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Ni Ki wrote:
11. It's a good floating device when swimming. smiley


Is it really more buoyant?
11 years

Not being able to sit up

I like this on a slightly different level!

When my wife started gaining and was at her heaviest.....she couldn't even do a sit up no matter how hard she tried. I thought it was incredibly sexy and I loved it.

She was only a bit over 200 Lbs. at 5' 3" but got really out of shape with her belly and her stomach muscles. Like I said it was so damn sexy I couldn't even believe it....she kind of joked around at first while laying down and then really gave huge effort and still couldnt do it. She was vulnerable for one of the few times in her life. After she was done struggling she struggled to hoist her new bigger figure off the ground and came in to hug me and in a soft pouty voice she said "I am a big Fatty now".....and it was so damn cute hearing that.
11 years

Choosing to have no choice.

Big beautiful cupcake wrote:
I often fantasize about being so fat that I'm immobile or need help, but never considered it a reality. I would love to be forced to gain weight. I am kind of submissive so the idea of a rough, force feeder who exploits all of my favorite foods so that I can't stop eating is very alluring. I am turned on by being powerless and helpless and would give up control and be willing to get HUGE.



This is Very sexy.....and my kind of ideal with such vulnerability.
11 years

Sex positions with a ssbhm

SomeFatGuy wrote:
I read somewhere that for every 30 pounds over weight a man becomes it takes a half inch off the length of his manhood. That fat pubic mound soon surrounds all of his man parts. And speaking from personal experience that statement is true. For me at my current size conventional sex is nearly impossible unless I'm with a very very thin women. If you want to know full detail about my sexual experiences before and after my weight gain, PM me. But for now my partner and I have turned to oral or the use of toys. Yes this does take away form the intimacy.



Are you sure it is not mostly size and relation difference from when you were thinner?

I mean when I was thinner it seemed like my penis was my third leg....but that was when I was 165 Lbs. Now that I never dip below 235 Lbs. ....same heght as before the relation is much different.

I believe there will be some shrinkage because of the lower abdomen fluffing out and taking away some distance for penetration.
11 years

Airplane seatbelts & extenders

Yep....airplane seats have a way of making you feel way fatter than you think you are. They just are extremely small all together.
11 years

Getting your so into fat

Really like your post!

I agree that sometimes over time things change....or even that the girl was slightly insecure before about even liking the little amount of Fat....or simply they learned to like it after they fell in Love.

So many variables I guess. My wife has changed when we first met till now and then she goes slightly back and forth which confuses me even more.

When we were dating she told me a similar thing after I got more into weight lifting. She mentioned she would like it if I was more cut up, lean and had ripped abs......this was after I put on a lot of bulk muscle and started getting a bigger belly...."muscle chub".

As years went on after we were married she mentioned after I got a bit fat.....that I should watch it a bit....meaning my fat belly.

One time, She seemed so intranced by a friend of ours who gained a lot of weight and developed a huge jiggly belly. She was slightly buzzed and repeatedly grabbed and jiggled it. I thought after that maybe she really like a Fat gut but was to shy to admit it before.

Several years after this.....I started gaining weight and decided to intentionally gain as much as I could to see how she responded. She didn't say a thing for the first 35+ Lbs. and it was clearly obvious....I could barely reach over to tie my shoes with my big Fat belly getting in the way. I kept eating and getting bigger. I would try and and get her to say something by wearing t shirts around that didn't fit anymore with my gut hanging out the bottom...and these were my XL's. I would go in for a kiss and say goodbye and my big gut would barely allow us to touch lips while my gut would be pushing us away...with every bit of my Fatness of belly right into her.

She only commented a couple times during my Fattest when she was intoxicated and it seemed as though she loved it by poking fun at me while she grabbed and jiggled my belly and then cupped my chest and shaked it commenting I don't remember all this stuff.

I am still confused because not just 3 weeks ago she mentioned about a big guy we both saw together...."if you got that big I would be disgusted" and send you to a Fat camp. Granted he was Fat, wobbly and out of shape while a become more of a Fat Muscle Chub as I get bigger....but I don't know....still confused.
11 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Luvsabigbelly wrote:
I myself have always been drawn to fuller figure woman. But, also found it very arousing and erotic to mutually gain with a BBW or SSBBW since puberty. With time and age, I packed on the pounds and enjoyed the experience of growing fat!



Yep......Have always loved fuller figure women....who am I kidding...I love em Fat! But I do realize that Mutual Gaining has to be the sexiest.
11 years

Men or women & weight gain???

browneyedfeedee wrote:
Keep in mind, women are punished in our society for being fat, so that could be one reason why women on this website (and in life) are not so open to gaining. I would be more open to it if I didn't have to deal with discrimination. Also, health concerns and having to buy new clothes are a concern smiley


Makes sense! I wish it were not so
11 years

Men or women & weight gain???

swell wrote:
If my health problems didn't make gaining more than what I'm at now very problematic, I would probably be more into intentional mutual gaining. But as it stands, I'm more into being the feeder.

Ideally, I'd yo-yo for the rest of my life, losing for the express purpose of gaining it back. But as losing weight is so hard with my health problems I'm just enjoying eating whatever I want within reason and more or less maintaining.


Sorry to hear that! Love your name Swell! Feeding is still pretty fun....watching and guessing where the next Lbs. will show up is definitely a favorite of mine.....especially when I see my wife eating out of control at certain times.
11 years

Men or women & weight gain???

growingbellyboy wrote:
For me, I never wanted to gain any weight until I started college. Then I started toying with the idea of gaining some weight, but never went through with it. I would stuff myself at the school's dining hall once in a while and think that it might be fun to fatten up, but never did. I probably would've gained if a S/O wanted me to, but I wouldn't have been crazy about it. Back then I'd say I was about 90/10% in favor of being the feeder.

Then over the next couple of years I completely changed. I started liking the idea of gaining weight more and more. Ideally I'd love a mutual gaining relationship, but if I couldn't have that and had to choose between being the feeder or feedee, I would definitely choose to be the feedee. A few years ago that wouldn't have been the case at all. So today, I'd say my desire is about 80% to see myself gain and 20% to see others gain. I still love to see others gain, but gaining myself has been so enjoyable that I lean towards that now.

Not really sure what triggered this change in me. I think it might just be because I've never actually had a feederism-type relationship irl so the only gain I can see first hand is my own. I don't think I would ever go back either, gaining is too much fun. smiley


Interesting stuff .....I can certainly relate. For me I think I found gaining weight on myself so satisfying was because there was a lack of gaining on my wives figure. Although I agree gaining weight myself there is always something there to view, feel and work at getting bigger and it is always right there.
11 years