Definitely love Pear shaped women....It is my ideal body type on a woman.

My wife when we met (at her lightest) was an hour glass with Big hips, thighs, breasts and fair size shoulders. When she first started gaining a little.... her hips, thighs, and butt expanded much more rapidly then the rest of her and her figure turned more into a pear shape. At her heaviest she was a full blown Pear shape along with huge breasts and really Fat fluffy upper arms......it's funny how her shoulders stayed the same obviously but her Hips got really wide with soft huge thunder thighs and huge love handles and a massive butt......her shoulders looked so narrow in comparison. Even at her current weight which is around 40-50 Lbs less than her heaviest she still has a definite Pear shape.

Pears are the sexiest.....but I also love mine with a Big lower belly with a slight hang and some huge breasts along with some huge fat upper arms!!!

Funny thing on a different level......I have had friends or acquaintances who happened to be pretty overweight and out of shape mention they would never date a girl over 110 Lbs. or that would have a butt the size where they showed there hands which equated to around 10-12 inches.

I would always think to myself even after telling them what makes them so special....."what a fricken hypocrite"!

I guess it is a self esteem thing with most of those types of guys and having the girl elevate them and bring them up. I get that everyone likes different things but the guy's that would discuss it openly like that are kind of a joke!

Sorry to hear this.....you can't make someone be less cruel or understanding i guess until they fully mature and care about others.

And I guess some people are just so brainwashed into thinking fat is so bad and taboo....crazy thought's from these people!

I guess I am totally unaware of this type of behavior even when I was quite young being that myself would have never acted disrespectfully plus I liked heavier girls..... nor any guy's I hung out with because I would have made them shut up or hit them.

I really liked your though's and actions with a guy possibly hitting on you at a bar. It clearly shouldn't be a joke but I loved the way you thought of it.

This is kind of an eye opening thing for me....and an interesting topic although it makes me a bit sad the same.

Definitely happened to me!!!

Several times I have gained and was getting almost as turned on by myself gaining as my wife.

I think I have come to a point where mutual gaining seems like the most feelings I have toward this fetish.

Although I do go in stages with myself gaining. I think I probably got so turned on by myself gaining because of the lack of gaining with my wife initially.

I have noticed this many times...exactly what you said!

I call it the two week change......I can be eating like a pig, somewhat unhealthy, sweets, many cokes and am surprised how I don't gain any weight. All of a sudden at the two week point even though I am not eating as much and even healthier notice all the gain. Usually around 8-10 Lbs. I cant button my shorts or slacks, my belly sticks way out and I cant suck in and that two week eating all of a sudden showed up in a big way on my body.

Crazy thing is this same two week window seems to apply with me while working out. I can be cutting way back and working out insanely and nothing changes.....all of a sudden two weeks later I notice the changes. Although losing 10 Lbs. is much longer than gaining those same 10 lbs.

This is Great.....I obviously was not that quick to think at the time. I just really wanted to let her know that I appreciated how she looked....especially after I couldn't recognize her for a while.

She was probably thinking how embarrassing it was about how much weight she gained after I didn't recognize her for a while. I guess I just have a real soft spot, not to mention I love weight gain, and truly think most of the time it look's better on the person.

A girlfriend of mine along time ago said that right in front of me to one of her ex co-workers that hadnt seen her in a while......."you look different, did you change your hair style"? She said no, I gained 20 Lbs.


I guess that sure can open thing's up!

I can't seem to find the thread now but I know there is one related to this but just wanted to get my thoughts down.

It finally made some sense to me earlier today..... I saw a woman I have not seen in 3 years. While walking past me in a store she said Hi and stopped me as if she knew me and then proceeded to tell me how she knew me. I finally said oh ya........I was a little embarrassed at first that I didn't recognize her for what seemed like a minute or longer .... but her once 3 years ago 5' 6" frame weighing around 140 Lbs. and very cute was now around 330 + Lbs. I would estimate....still extremely cute with a heck of a lot of curves and Fat.....Wow the curves she developed.

All I could think about while we were talking was "I wonder how she gained so much weight"? Was it just eating, fad dieting before, was she once this heavy before I knew her and gained it back and more, or was her husband a feeder and he grew his wife into a Beautiful BBW. All these thoughts were going through my mind.

So relating this back to another thread of weight gain and how friends etc. who have not seen you with the gain react. She probably didn't remember the exact time she gained the weight based on the last time I have seen her. Many of her other friends and people in her life have already seen her being more than double in size than she used to be. It was not only a shock for me but I truly didn't recognize her for at least a minute while we were talking and she was explaining our meeting many times these three years ago. She probably thought after we she left that I had surely not seen her since her weight gain. So, I guess everyone is different but it is hard to keep track who as seen you and when since a big weight gain....so it is hard for the person who gained to identify the differences between people with their gain.....unless it is something like a High School reunion where everyone there has not seen you since the gain.
expanding a littl....
she probably couldn't remember when the last time I saw her exactly was and exactly how big she was at that time because she may have thought like many people she runs into she had already gained the majority of the weight and they were used to it. But actually i have not seen her since I would say extra 150 Lbs. so she looked totally different to me.

I thought she looked really beautiful and I really wanted to let her know but I am sure it would have come off weird. The FA in me wanted to say to her "you have gained some weight and curves and it look's really Beautiful on you" because I am sure she has not had many positive comments about her big weight gain......but society warps things so bad she probably would feel bad about it even if I really meant it......just bringing up anything relating to her weight.

Truthfully I thought she was very classy and Beautiful and 10 times sexier than she was.....but obviously 99% of any guys or females for that matter would think otherwise.

My girlfriend in High School at 17 got a job at a chain sit down type restaurant as a Hostess. Her uniform happened to be a blouse and bermuda type shorts which she wore very form fitting.

They were allowed a meal after work as well as a desert....not to mention she said she was always snacking when it was slow on corn bread with butter and other sides.

During her two years working there she gained roughly 25 Lbs. and had to get 3 bigger size bermuda shorts and 2 bigger blouses.

She knew I loved her gain and would always discuss how Fat she was getting with me. She didn't seem to mind it at all other than the fact her knew bigger size uniforms would always get deducted from her check not to mention she would have to ask her Manager for the new uniform and would always have to change the size on her re-order uniform card. Although it was kind of common place for most all of the hostess and waitresses.....fact was they all gained weight after working there for a bit.

It almost seemed like a weight gain paradise for the guy employees or even for me as a boyfriend watching all her work friends and especially her keep fattening up.