Lack of fashionable clothes for men

Bigwideland:
In Australia once your in 10xl territory have no options. Horrible track pants tops and plain tees. We lack the market to support much else. I have started using on line tailored jeans so far not to bad for fit, fabric can be a bit thin, so I get patches in between the legs to increase life.


Damn. I don't know anyone in 10 XLs. Then again, I do not know how American and Aussie sizes differ
6 months

Lack of fashionable clothes for men

CelticBlimp:
One of the worst aspects about being a fat guy is having to conform with boring, ugly clothes. It's either sports clothes or simple plain clothes without any personality whatsoever. I'm someone who not only likes to feel and look good, but I want my clothes to reflect who I am, but it is impossible. Unless you have money and can afford tailored clothes, the only option left is cheap low quality brands that are bad for the environment and exploit workers.


It absolutely sucks. My partner sometimes wishes he was 200 lbs lighter so he could wear some of the more fashionable clothes he sees in the store.

That said, if you have the time and skill, you can always make your own.
6 months

Does everyone here get turned on by fat or gaining?

Stockylove:
I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.


I feel like we feeders do not have this conversation enough. It's all about how fat you can make your feedee. Hardly anyone talks about the fear of hurting your feedee or the guilt that comes from a health scare.
6 months

This needs to be shared

Delta9:
Go on YouTube and search SandwichCutieCat.
You'll thank me.

Enas:
I need something much more aggressive than this! 😂


You need to touch grass - and I say this as someone who also likes it intense.
6 months

This needs to be shared

Delta9:
Go on YouTube and search SandwichCutieCat.
You'll thank me.

Munchies:
I mean ... it's a cute channel and all, but I fear this is something I am too straight to understand.

Stockylove:
And me too gay for understand.


Straight woman - gay man solidarity
6 months

Have you ever gotten off simply by playing with your belly?

RundeNina:
Oh that is one of the biggest pleassures....when my fingers dig deep into the soft flesh and dissapear, playing with my belly button, slowly massage my way down....ohhhh loooove it

Marc Aurel:
What's wrong with people, who regret answering on mails and comments?


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6 months

This needs to be shared

Delta9:
Go on YouTube and search SandwichCutieCat.
You'll thank me.

Munchies:
I mean ... it's a cute channel and all, but I fear this is something I am too straight to understand.

Ne3d2Fe3d:
I get subtle, vague female feeder vibes! Maybe that’s what he is feeling 🤣

Munchies:
Well, seeing that I am a female feeder, that might be why it doesn't do anything for me.

Ne3d2Fe3d:
That explains that then. For my female feeder needs I generally have to go to the story section to get my fix, you feeders are so rare.


We are rare online. That is an important distinction.

But we are getting off-topic from OP's post.
6 months

This needs to be shared

Delta9:
Go on YouTube and search SandwichCutieCat.
You'll thank me.

Munchies:
I mean ... it's a cute channel and all, but I fear this is something I am too straight to understand.

Ne3d2Fe3d:
I get subtle, vague female feeder vibes! Maybe that’s what he is feeling 🤣


Well, seeing that I am a female feeder, that might be why it doesn't do anything for me.
6 months

This needs to be shared

Delta9:
Go on YouTube and search SandwichCutieCat.
You'll thank me.


I mean ... it's a cute channel and all, but I fear this is something I am too straight to understand.
6 months

Stuffing my self vs binge eating

Eating Dude:
Hi,

I was wondering what the difference between binge eating and stuffing myself is. Sometimes I love to overeat and I am then impressed by how stuffed I am. On the other side, rationally thinking this isn't good and I don't want to outgrow my garderobe again.

As I sometimes am in a conflict of gain Vs loose Vs maintain weight I was asking myself where is the border between binge eating and overeating yourself and gaining if you sometimes think rationally?


ED's are pretty common in this space. That said, most people fall into the recovering anorexia/bulimia camp or are straight-up food addicts.

This is not to say there aren't people in this community with BED or who are recovering from BED. But, as Morbidly mentions, erotic eating is fundamentally different from BED, even if it looks the same on the outside sometimes.

The main difference is that erotic eating lacks the shame, secrecy, and lack of control found in BED. Even if you feel ashamed or embarrassed of your kink, the issue isn't the kink itself. Instead, it's more about being into the taboo and other's judgment.
6 months