Interesting! I think that also the amount of weight gained as well as how many times these Lbs. have been gained or lost has a lot to do with where the Lbs. develop.

For example the first 10-20 Lbs. on a new gain or first time at that weight will most certainly go to the belly, thighs and butt on a woman. Many Lbs. after.... say the 60 Lbs. you mentioned probably will go all over filling out many place albeit some more prominent.

Also, I have noticed when my wife first gained weight before she lost it her belly got really big at first making her look almost 9 months pregnant and as she has gained and lost the same Lbs. her belly and love handles have gotten wider and softer and she can kind of hide her fatter softer belly but it certainly has more Fat accumulated. She doesn't look like she is 9 months pregnant with the same weight gained.

This is good.....I would like to hear as well!

Here are a few on similar topic:

When my wife gains a pretty good amount of weight I love to hear the bed strains bit or wiggle with her weight as she turns and move from side to side....usually followed by some heavier breathing from the extra work.

My wife tends to be a quite walker but when she gains a good amount of weight I can clearly hear her foot steps from a room away as opposed to her 20 lbs. Lighter where I can barely hear her coming.

I also love it after she has gained so e weight listening to her lift herself out of a chair or off if the couch usually when she is full and her a slight groan as she gets up as opposed to pure silence before she was thinner.

I completely understand the way you feel with regard to not seeing yourself as being as big as others see you.

I was thin and muscular up until I was around 25/26 yrs of age.
That was when I first put on a lot of weight. At first everyone that knew me saw the transformation which was a shock. My metabolism changed along with taking a desk job and no longer playing ball in college or working out. I get the initial shock and didn't actually believe it at first that I was that big.

Even after I gained a lot more later I had a hard time realizing I was actually that big. I clearly didn't think I was as big as someone I would see who actually weighed less at a similar height.

Today I go back and forth with gaining weight but really never get under 235 lbs. I have hit a bit over 250 lbs.a few times.
Even at 235 lbs. I think other people see me as pretty big....partly because I am pretty muscular. But I don't feel nearly as big as most would think I am. I look at guys that seem way bigger than me and they way 200- 220 lbs. They look fat and over big and muscular. It's crazy after starting a weight lifting regiment again over the last two weeks I am gaining weight and my appetite has increased. I am struggling to button my slacks and I feel completely bloated after eating a good amount of food. I have not been below 225 lbs. For nearly 3 + yrs. now even with extreme attention to my diet and cardio.

I guess my set point is 235 Lbs. Now and who knows where I can build it to if I really tried.

Yep.....kinda of crazy that we all look smaller in the morning.
By the end of the day I look and feel 20 lbs. heavier.

Good stuff!

I really liked the one with the dry cleaning lady.
Brutal honesty.....huh! I am surprised she didn't slap your belly and watch it jiggle after she spoke the truth to your face.

Yep....I agree they should open up the plus size market for not only shorter than there current norms but much heavier also.

I see a huge potential market for women of varying degrees in height and weight.

say: 5' - 5' 4" and weighing 170-230 Lbs.

I mean the average size woman is something like 5' 4" and around 160 Lbs. I believe.

You sound Fat to me! What do you think you are?

Love Leggings, Spandex workout pants etc.

My ex girlfriend as she started to gain weight in our relationship exclusively wore leggings our flowing long day dresses that completely clinged to her wide and big hips. As she got heavier she just wore leggings because she had a hard time trying to fit in some of those dresses for sizing and fit.

I absolutely loved it because she could just keep gaining and feel comfortable without being in a bad mood with trying to always struggle to find new jeans or new size jeans and be uncomfortable and possibly try and diet down.

I hear exactly what you are saying. I could understand how it made you feel.

But in my experiences I have never dated someone or gone out for a significant amount of time especially ...... if I didn't like many other things about the person.

I think Fluffiness and weight gain are just the total package on top of the personality and commonalities between each other. Obviously I think most would agree that you have to be attracted to the person physically as well as many other things that draw you into the particular person......such as overall personality, charm, sense of humor & morals etc.

