For me fat symbolizes decadent overindulgence and gluttony
1 year
I’m having a bit of one as we speak I got size 52 trousers and they fit really well but I got a belt as well and didn’t consider trying it on I’m on the last loop 50-54 sized belt 😊
1 year
haven’t worn actual jeans in over 5 or 6 years lol
1 year
I got my first pair of slacks in a long time after wearing exclusively elastic and I didn’t realize how much of pain in the ass it is to button a pair of pants is with a massive hanging gut in the way even pants are to big it’s just such a chore to reach around to button them
1 year
Justinboo0313:
Yes, some advice would help!! I think I have worries of what co workers and family may say!! If I’m being honest. And I don’t me to share tmi. But I stuffed myself for the first time Tuesday night and my heart was pounding and I was shaking. But I took the last bite and I came!! I don’t no why or how but it happened ! Again sorry for the tmi!! It’s like I want to feel myself grow softer and bigger but it scares me to give into that.
I wouldn’t worry about it I’ve gained 260 pounds (assuming I’m around 400 still, doubtful 😌) and the most I’ve gotten was unsolicited diet advice more than once, one time when I was still like barely overweight someone said I was starting to look like them (they were like obese fat) and I got “are you trying to get as big as a house” to which i shut down instantly not gonna fat shame me, boundaries were set and haven’t been broached since. That’s the big thing set boundaries let people know you’re not there punching bag just like minorities are not. It’s not okay to bully.
But yeah we fetishize fat and eating so we are weird about it to most people it’s not that big of a deal… people might say something but it’ll come from a place of concern or meaning well cause ultimately people aren’t out to hurt other peoples feelings unless there some kind of sociopath
1 year
Jobs where you drive around a lot and have a lot of time to kill. I do more eating than working it feels like most days 😌
1 year
I’m not sure what label describes me best other than fat maybe foodie? Gainer probably cause I’m actively gaining but it’s sorta inevitable based on my lifestyle.
1 year
Bullying just stresses everyone involved even people who aren’t being actively bullied raising cortisol levels..
Humans aren’t even meant to burn fat we are designed for storing it. Losing weight is a problem.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined
Munchies:
This is true. Fat is demonized, and a lot of people think that fat shaming is "helping". I've heard a number of people say something like "Fat shaming is the only bullying that helps people." Feedism cannot and will not be accepted by the mainstream until we deal with fatphobia first.
Yup so true. It’s the “Last bastion of acceptable bigotry” someone phrased it as.
1 year
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined
1 year
