Visual pheromones always kick in the bigger a lady's belly gets :-)

I always tell the story slightly different way each time I see these threads I was a skinny kid in high school and through my 20s and maybe half of my 30s...until I hit about 35. A mostly sit-down, sedentary job helped slow my metabolism and in the past eight years or so, I've packed on roughly 50 pounds. I flirt with 200, then it'll go down a bit, goes back a bit, rinse, repeat My fiance has been a heavy girl since puberty and is about 315, mostly in her belly and her soft 44DDDs. So, we're fat and happy these days

My fiance and I lovingly refer to each other's bellies and, in her case, breasts simply as "him" and "her". And other parts, too, if I may be slightly suggestive

How many bargain grocery stores are in your area? If there are any Dollar Trees, Dollar Generals, etc., then there's many a cheap way to stock up on pasta, potatoes, and filling side items (albeit canned) to keep your weight up. With higher-end stores, you have to catch a sale to keep from running out of money. I make more than minimum, but get paid only once a month....so the money can run out quickly if I don't "value-shop", so to speak.

Hi, all! Hope this is the right place for such a question. I'm getting married in May and my fiance is searching around online for a lacy, plus-size dress. (We're not following the tradition of secret this, secret that for our ceremony when it comes to this. We love each other and that's that!) Some sizes are numbered like dresses are usually numbered while others are sized simply "2x, 3x, 4x, etc.". Any advice for the best sites out there for BBW brides? She knows I'm reaching out. Her height/weight/cup size are 5-2, about 315 pounds and 44 DDD.

Don't let anyone tell you you're not beautiful -- because you are!

My mom noticed my growing belly yesterday during the tail end of my holiday visit. I had raised my shirt briefly to pull up my belt since I wear pants a bit large for comfort's sake. She said, "Yeah, I remember when you once said you'd never get a big belly. Well, you have one now!" Mind you, she's always been a health nut and even my bowling ball of a belly makes me fat in her eyes. She loves my 312-pound fiancé quite well, though, and seems to appreciate our love isn't based on conforming to some standard of physical beauty. It's based on love and cooperation :-)

My fiancé weighed in at 312 at the doctor's this past week Happy on many levels -- that she's still confident about her size but also that her actual waist actually shrunk to fit two pairs of 26-28 jeans she hadn't gotten into for a while. She wondered if she lost weight, but I think somehow her double belly stayed the same while her waist underneath shrunk. Either way, we're having a fat and happy holiday :-)