Destiny?

Many feedees follow this pattern:

1. They gain weight intentionally for awhile and all is well and good.

2. But at some point they get cold feet and decide to lose weight. So they diet, and work out, and lose a bunch of weight.

3. Then--for whatever reason--they change their minds again and go back to gaining.


A couple of people have testified that this regaining experience is more intense than the original gain. One said it was the greatest experience of his life!

So: Have you had a regain of this sort? Was it particularly intense? In what way?

Yeah, it's actually pretty good. I never thought I would want to listen to it -- it's all about gay male gainers, not my thing-- but when I finally did I realized it's mostly about the general topic of gaining on purpose and the upsides and downsides thereof.

Fat Nat's interview is probably the best.

Yes, you're fat!

BBW? Idk, I've always thought that was a euphemism.

Eating before bed is not required. Makes it hard to sleep, as your metabolism revs up to digest all that food. It's also harder to digest if you're not moving around.

I have to point out that while it's hard to find the right person, it's probably the best time in human history to do so. At least there's a community of feedists now, even if it's only online.

When I was a young man I didn't even know feedees existed! I knew at least one feeder existed (me), and suspected that there were others, but didn't really know.

Here's the Fat Nat quote:

"I would just say GO for it...cause the fat thing, in my experience... I've never known anybody to successfully suppress their interest in fat forever. Eventually everybody caves. I think. And it's so much better to just be yourself. And do what you actually want to do. And if you want to get fat--there are difficulties, like finding clothes or whatever--but just do it! If it's what you're into it's such a great thing to do. And I can't REALLY see a reason not to do it. You know, if you can afford the food, afford the clothes...and you're thick-skinned enough to rebut comments from family members or whatever that's all you have to worry about.
"So just go for it. Getting fat is an amazing thing."

Barlett's most familiar quotation:

"Hey, can I use that in my book?"

Yeah, they have a public weigh-in and weigh-out. One guy gained 18 lbs in a week!

Thanks for clearing that up. It does seem to be limited to male gainers though. That's a pretty serious limitation in my book!



Apparently they have a no-sex rule (though belly-rubs and cuddling are allowed).