There are polite ways to be assertive and impolite ways. I have nothing wrong with people stating their opinions. But if someone is sarcastic or nasty, they may turn off people, even those who fit their criteria.
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This just shows what happens when people diet. They regain all the weight plus more.
I wish there was a way she could be happy. It's not like she enjoys it. But she is at a point where she gets fat if she diets, and gets fat when she doesn't diet.
Usually, people like Walter Hudson and others who were media freaks end up dying from losing and gaining a lot of weight very quickly.
I truly hope things work out for her somehow.
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Actually I started the thread 5 years ago. Time flies!
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sacredbliss2011 wrote:muscleslovescurves wrote:
... i feel like i am totally missing something here....
real/fake meter??? Voting system???
i honestly have NO IDEA what this is!!
Is this the rating thing on your profile where people can write from "totally awesome" to "average" ???
I'm think it is something eles. Can someone please enlighten me??
Same. I am confused.
There used to be a place for people to vote if people were real or fake. It got abused and it was removed. I think I started this thread about 2 years ago, and it recently got resurrected.
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I am down to 5 cats, after having 8. I also have a stray who is like a member of the family.
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If people want to role play, I have no problems with that. But there are many ways people can be fake, and it can lead to someone getting hurt. Someone who is married pretending to be single and available, for example. Or someone pretending to be female, when they are male. If they take it too far to where a male plans to meet a female, and that person never shows up, because the person does not exist.
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You have to remember, it is all about the money. If medical researchers can prove a "disease" is contageous, they get more research money. If they can prove it is an epidemic, they get more research money.
13 years
One thing I don't like are videos that promote pay sites. They are more interested in finding new clients than putting on a good show.
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It's funny, that the whole problem is that assuming everyone should be the same size. Nobody is too anything. Everyone is what they are. Telling someone that they should change is wrong.
If someone comes across someone that they feel is the wrong size, then the thing that should be changed, is that the person thinking somone is the wrong size should go find someone who he (or she) considers the right size.
13 years
ReadTheWind wrote:
I can sort of relate. I'm tiny at only 100lbs, but I go to a school where's there's only a few overweight people. I sometimes see this one guy who is quite large and I really want to talk to him and be his friend. I'm too shy though. He's always alone... Where I live it's unacceptable to be overweight. I live in a beach/party culture community where if you're not at the gym for at least 6 hours a day, then you're a nobody and far from attractive. I feel really upset that I can't find any large people here to befriend and cuddle up to. I just want to find people like you guys and hang out. You'd get so many compliments (and cookies) from me all the time!
Me: I'm not worrrrrthy of your goddess-like presence!
Imaginary large friends: Char, shut up you're embarrassing us!
Me: But you're soooo amaaaazing!
I would go for it anyway. Just say hi, and see where it goes. He is probably shy too.
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