With all that said It would be very difficult for me to fall totally in Love physically with a woman that is to skinny for me. Also, as I get older I seem to desire even more fluffiness and weight on my significant other.

Also, I do have to say that I have dated girls/women in the past that I didn't have everything in common with but dated them for a while longer than we should have simply because of the physical.....whether it been there nice heavier figure, overall appearance, attraction. So, I guess that is a part of maturing into knowing what is good for you and that person on all levels ....not just physically.

My wife has gained and lost over the years. Most of the time in the past several years it is usually a 10-20 Lb. swing either way. Obviously I wish for a much bigger gain always but this is just what has been typical.

But when she is starting to gain and the LBS. start to arrive it is the sexiest and best feeling for me. I almost get a crazy desire and happiness that comes over me.

Recently I have noticed her starting to gain weight again. It started with her clothes being snugger around her Butt, thighs and belly. I saw her get dressed the other night and come out of the room with a dress that fit somewhat loose around a year ago while she was obviously thinner .....and immediately I saw her come back out with a different one on. That dress she initially came out with looked extremely sexy on her ass squeezing through it, belly sticking out, hips bulging out of it & her breasts couldn't be contained in it. It easily looked a couple sizes to small but still very sexy to me.

Here are just a few of the things that I love as when I start to notice the LBS. arriving on her figure.....


Watching her grow out of clothes that fit just several months ago.

Being able to notice every new Lb. on her figure with excitement.

She is never one to wear to loose of clothing.....everything is mostly form fitting and fairly tight. when she buys a bigger size she usually grows out of it pretty quick while she is gaining. After a while she just keeps wearing the smaller clothing with her beautiful Fat squeezing out of her clothes. Almost as if she doesn't want to go up another size. I guess she has a size she won't let herself go past buying. Even when she was at her heaviest slightly over 200 Lbs. at 5' 3"she would squeeze into size 12 everything...but mostly wear stretchy stuff. She could of easily been into a size 16-18.....and her shirts were a medium and only sometimes a Large....but she becomes more of a pear shape at the higher weights with huge breasts and fluffy upper arms.

Watching her eat way bigger portions of food and enjoying herself.

watching her snack in between meals.....the few bites out of a bag of chips turns into finishing a whole bag of chips in between meals.

watching her go to the freezer directly following a big dinner for some ice cream for dessert.

watching the way she has enthusiasm for eating a nice meal and the way she kind of anticipates and gets excited.

Listening to her talk about how hungry she is before we get ready to go out for dinner.

It is so sexy to me to hear her talking about how hungry she is before we actually eat......not to mention watching how much more she eats during these times. Restaurant entrees never come close to filling her up not to mention she always has desserts at the restaurant during these times and usually followed by another dessert when we get home. So damn sexy!

The ultimate is when she actually starts commented about her weight gain......saying stuff like "It's getting tougher to get this big *** up" as she gets up off of the couch .....usually after eating and snacking or as we are lying down to bed she struggles and moves around while the bed shakes and she gets slightly out of breath and she say's "All this extra blubber makes it tough to move around and get comfortable". It is pure heaven to my ears......but I just worry that she won't lose any weight and that she keeps gaining more.

The absolute sexiest is when I know she know's she has gained a bunch of weight and it look's like she is not slowing down. She comments about being Fat and makes fun of it while she is usually snacking and then mention's something along the line that she has to get it under control......I get totally scared and go silent. Later I catch her sneaking snacks after dinner and dessert. she goes back into the pantry several times after cleaning up after dinner with a mouthful of cookies or chocolates. This out of control eating and snacking is so damn sexy to me after she know's she has gotten way heavier. She know's I love her heavy and if she would just give in completely and get totally heavy would be a dream.



Anyone else love it when there wife or girlfriend or husband / boyfriend goes through these stages when the LBs. start to arrive. Tell us some of the stages you love like above......it would be great to hear from other's.