of us

My current gf is about 270 or so, with a boob-and-belly profile not unlike your profile pic

I love her for how she makes me feel and her being big is just a bonus! Fat in all the right places turns me on, yes, but how we treat each other is the most important thing