Too fat to have sex

crazyfnbill wrote:
Well, at 375... being on top is always always out of the question. Unless I'm standing at the edge of the bed and her legs are on my shoulders.

However, being on bottom is still 100% doable (no pun intended) and I find that a girl who loves big guys, tends to love the 'cowgirl' position to better play with my belly and moobs.

So yes, missionary doesn't work well, but everything else is still just fine! smiley lol


Yep....I also like it on bottom with my wife riding me because I get to enjoy all her weight and belly jiggling.

Do you remember at what weight you realized missionary wasn't working as well? Also, what were the first indicators, your weight on her, your belly to big to get full penetration from many angles, did she mention anything, or could you tell that it wasn't as good for both of you in this position or your extra weight tired you out and were kind of lazy and just had her get on top.

The reason I ask for me it seems like several combination's. I think my wife know's I am heavier and my belly gets in the way a bit now so she tends to hop on cowgirl and to be honest I may be a bit lazier because it seems like at night which is our typical session time that I am always stuffed Fat and I am more submissive to her.

Interested to know!
11 years

Do you feel sexy ?

Bejewler wrote:
When I'm talking to an FA yes, very. When I'm around friends and family, or out at clubs... Not usually.



Well you should always! Great new pic by the way.
11 years

Too fat to have sex

voluptuouslover wrote:
I am not even that Big ....yet.... but I can already tell that several positions would be very difficult & challenging with a much bigger belly.

When my belly is stuffed it is 46"+ around and I am 244 Lbs. as of the other day. When I make love to my wife missionary my belly definitely gets in the way which actually makes it even more arousing to me and it sounds like to her as well. Although it is pretty exciting for us I can tell my weight and belly certainly feel heavy on top of her in this position. At certain angles for missionary even at my current size my belly stop's me from full penetration and I have to move slightly to the side to get full penetration. I know my weight on top of her at times is a little bit much because I have seen her facial expressions and hear her gasp a bit for breath after we are finished and more of my weight is resting on her.

This is entirely different from when my wife was heavier with a bigger belly and I had not developed my big old gut yet. Missionary was so much easier even though she was a lot fatter. It has only been since I grew a big belly that this position is harder.

I can only imagine if i weighed another 30-40 more Lbs. and my belly measured 55"+. It might be tough to make it work. Never in my wildest dreams could I have ever imagined this but now I kind of think about it....based on the little struggles we have had at my current size. I honestly believe another 20+ Lbs. and my wife will comment to me about my belly getting to big to make love missionary because it clearly gets in the way at my current weight. Not to mention she may think I might smother her being on top.



I am kind of curious about some of the other guy's on this site with much bigger bellies and how they fare missionary style or other tough positions that don't work anymore with their extra belly girth? Please give me some good examples and stories!
11 years

Too fat to have sex

I am not even that Big ....yet.... but I can already tell that several positions would be very difficult & challenging with a much bigger belly.

When my belly is stuffed it is 46"+ around and I am 244 Lbs. as of the other day. When I make love to my wife missionary my belly definitely gets in the way which actually makes it even more arousing to me and it sounds like to her as well. Although it is pretty exciting for us I can tell my weight and belly certainly feel heavy on top of her in this position. At certain angles for missionary even at my current size my belly stop's me from full penetration and I have to move slightly to the side to get full penetration. I know my weight on top of her at times is a little bit much because I have seen her facial expressions and hear her gasp a bit for breath after we are finished and more of my weight is resting on her.

This is entirely different from when my wife was heavier with a bigger belly and I had not developed my big old gut yet. Missionary was so much easier even though she was a lot fatter. It has only been since I grew a big belly that this position is harder.

I can only imagine if i weighed another 30-40 more Lbs. and my belly measured 55"+. It might be tough to make it work. Never in my wildest dreams could I have ever imagined this but now I kind of think about it....based on the little struggles we have had at my current size. I honestly believe another 20+ Lbs. and my wife will comment to me about my belly getting to big to make love missionary because it clearly gets in the way at my current weight. Not to mention she may think I might smother her being on top.
11 years

Sex positions with a ssbhm

FemaleFatAdmirer wrote:
Some women like it very, very much.


Very very good to know....just in case I slip way past the 250 or even 300 Lb. mark in the future.

Quite the beautiful belly you have there by the way!
11 years

Male feeders for men?

Cant say that I can prove you wrong!

I myself for what it is worth drive sexual excitement from women gaining weight firstly and found it exciting in the last several years to gain myself..... being that it has been much easier the older I get. Also, this started because of the lack of weight gain on my wife and in general in my life at that particular moment.

Now thinking about it ....I think I would only let my wife feed and fatten me if she were willing, in fact I get pretty turned on thinking of her fattening me up and teasing me about how big she got me. This... or another women that drew excitement from feeding me and getting me bigger.

Just my bit of input to your post.....I find that the percentages you are looking for will probably be pretty small.
11 years

Weight gain & eating

browneyedfeedee wrote:
So many guys here seem to struggle with this very problem! Gaining weight may be fun for many of us here on FF, but to others it isn't. There is a loss of control aspect to this; your wife may want to stop gaining and even lose, but obviously is losing that battle. I know I have gone through this - I don't always want to gain and have at times been disgusted with myself for not having any control. My only advice is to continue to she her you love her, focusing on the things you love about her that have nothing to do with her weight and just be patient. There is nothing you can do to help her accept or even love her extra weight; only she can decide how she feels about it. Hope I've helped BBW_)


Gotcha

Yes....It sounds simple but I just wish she would be vulnerable and totally give in knowing that I love her gaining and getting bigger and she would feel great just getting to eat anything and everything she wants and knowing that I will love the effects it has on her figure.

There have been many women I have heard on this site and elsewhere that do that......I guess the percentages are low....and there are a lot of variables involved to those particular percentages
11 years

Weight gain & eating

The bad thing is while she is gaining weight even though I love watching her et and gain.....she is always in a bad mood.

I would love to tell her how sexy she is but she goes through a transition stage and acts disgusted by her weight gain.

In the past I have always just weathered the storm and kind of looked on from a slight distance not directing to much attention her way because she get's a little bugged out knowing I like her extra fattened up figure.....and it kind of magnifies that she is gaining and getting bigger.

Any suggestions from a woman's point of view how I should try and approach it this time?

I would love for her to at least accept and sort of like all the new weight she gains and hopefully continue on with much bigger gains.
11 years

Cholesterol and gaining

You may also look into cholesterol medication.. This may help lower it even while you are eating fattening carb loaded food and gaining a lot of weight.
11 years