Fantasy Feeder

Are there girls who like obese men?

Malvineous:
Out of curiosity, I did a search on Feabie for women who like men who are "chubby with a belly", and got 7,793 results out of a total 19,424 women who like men in general, making it 40.1% of the total.
I repeated the same search on Grommr for men seeking men with the same body type. It returned 23,921 out of a total of 50,186, or 47.6%.

OP does have a point. Not only is the percentage higher for men by almost 8 points, but the gap between 7K women and 23K men is huge. It's no surprise that more men are in these communities than women, and combine that with women generally not making the first move and being more cautious than men online, and they're going to feel rare in comparison.

This data is less about different genders that like chubby people with a belly than it is about women who are comfortable enough to admit it on the platform they are on.

Basically, it's apples and oranges.

It also doesn't take into account plus-sized body types like chubby without a belly, morbidly obese, strong fat etc., etc.

It would be interesting to see a robust demographic study on the online feedist community. Unfortunately, despite all the attempts I've seen to make such a thing, the engagement has been piss-poor.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.

Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.

Misterelephant88:
I'm sorry if I didn't understand, I'm saying that I see more men interested in obese men, than women interested in obese men, sorry if I offended you Munchies, it wasn't my intention =(

I'm not offended by what you said. It's just that I foresaw this attracting people who are dumb about women, which has unfortunately come true.

To be clear, I am not saying you are the cause of this misogyny. This is a case of clumsy words and misogynists taking any excuse they can to shit on women.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Letters And Numbers:
Let's call the derail over and move back to the original topic of the thread, if anyone else has anything to add. OP, I think it's safe to say that both men and women can be, and are, attracted to men of all sizes, including obese men.

Lotta people have a lot of preferences. Sure, you're not going ti be everyone's cup of tea, but there are plenty of people, of all genders, that like different shapes and sizes.

Especially on here.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

HRHB15:
It’s wild how people would pin someone as aggressive or malicious for what they say here. Almost like being labeled misogynistic out of the blue because someone doesn’t like what you say…

I hope that medicine tastes good.

I came here and stumbled on a three clown circus 🤡 🤡🤡

Have a great day!

I am confused that you think you've been misattributed before. But perhaps that's a conversation for DMs.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Letters And Numbers:
Ask for clarification if you are confused by what another user is saying, please.

I'm not confused by their words so much as I am perplexed by their conclusion.

And when I asked, "Are you saying?" I'm really asking, "Is this what you're going with?"

At which point OP can either double down or reorganize their thoughts.

This is not to pick at OP. I have no ill will towards them. However, I've seen time and time again where similar clumsy statements embolden the He-man Woman Haters(TM). One particularly memorable thread started with a different OP asking a similar question. It took very little time for a certain flavor of user to swarm the thread and start bashing women.

The OP realized what he did and apologized unprompted. Unfortunately, the damage had already been done, and the woman bashing continued for a few days after the OP apologized.

Once again, I do not think OP is being malicious. We've interacted before, and I never got that vibe from them. But all it takes is one clumsy statement for the gross people to latch onto things.

6 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.

Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.

Letters And Numbers:
If I'm interpreting correctly, he might be talking about his own personal experience, which is anecdotal, but a valid thing to talk about. No need to be rude. Not everyone always expresses themselves super clearly.

I'm not being rude. I am being very blunt.

When you say things like this, it feeds into the narrative that women only like guys with a 6 pack. This is hardly true, and it paints women as vain and men who are not fit as being straight out of luck.

And in fat fetish places where there is already a narrative among men that most women on here only want women, it's not great.

Also, OP is not a man. Not sure if they are still using they/them pronouns tho.

7 months

Munchies

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.

I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.

7 months

Munchies

Anyone reached goal weight - couldn't stop?

AskDrFeeder:
I have no hard data, but it seems to me that the people most likely to go out of control are those who stuff to the point where they can't take a deep breath once a week or more

Morbidly A Beast:
I am confusion do you mean that in the literal sense or the figurative sense

Extreme feeder here. This is an actual thing people do. I've stuffed my feedees and playmates to this point many times. Mind you I prefer masochistic feedees to general gluttons. My partner loves it when I stuff him until he can hardly breathe and is pinned to the bed with how stuffed he is.

Not everyone stuffs to that point because they are masochists. Some are legitimately that greedy. Others have a more competitive mindset and want to push their capacity.

You can come back from this, but it's hard. You need the desire to stop as well as having a good support system.

7 months

Munchies

Food intolerances and gaining

CustardCream:
Thank you again Munchies!

I will book in to see my doctor as soon as they can. Whilst it is wonderful to have the NHS, it can take ages to get appointments now!

That is why I've paid privately for the autism testing and the food intolerance test. The latter was a do it at home blood test, where I pricked my finger, filled a capillary rod and sent it back. As part of that process, I get a half hour call with a nutritionalist, and wanted to have some questions ready for them, hence making the post here.

Cow's Milk and Wheat scored 100/100 on their test chart.

Oh yeah. Avoid those at all costs.

I will say that once these allergens are completely out of your system (this can take a few weeks) you'll notice a big change in your skin, mood, and brain function.

7 months

Munchies

Mourning others' weight loss

Manganeasymoney:
I don't know why but ever since I found out someone in the Community got wls I've been in a very real state of mourning. Going on 8 years since I found out and I still cry when I think about it which is basically all the time. For perspective I loved my mother as deeply as a son could but since she passed I have not been able to cry once in the 2 months since she left us but I absolutely weep several times a week when I think about the other. Also I'm autistic and one of my traits is that things have to make sense through logic and mathematics but a thin person intentionally gaining weight just to get the surgery makes zero sense. If I could just know the reasons for her decisions I feel like I could start to recover and feel human again and not have to pretend I give a shit when people talk to me and then have to say something that seems like an appropriate response because I can't interact with the world naturally anymore. Sorry if I'm rambling. This is a cry for help eight years in the making. I don't know what to do.

This is a certified Go Touch Grass (TM) moment.

Seek professional help. Unfortunately, internet strangers are not equipped to give the support you are looking for. This is not specific to this community; rather, it requires a trained professional. And even if there are any psychiatrists or therapists on this site, they'd agree that this isn't a setting conducive to personal healing.

7 months

Munchies