Hopefully after dating him for 2.5 years, you can just come out and ask him. But if not, then make comments and see how he reacts. Tell him you want to be thin, and see what he says. Tell him if you eat any more you'll gain a lot of weight, and see what he says.

I hate to be honest, but it sounds like the poster is just collecting pitty points. You are supposed to learn from your mistakes to avoid making the same ones. Not see how many of the same mistakes you can collect so you can complain. It also seems that your definition of a nice guy is one who is a door mat.

With as many problems you have with long distance relationships, you need to find someone local. Unless you live in the middle of nowhere, if you can't find anyone local, you need to evaluate the problem.

try looking in the personal section.

It's simple. Do you want a fat girlfriend, or your current girlfriend? Obviously, you can't have both. Decision time.

OK, let me get this straight. She weighed around 500 pounds. So, they put her on a diet, and she gains 200 pounds to 700 pounds.

Now, they want to put her on another diet?

This makes no sense. How does someone you meet in a bar help himself to your bank account?

If he took money without your permission, you are not responsible. Contact the bank.

Also, if he took 500 Pounds, and your rent is 565 Pounds, how do you not have enough money for vacation?

There are polite ways to be assertive and impolite ways. I have nothing wrong with people stating their opinions. But if someone is sarcastic or nasty, they may turn off people, even those who fit their criteria.

This just shows what happens when people diet. They regain all the weight plus more.

I wish there was a way she could be happy. It's not like she enjoys it. But she is at a point where she gets fat if she diets, and gets fat when she doesn't diet.

Usually, people like Walter Hudson and others who were media freaks end up dying from losing and gaining a lot of weight very quickly.

I truly hope things work out for her somehow.

Actually I started the thread 5 years ago. Time flies!

There used to be a place for people to vote if people were real or fake. It got abused and it was removed. I think I started this thread about 2 years ago, and it recently got resurrected.