growingbellyboy wrote:For me, I never wanted to gain any weight until I started college. Then I started toying with the idea of gaining some weight, but never went through with it. I would stuff myself at the school's dining hall once in a while and think that it might be fun to fatten up, but never did. I probably would've gained if a S/O wanted me to, but I wouldn't have been crazy about it. Back then I'd say I was about 90/10% in favor of being the feeder.
Then over the next couple of years I completely changed. I started liking the idea of gaining weight more and more. Ideally I'd love a mutual gaining relationship, but if I couldn't have that and had to choose between being the feeder or feedee, I would definitely choose to be the feedee. A few years ago that wouldn't have been the case at all. So today, I'd say my desire is about 80% to see myself gain and 20% to see others gain. I still
love to see others gain, but gaining myself has been so enjoyable that I lean towards that now.
Not really sure what triggered this change in me. I think it might just be because I've never actually had a feederism-type relationship irl so the only gain I can see first hand is my own. I don't think I would ever go back either, gaining is too much fun.
Interesting stuff .....I can certainly relate. For me I think I found gaining weight on myself so satisfying was because there was a lack of gaining on my wives figure. Although I agree gaining weight myself there is always something there to view, feel and work at getting bigger and it is always right there.
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AskDrFeeder wrote:
In my childhood fantasies I was into gaining myself and into girls gaining.
At some point in adolescence I lost interest in gaining myself and was only interested in women gaining.
I've been that way ever since.
Interesting how everyone is slightly different and change there likes with weight gain.
One thing that seems common is that more people seem to get into other areas of weight gain and there liking.
Someone that starts out liking weight gain on women can easily transfer over to liking and wanting weight gain on themselves or even mutually.
I wonder if this has to do with the fact that they are not having weight gain with there significant other in there relationship and then they seek to have weight gain in there life and start fattening up themselves and really like it. I have thought that was the primary reason in my case. But then again the mutual fattening or gaining is definitely the most exciting to think about and actually do.
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For any of the women who are into gaining weight?
Was it always something that you loved?
Did a boyfriend get you started and you realized that you liked it?
Tell us your story of how it started and how it is going. Also, your overall level of excitement with regard to gaining....whether it is low-high!
10 years
I don't know if this has been discussed already?
It seems like there are more men into weight gain on themselves than women on this site?
I guess it is kind of tough because of so many variations because I myself was interested only in weight gain on females initially, then I got into feeder related weight gain with my girlfriends back when, and then I even got into weight gain on myself through Mutual gaining.....and currently I even go through several month periods where I stuff myself and try to gain as much weight as I can and love how Fat I get.
It would be interesting to listen to both the men and women on this site weigh in to weight gain, feeder and mutual feeding and the chronological order of how they developed in each persons situation. Also, if so, if one of the areas changed and overtook there desires to a greater percentage. For example: I was always into weight gain on women the most and still am but say I changed and like weight gain on myself way more now than on women.....you get the idea.
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1,2,3,4,5 6- When I have been stuffing for weeks ....I find when I am not even hungry for the next meal.... once I start eating I cant stop....I am like a bottomless pit.
10 years
bangs15 wrote:
I brought up my weight gain fetish with my girlfriend while I was giving her a foot massage during the post-sex cuddle. Her response was a genuine smile with a "Hmmm..," visibly entertaining the idea.
Since then, feeding is often just a casual part of cuddling and she loves it. She'll jiggle her belly, smile and kiss me every so often when we're just laying down watching a show and occasionally lovingly say things like, "I had to buy bigger pants today."
Since I came clean about a year ago, she's gone from 180 to 240 and she loves her new body. It turns her on a lot since she let me hypnotize her every night for a few weeks. She can't masturbate unless she's jiggling her belly now. It's amazing.
Hypnotise.....you are a visionary....did it work?
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Ni Ki wrote:
My take on this and experience goes towards generics. I've known females that gain slowly but have a huge belly, skinny arms and legs. Myself I have gained 35kgs over 4 months, which is quite fast. Most of my weight went to my tummy and boobs, then later to my bottom, legs and arms. I think it has mainly to do with generics and what you eat. One month I concentrated eating and drinking lots of milk, cream, ice cream, and oats. In that month my boobs ballooned and gained so much weight.
But who knows. I think it's different for everyone.
Note: to all the ladies out there.....Milk, ice cream & Oates consumed = HUGE BREASTS!
Interesting stuff!
10 years
bangs15 wrote:
I was curious about what you guys have noticed in how fast a girl gains and where the fat is distributed. There is some bro-science floating around that a slow gain seems to be more evenly distributed throughout the body while gaining weight fast causes a large belly but small arms/legs, as seen in quite a few stuffers. Does anyone have any other evidence of this? genetics probably plays a big role, but what do you think would happen if two, 120 lb twins gained 60 lbs, one over 3 months and one over a year? Would they look the same in the end?
Interesting! I think that also the amount of weight gained as well as how many times these Lbs. have been gained or lost has a lot to do with where the Lbs. develop.
For example the first 10-20 Lbs. on a new gain or first time at that weight will most certainly go to the belly, thighs and butt on a woman. Many Lbs. after.... say the 60 Lbs. you mentioned probably will go all over filling out many place albeit some more prominent.
Also, I have noticed when my wife first gained weight before she lost it her belly got really big at first making her look almost 9 months pregnant and as she has gained and lost the same Lbs. her belly and love handles have gotten wider and softer and she can kind of hide her fatter softer belly but it certainly has more Fat accumulated. She doesn't look like she is 9 months pregnant with the same weight gained.
10 years
This is good.....I would like to hear as well!
Here are a few on similar topic:
When my wife gains a pretty good amount of weight I love to hear the bed strains bit or wiggle with her weight as she turns and move from side to side....usually followed by some heavier breathing from the extra work.
My wife tends to be a quite walker but when she gains a good amount of weight I can clearly hear her foot steps from a room away as opposed to her 20 lbs. Lighter where I can barely hear her coming.
I also love it after she has gained so e weight listening to her lift herself out of a chair or off if the couch usually when she is full and her a slight groan as she gets up as opposed to pure silence before she was thinner.
10 years
I completely understand the way you feel with regard to not seeing yourself as being as big as others see you.
I was thin and muscular up until I was around 25/26 yrs of age.
That was when I first put on a lot of weight. At first everyone that knew me saw the transformation which was a shock. My metabolism changed along with taking a desk job and no longer playing ball in college or working out. I get the initial shock and didn't actually believe it at first that I was that big.
Even after I gained a lot more later I had a hard time realizing I was actually that big. I clearly didn't think I was as big as someone I would see who actually weighed less at a similar height.
Today I go back and forth with gaining weight but really never get under 235 lbs. I have hit a bit over 250 lbs.a few times.
Even at 235 lbs. I think other people see me as pretty big....partly because I am pretty muscular. But I don't feel nearly as big as most would think I am. I look at guys that seem way bigger than me and they way 200- 220 lbs. They look fat and over big and muscular. It's crazy after starting a weight lifting regiment again over the last two weeks I am gaining weight and my appetite has increased. I am struggling to button my slacks and I feel completely bloated after eating a good amount of food. I have not been below 225 lbs. For nearly 3 + yrs. now even with extreme attention to my diet and cardio.
I guess my set point is 235 Lbs. Now and who knows where I can build it to if I really tried.
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